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was this an honest mistake or is he trying something.
disclaimer: he broke up with me, so idk whats up
spraybottle wrote:I need some random advice -
So about a year and a half ago, I broke up with this guy I was seeing. We were really good friends before we dated, but things ended badly between us - I am fairly sure that he cheated on me, but he never admitted to it.
For some unknown reason, lately I haven't been able to get him off my mind, and I think I'm starting to develop feelings for him again. The problem is, I really, really, really don't want to - he treated me like trash, and it's so frustrating for me to be interested in him again. does anyone have any advice as to how I can "get over him?" I feel like this is such a weird question, but I was curious to know if anyone had any advice or similar stories they could share. Thanks! ♥
BeccaScribbles wrote:Me: So how's the gal (he never liked me calling her his girlfriend)
Him: Which one because I switch between so often being dropped and such I can't even keep track.
Me: ... I mean, I dunno, you never told me her name. The most recent I guess?
Him: She's okay. Say, I'm actually going on a date with a girl I've known for a little while this weekend - (I zone out)
So I guess she was just a quick thing on the side. I just can't understand how it ended so quickly and he's so chill about it. I suppose there was no real attachment which confuses me.
Urgh. This has player all over it. He's so fickle and unfixed in relationships. And when we first met, he tred to make out like he was some broken hearted boy who had been dumped a few times and I can't take him seriously anymore.
I don't understand the casual modern dalliances. Do people have no morals? Feel no guilt?
I couldn't simply leap into a month long relationship. It''s simply disgusting.
ᴍɪᴀ wrote:
He lied, he was having an affair overseas. For 5 months I never knew, 5 months
he hid it from me. I wish I would have known earlier, so I wouldn’t be this hurt.
I’m not mad at him, I’m just sad. I’ve never been angry at him, I never could.
It upsets me, he broke up with me instead of the girl overseas, he barely knows
her.
We were in a relationship for 2 years, I know it doesn’t seem long but that was
enough to make me fall in love with him. My heart is broken, I’ve spent 1 hour
in the shower crying. I don’t know what to do to cope, my head is spinning and
I don’t want to go to work tonight.
I wish it didn’t end like this, I wasn’t ready to let go of him. I miss him already,
he flew out for good today and I know he’ll never return.
Gosh, why are breakups so hard..
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