- iiiiii have an update but it is noT BIG
over dramatic much?
anyway, z and i were talking two nights ago [at like 10-12, about that] over the phone && i was browsing the internet for possible ways to make a short distance [yet kind of long oof] relationship work [we kind of found some things but he's still rather worried about it not working, as am i] and we discussed them for quite some time mainly while he was taking a mental break from his virtual football game and being mad at it, but we still aren't sure about it?? we're honestly putting any ideas we can out there, and i've offered to allow him to meet my parents so we could hang out whenever he'd be able to make it into town/didn't have work [my parents would have to drive me- and he'd walk, but that's because our cars are still getting worked on he's building his car from scratch, and my dad is sort of helping me fix mine up from the once beat up charger it was] so we could meet up at the mall/hang around at the park over by his apartment complex without my dad being there to stalk us, but we still don't want to risk anything, i don't want to risk hurting him and he, me.
basically, none of the ways that we've found online have really gotten us anywhere.
also, if it ends with us not figuring anything out- we will simply wait it already seems to my friends that we're dating so technically, to a lot of people, we are dating already until we can work something out. we have no problem with that.
aaah i seem and feel really desperate but both of us had discussed going out more than once in a matter of two days, and i'm going to bet you we're going to talk about it again eventually.
oof, if anyone has any advice/tips that could help us, we'll gladly take it, and try to use it.
aaaah thank you in advance to anyone that helps, and thank you to @wastedspace for providing one way to try and work it out, it's really appreciated
also, you can pm me about this if you want, i don't mind,,