♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V6♥

[Vixem]

If you read my 2 posts before, you’d understand this one better.

I think my boyfriend is having an affair overseas, I know I said he reassured me when
I spoke to him but I just found a hidden contact on his phone. I’m suspicious since it
was way down the bottom of his contact list? It’s a girl too, I’ve never even heard of
her name..

I asked him about it but he denied everything.

He removed his social media information from my device last night when I was asleep
which makes me mad because I feel like he’s trying to hide something now.

[Ventru]

If you read my 2 posts before, you’d understand this one better.

I think my boyfriend is having an affair overseas, I know I said he reassured me when
I spoke to him but I just found a hidden contact on his phone. I’m suspicious since it
was way down the bottom of his contact list? It’s a girl too, I’ve never even heard of
her name..

I asked him about it but he denied everything.

He removed his social media information from my device last night when I was asleep
which makes me mad because I feel like he’s trying to hide something now.

Definitely sounds really fishy. Talk to him about it, explain your worries and how his actions seem very suspicious. See how he reacts. I'd imagine if he wasn't cheating, he'd have a VERY good explanation and would do anything he can to prove he's not cheating.

[WastedSpace]

If you read my 2 posts before, you’d understand this one better.

I think my boyfriend is having an affair overseas, I know I said he reassured me when
I spoke to him but I just found a hidden contact on his phone. I’m suspicious since it
was way down the bottom of his contact list? It’s a girl too, I’ve never even heard of
her name..

I asked him about it but he denied everything.

He removed his social media information from my device last night when I was asleep
which makes me mad because I feel like he’s trying to hide something now.

This sort of distrust/paranoia usually points to either (or possibly both):
- A fundamental problem in the relationship that was never properly solved so that all involved parties can trust each other that should be honestly talked about between the people in the relationship
- A personal issue regarding distrust/paranoia that would probably be beneficial to talk with a professional about so that the negative feelings can be coped with in a more healthy manner

Sorry, that's unfortunate.

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I didn't my crush at the store she was working today and I want to ask what day can I see her working what to do? who to ask?

[leeheeseung]

hi i wanna get this off my chest because i need a second opinion.
a few hours ago, my ex was intoxicated by some juice and sent me snaps that
were very questionable. u catch my drift

at first, i thought it was an accident or a general snap, but i messaged two of my
friends who were also friends with him and neither of them received
the same or any snaps from him.

last time i checked, i was not in his recents, he was not in mine.

ofc, i replied to the first snap, as a reaction.
but he kept on replying to me, immediately might i add.
they were humorous and it just demonstrated how much
hes drank throughout the night.

the last snap i got from him was a selfie stating
his current situation and he never opened my other two snaps since.
one to reply to his last snap, "i hope ur ok"
and another one that was general.

honestly i feeling nothing but amusement and a hint
of anger.

was this an honest mistake or is he trying something.
disclaimer: he broke up with me, so idk whats up

edit: we also ended on good terms, and we are friends
but we are ex's afterall, so sending me something interesting
really, REALLY, triggers my curiosity like. hmm, HMMM

¯\_(ツ)_/¯¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[Kisiel]

I didn't my crush at the store she was working today and I want to ask what day can I see her working what to do? who to ask?

I'm sorry but you should really leave her alone and let her do her job. There's nothing worse than being harassed and disturbed while you're at your work place, and while I understand that people may have good intentions and just want to chat or whatever but it can be very frustrating when you have a job to do. I would honestly advise against it.

To answer your question though, if you want to know her shifts she would probably be the best person to ask.

[/////]

I didn't my crush at the store she was working today and I want to ask what day can I see her working what to do? who to ask?

I'm sorry but you should really leave her alone and let her do her job. There's nothing worse than being harassed and disturbed while you're at your work place, and while I understand that people may have good intentions and just want to chat or whatever but it can be very frustrating when you have a job to do. I would honestly advise against it.

To answer your question though, if you want to know her shifts she would probably be the best person to ask.

Well. I asked few times if I was disturbing her about it, she said I don't. so.. I might ask her.. yeah it's hard to have a crush on someone who's working but I do like her.. sorry^^"

[Elettra]

I need some random advice -

So about a year and a half ago, I broke up with this guy I was seeing. We were really good friends before we dated, but things ended badly between us - I am fairly sure that he cheated on me, but he never admitted to it.

For some unknown reason, lately I haven't been able to get him off my mind, and I think I'm starting to develop feelings for him again. The problem is, I really, really, really don't want to - he treated me like trash, and it's so frustrating for me to be interested in him again. does anyone have any advice as to how I can "get over him?" I feel like this is such a weird question, but I was curious to know if anyone had any advice or similar stories they could share. Thanks! ♥

[♡ ｚｉｌｌａ ♡]

im gonna take some time to gush about my partners!! ^____^ my primary/nesting partner/girlfriend and i have been together for 4 years, and we've been dating our boyfriend together for a few months... theyre both so wonderful and i feel so whole with them both!!!!! ahhh!! i love my babies ;_;

[WastedSpace]

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was this an honest mistake or is he trying something.
disclaimer: he broke up with me, so idk whats up

Personally, I wouldn't read too much into it. Brush it off as a drunken mistake and move on. Drunk people don't always have solid logic, and there's any number of reasons he may have done what he did that seemed logical or funny at the time but makes no sense now or adds up to poor decision making.

I need some random advice -

So about a year and a half ago, I broke up with this guy I was seeing. We were really good friends before we dated, but things ended badly between us - I am fairly sure that he cheated on me, but he never admitted to it.

For some unknown reason, lately I haven't been able to get him off my mind, and I think I'm starting to develop feelings for him again. The problem is, I really, really, really don't want to - he treated me like trash, and it's so frustrating for me to be interested in him again. does anyone have any advice as to how I can "get over him?" I feel like this is such a weird question, but I was curious to know if anyone had any advice or similar stories they could share. Thanks! ♥

Some friendly advice: be patient and understanding towards yourself for your feelings. Feelings don't always follow logic or hurt or head. Sometimes how we feel can hurt us more, so we need more self-care while this is happening. Do keep reminding yourself that he's not a healthy person to be involved with, though, and that no matter how you feel, you know not to go back to him.

Me: So how's the gal (he never liked me calling her his girlfriend)
Him: Which one because I switch between so often being dropped and such I can't even keep track.
Me: ... I mean, I dunno, you never told me her name. The most recent I guess?
Him: She's okay. Say, I'm actually going on a date with a girl I've known for a little while this weekend - (I zone out)
So I guess she was just a quick thing on the side. I just can't understand how it ended so quickly and he's so chill about it. I suppose there was no real attachment which confuses me.
Urgh. This has player all over it. He's so fickle and unfixed in relationships. And when we first met, he tred to make out like he was some broken hearted boy who had been dumped a few times and I can't take him seriously anymore.

I don't understand the casual modern dalliances. Do people have no morals? Feel no guilt?
I couldn't simply leap into a month long relationship. It''s simply disgusting.

That's kinda harsh of you. Why exactly is a consensual, casual fling immoral or something to be ashamed or guilty about? You don't have to understand how others can do it to respect it. So you want for commitment and commitment only. That's fine! But it's not the only way to have a relationship, and it's not the best way for everybody. Think of it a little bit like people preferring different foods. There's no levels of superiority or morality here (as long as everything is consensual!): just people enjoying different things. It's not hurting anybody, so maybe just try to let it go? =\ And perhaps re-evaluate this friendship, as you don't seem to respect him much...

And also, nobody can say for sure but him, but if all your story parts are true, maybe he's working on not forming attachments because he did get heartbroken. Could even subconsciously be avoiding commitment to avoid hurt if it breaks off.