TheComfortCorner | v.6

[nana]

Please could someone pm me.

[Imabox]

i need help
i dont know whats wrong with me. school has taken over my life.
same classes. same anxiety. same depression. same. same. same.
why does a letter represent my intellect? why cant i succeed with poor grades? why am i considered stupid when i know im not?
but i know im lazy. im a procrastinator. im scared to talk to my teachers. i know.
i want to break through my grades and show everyone what im made of. but that wont happen.
i got a c on my report card last quarter, i promised my mother to do better.
turns out ive got four c's all in one quarter. thats great.

thanks school, for ruining me. i couldve been something great without your "help".
thanks for causing stress and depression in every single student in america. thanks for rising the suicide rates all over the world.
and most of all, thanks for ruining my future.

Someone responded already but I wanted to add in. Do you know what they called the student who got Cs?

A graduate. You're potential doesn't come from your grade. I was the biggest procrastinator. I stepped up my game when I went to college and finally was able to prove that I was better than that because I was finally learning something that interested me instead of general ed.

Even if college isn't your stepping stone don't look down on your accomplishment. Not everyone can even get as far as you did. Some people just give up, but you didn't. That is incredible. That shows so much ambition and drive on your part. You might feel like you're "lazy" but that is just because you haven't found that thing that motivates you, and you're not alone in that. School to put very simply is boring (mostly any sort of Gen ed).

Do you know you have more to prove? Good hold onto that because your time is coming. No matter what you decide to do you're just getting started and have so much time to show everyone that you're worth it. But this time prove you can do great things not because your mom wants you to our because the school wants you to, but because you want to. Your future isn't ruined unless you give up. Just keep reminding yourself that.

You are doing fine so don't let anyone else make you feel like you're not.

[munchqueen]

Compared to many other things, what I am about to complain about isn't very important, but I kind of wanted to get someone else's opinion.

I run two adoption centres here on CS. They're not very popular, and I want to work hard to improve them, but I'm suffering from a severe lack of motivation. Well, kind of. I'm having one of those days/weeks where I feel like nothing is good enough, and I can't figure out how to improve. I try, I find ideas, but the finished product is never satisfying, and not being able to attain what I want just makes everything feel worse. It feels like I can't. I kind of want to close both centres, or take a break, but I don't want to disappoint anyone, and I've only opened them recently...
I just feel like taking a break would be good for me; it would give me time to work on my art, and not stress about meeting deadlines. I can be an artist for centres that my friends own, and I'll focus on that instead of stressing about running my own. But there are people who support me, and are excited for the centres I own, and by closing them, even temporarily, I feel like I'm letting them down. Am I?

[Imabox]

Compared to many other things, what I am about to complain about isn't very important, but I kind of wanted to get someone else's opinion.

I run two adoption centres here on CS. They're not very popular, and I want to work hard to improve them, but I'm suffering from a severe lack of motivation. Well, kind of. I'm having one of those days/weeks where I feel like nothing is good enough, and I can't figure out how to improve. I try, I find ideas, but the finished product is never satisfying, and not being able to attain what I want just makes everything feel worse. It feels like I can't. I kind of want to close both centres, or take a break, but I don't want to disappoint anyone, and I've only opened them recently...
I just feel like taking a break would be good for me; it would give me time to work on my art, and not stress about meeting deadlines. I can be an artist for centres that my friends own, and I'll focus on that instead of stressing about running my own. But there are people who support me, and are excited for the centres I own, and by closing them, even temporarily, I feel like I'm letting them down. Am I?

Absolutely not! Your health and well being is more important than anything else, and I'm sure the people who support your centers would agree. Maybe they'll be down if you close your adoption centers temporarily, but I'm sure they'd be very understanding as to why you are doing it.

Even "big" adoption center take breaks from time to time so don't feel like you are letting these people down. Work on fixing you. Do things to help motivate you or just things you love doing and when you feel you're back to your old self you can reopen them, or not! It's your choice! The reality is you created adoption centers and helped people no matter how small or big it was. There is no one forcing you to keep doing it. Just take a break and decide from there.

Focus on you

[Swishy & Broken]

I know this is dumb, so very dumb

But my boyfriend was going to come over. And his mom asked if my mom was home (she never asks that) so I had to answer the door to a hard-working lady who hardly gets English and lie to her. And she didn't get it, so I had to "go get my mom" even though she's not home until 6 pm, which is 2 hours from now. And I had to go back and explain that "she's asleep" and "her friend is borrowing the car". But she only understood the asleep part and .. I feel so bad... She probably thinks I'm a really bad liar and I'm just trying to hang out with her son alone. I feel so bad for lying, and I can't tell her I lied or else she might never let me see him again. And now I can hardly ever see my boyfriend because shell ask every time now, and she doesn't allow him to leave the house to hang out past 5. So I just... I was really hoping he could explain my math work too, so now I have the stress of having to figure it out,dealing with being a liar,and hardly ever seeing him outside of school [we don't even have a class together, he's in other courses than my own].

[christina.]

my doctor told me my pain was "all in my head" and its really upset me. its real? i cant walk some days. i cant even hold my phone or a cup sometimes. my pain is REAL and it hurts so much

[critter]

Why do I even try? I have school work to catch up on, I have to make my dad proud, I just thought I was happy a few minutes ago, but now I just feel sad and useless??? I love my family to bits, but it never seems they love me just as much I love them. My dad only loves me to make my future big enough for him to steal, that cheating rat. My mom favors my brother so much, she gives him what ever he wants, if I even look at something I want I'm called ungrateful and my mom loves to start fights and make me so upset to the point I can no longer create words to fit them. I just got out of a five year lingering hell, and I have five+ more years until me and my friends move and I can cut my ties with my family aside from a few that care.
God I hope these years go by quick.

I just wanted a normal life. But I can't even be able to see to run correctly I'm so messed up.
My vision is terrible, my legs are weak, and I have so many other medical problems that just tear me apart.

[cinnamonbun.]

My hamster is dying.

[skypoppy]

I'm hyperventilating and really just, everything

[Lya]

It's easy, they said. Everybody can do it, they said.
Well, either they were lying or I have even less talent for arts than I always thought.