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xName:Lost in the Waves // Maristela (Meaning ‘star of the sea’)
Gender: Mare
Eye Color: Pink Haze
Coat Color: Dapple Grey [Black Base]
Personality: Maristela is loyal, very protective, and more or less has a guardian personality. She is always trying to protect her friends and family, especially her younger brother ____. Maristela is logical and intelligent. She always thinks things out carefully and plans ahead. She is seldom reckless or impulsive about anything. She is very serious, partially because of her past which left her very little time to play and have fun like other foals. She tends to have a hard time getting close to other horses because she has some trust issues. She tries not to let her past affect her future, but sometimes it is hard when her past seems to loom over her like a dark cloud.
Though she comes across as confident around other horses, Maristela has a lot of self-doubt. She pushes herself to do the best she can, and if she fails to meet her own standards she feels like a failure.
Because of this she is an overachiever and a very hard worker, always feeling like she has to prove herself and do what is expected of her, or what she expects of herself.
What’s her Relationship with her Brother like?:Maristela is quite a bit older than her brother, and as a result she tends to be very motherly towards him because she pretty much raised him.
Maristela has always been very protective, sometimes too much. She goes about everything with caution and tends to get in the mindset that because she is very cautious he should be too. But sometimes she can be too bossy, making him want to ignore her advice, regardless of whether it is good or bad.
Maristela still doesn’t think that she protected him enough as a foal and very much blames herself for his injuries and blindness. She is always trying to make it up to him by protecting him as best she can and trying to make things easy for him, what she doesn’t always realize is that he needs to find his own way and she can’t always be right beside him guiding his hoofsteps.
But even though she can be too cautious and controlling, in the end she realizes that all she really has to do is be there when he needs her and love him through it all. Of course, she still makes mistakes and forgets this sometimes, but she is getting better.
What Happened to Them: Maristela was born into an illegal horse breeding program. The owners would buy cheap, run down pedigree horses, or steal them, then put their own brands on them to mark them and maybe cover their previous brands.
Maristela was born in the program and lived there all her life in a crowded stable. Sometimes the humans would take random horses and bring them to auctions, selling them with embellished pedigrees. But Maristela was never one of those horses and she and her mother lived out a hard life in the program for the first few years of her life.
Maristela was three years old, a young adult, when her mother gave birth to her brother. Unfortunately her mother abandoned them shortly after. She got her chance to escape, and after the pain she had suffered at the hands of her owners, she was half crazed and her foals weren’t enough reason for her to stay.
So, Maristela raised her younger brother with the help of a mare whose foal had died at birth.
But despite her best attempts, Maristela’s brother faced as many hardships as Maristela herself had faced.
By the time they were rescued her brother was partially blind and Maristela was worn out and distrustful of humans and other horses.
What Do You Think the Brands Means?:The cheek brand seems to be an indicator of when they were born
The shoulder brand looks like it was supposed to make who they were going to be sold to, perhaps someone made a down payment to relieve them when they were trained or full grown. Basically a sale tag.
What kind of patterning would you like to see on her?: Perhaps minimal overo, something like
thisHow do you deal with her limp: We have been trying to gently exercise her, letting her have some outdoor time to walk or trot if she feels up to it. We aren’t sure yet whether her limp remains because a past injury was so severe, or because she was cooped up indoors a lot and never had a chance to work it out, so, we are having experienced vets take a look at her. In the meantime, we have decided she will not be a heavy riding horse. Though our vets cannot pinpoint her exact injury yet we think that it would be unwise to try to ride her since she has gone with this injury for some time.
How do you deal with her skittishness: We try to give her her space, letting her know we are near, but not getting too close. After her past we have decided to let her come to us on her terms and not push it too much.
What discipline would she excel in?:We think she might excel in dressage. Because of her injury we do not want to have her in jumping or cross country and risk her getting injured again, but aside of the limp she does have a natural grace and her overall appearance is appealing.
Extra of your choosing(Below):How Maristela settled into her new home:Maristela had a really hard time settling in with us at first. Something was really bothering her and for some time she wouldn’t eat or drink much and she barely paid us any attention, though she did keep up boundaries. She showed no interest in the other horses at the stable and she would just stand listlessly in her paddock.
It wasn’t until we looked through her files that we realized that she had always lived with other horses. Thinking she might be lonely we came up with a new plan.
We tried to pair her up with several of our horses, but still, nothing seemed to help. Finally we decided that no matter what, she wasn’t thriving at the stable, so we set her free into our wild horse enclosure, a bit of land that stretched for miles and was home to a large herd as well as some loners and other individuals. These mustangs had failed to thrive in captivity so we let them go in our ‘reserve’. We hoped it would revive Maristela like it had them.
So, we released her the next day just a half mile from the herd. She seemed eager enough to get away from us and we decided to let her go and come back in a few days to see how she was faring.
When we returned we found that she was still alone, not because the other horse’s wouldn’t’ accept her, but because she was purposely isolating herself. She was getting skinny so we lured her back to the trailer and drove her back to the stable.
There we tried to get some food in her and we asked the vet to come by again to check her over. After looking through her files and examining her the vet diagnosed her as depressed. She said it was likely that she missed a particular horse, maybe a parent, sibling, foal, or close friend.
We went through her purchase files, then contacted her sellers. They told us about her brother and we decided to try to locate him.
After several days we found out he had been adopted out to a stable a few miles away. We contacted the owners and asked if we might be able to bring Maristela over to see her brother so that she would see he was safe. They agreed and we drove out that day.
When we arrived Maristela was as unhappy looking as ever, but as soon as her brother was led out she perked up instantly, pulling away from us to go see him.
We let the two horses visit in a paddock for a while and discussed potential meetings between them with her brother’s owner. When it was time to go Maristela seemed reluctant, but she went without complaint.
After we got her home she was like a different horse, eating and drinking, even socializing just a little with some of the other stable horses. From then on we made sure she always had company, though she seemed not to care too much, and we also let her go visit her brother whenever his owner’s consented.
We still don’t know what happened that day, whether she just needed to see him, or maybe in his own way he told her he was okay, but we did realize that these two horses have a special bond and that it would be unfair to keep them apart forever, so, we continue to make the drive for a visit, and we swear she knows exactly when we are going to see her brother and gets excited ahead of time. . .