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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V6♥

Postby niykee » Wed Jan 03, 2018 11:15 am

WastedSpace wrote:
niykee wrote:
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For the first one, I wouldn't really worry about things that aren't really an issue just yet. Having a crush is honestly different than being in a relationship with someone, but besides that, if your attraction doesn't linger, then it doesn't sound like that's the right person for you. Maybe you won't be the type of person to get into a long-term or committed romantic relationship. That's okay! You don't have to. It's not the purpose of life nor a goal you have to meet. So just enjoy your crushes and whatever life opportunities come your way.

As for the second, we're not mind readers and you know the situation better than we do. I say trust your gut, and if you want to know more, then you should just ask m about it.


        thank you so much luv for your advice, I'm a little late to replying but I still appreciate it very much! c:
        I get a little paranoid because I've seen so many people in my family and my friend group be unfaithful to their partners and the results...well, they're never great. I think I'm just letting my paranoia get the best of me, which I need to nip in the butt before it gets to be too much yikes.


        but im back again with a little situation. not exactly sure what it means but its whatever I guess. so now theres this new guy that I've had my eye on, and I just recently added him on snapchat. we've talked a couple of times before and we're in the same classes, but we're not close. We have one mutual friend which is actually one of my besties (who he actually tried to hit up before lmao yikes) and a few more as well, but they're not really people I hang out with.

        anyways, I had sent a mass snapchat to a bunch of people of me and my friend saying "anyone doing anything tonight". the guy was apart of that list. so anyways two hours passed and a bunch of people had already replied, but no one was doing anything interesting so we just decided to stay in for the night. anyways after 2 hours this boy finally opened my snapchat, and instead of ignoring it, he replied with a picture of his face. He was deffff in the washroom, and his caption made it even more obvious lmao. I won't put the whole thing but he did say "yeah Im doing something, _______" and then he added something thats probably tmi.

        anyways, I snapped him back with another pic of my face and my friends with the caption "nice???"

        and im assuming the filter we had on our faces said 'happy new year' (even though im 90% sure it didn't) because he sent a reply back with 'happy new year' and then a Monday sticker at the bottom.

        *SOMETHING TO KEEP IN MIND; IT LITERALLY TOOK THIS KID 15-30 MINUTES EVERYTIME TO OPEN MY SNAPS. HE WOULD REPLY RIGHT AWAY, BUT IT WOULD JUST TAKE HIM A LONG TIME TO ACTUALLY OPEN THE SNAP IDK**

        I simply replied with 'happy new year ho' and sent it, expecting the conversation to end there. why? because I sort of forced myself to think the guy doesn't like me (idk why tbh?) and that he wouldn't be interested in initiating another conversation. about 20 minutes later I get a notification and it says its from him. so I open it and its a picture of a tv playing some movie and a vape in his lap, with the caption "I hate romance movies"

        I know, I know, it doesn't mean he's into me or anything, I just kind of thought it was interesting that he would try to continue the conversation. so anyways, I replied with a snarky snap saying something along the lines of our teacher being disappointed in him for vaping (its a running joke in our class, and she ALWAYS rants about how people are dumb for vaping idk. its hilarious)

        he then replied with "and why do I care?" as well as a blurry picture of his face.

        I sent another snap to him saying "wow that attitude tho damn"

        and 20 minutes later he sends me another snap of not one, but TWO vapes with the caption "gotta have two on me at all times"

        yet again, kind of just...continuing it again. so we talked a little bit more. I noticed that he kind of got like...sassy and rude at some points and I wasn't sure if thats just how he naturally is? or if he was annoyed with me. for example, at one point I told him to blow some o's (like the little rings people do when they hit a vape lmao) and he was like "what do I look like to you"

        and as a joke, my friend told me to put "a vape god?" because when he hit her up, he sent her a snap of him vaping with the caption 'vape god' so yeah. he then sent a pic of his face with the caption "tf no?" and I replied with "you lied to T then? good to know"

        keep in mind it was about 2 in the morning and by the time he replied to the vape god thing, my friend T had already fallen asleep lmao. she wasn't in any of the photos prior to this though, only the first two. but anyways, he replied with a pic of him in bed with the caption "I see im a topic of conversation for you guys"

        and I replied back with a "lmao you wish"
        I DIDN'T THINK WHEN I SENT IT THAT IT WOULD COME OFF AS A LITTLE FLIRTY AND OH GOD DID I FEEL EMBARRASSED FML
        but anyways, he replied back with a "negative sir" and a dark snap of his face
        so I simply sent a pic of my fingers making the 'this close' hand pose thing (idk how to explain it)
        with the caption "good" and then 20 minutes later he opened it, then left me on read.

        I wasn't too whatever about it because I mean... it was 2 in the morning and he was probably tired, but when I woke up this morning I was kind of like 'damn...did he think I was flirting? did I say something wrong?' lmao. queen of over thinking things tbh.

        but honestly I just want your opinions on this...like do you think he seemed annoyed with me? did it seem like I was flirting or being whatever? also what do you guys think about the random responses? like the romance movie stuff, and the 2 vape thing. hehe thanks Luvs.
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V6♥

Postby Hot Dad » Wed Jan 03, 2018 12:17 pm

niykee wrote: -snip-


I don't think you annoyed him. He seems like he's tryna come off as a hard guy / hard to get / aloof and cool. But to me it's a little boy like..
But no yeah i think he knows you're into him, or at least he's hoping so aha
The random responses are to change the conversation/start one. I think he wants to talk to u hes just bad at it....
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Postby WastedSpace » Wed Jan 03, 2018 4:01 pm

stormy, wrote:-snip-

aaah i seem and feel really desperate but both of us had discussed going out more than once in a matter of two days, and i'm going to bet you we're going to talk about it again eventually.

oof, if anyone has any advice/tips that could help us, we'll gladly take it, and try to use it.


So... any two people in any sort of relationship (whether friends or family or coworkers or whatever) can hurt each other when in a relationship. If you're both holding back due to such a general reason, I think that's something for you both to really think about this. Are you two ready to be in a romantic relationship or do you need to work more on your friendship first?

As for long(ish) distance tips, you don't have to see each other in person to be intimate or bond. You can facetime while having a/separate picnics. You can synchronize and watch netflix/some movie at the same time. You can make sure to make time and call each other. And, of course, you can visit each other and hang out then.

niykee wrote:-snip-

but honestly I just want your opinions on this...like do you think he seemed annoyed with me? did it seem like I was flirting or being whatever? also what do you guys think about the random responses? like the romance movie stuff, and the 2 vape thing. hehe thanks Luvs. [/list][/list][/list][/size]


Hang out with him more in person so you can tell if that's his typical attitude or not.
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V6♥

Postby Panda26 » Wed Jan 03, 2018 4:05 pm

im a really shy person How do you get over a crush, I've liked this guy for 2 years now and I can't get him out of my head.. I've tried talking to him but I just go red say something stupid and walk away. I just want to stop liking him, and tips on how to...
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V6♥

Postby WastedSpace » Wed Jan 03, 2018 6:42 pm

Panda26 wrote:im a really shy person How do you get over a crush, I've liked this guy for 2 years now and I can't get him out of my head.. I've tried talking to him but I just go red say something s****d and walk away. I just want to stop liking him, and tips on how to...
thanks..
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You can try training your mind out of it. Whenever you have a crush-like thought pop up, make an effort to recognize it and consciously 'correct' it. Ex., if you think about how cute he is, stop and tell yourself 'he's aesthetically pleasing just like a good painting might be, but nothing more' or something. But it'll take time and patience, so give yourself that as well.
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V6♥

Postby friends dønt lie. » Thu Jan 04, 2018 10:03 am

    tbh i like this guy, and we've been talking a lot over social media. ever since this weekend, i feel like my heart started just fluttering and we got so much closer, we talked for a day and a half straight. i know for a fact he likes another girl, but i'm starting to get the feeling that he likes me, since like i said, we suddenly got pretty close. should i take the chance?
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V6♥

Postby That Aesthetic Kid » Thu Jan 04, 2018 10:09 am

friends dønt lie. wrote:
    tbh i like this guy, and we've been talking a lot over social media. ever since this weekend, i feel like my heart started just fluttering and we got so much closer, we talked for a day and a half straight. i know for a fact he likes another girl, but i'm starting to get the feeling that he likes me, since like i said, we suddenly got pretty close. should i take the chance?


If I were in the situation, what I would do is just go for it! What's the worse he could say? I mean it's up to you what you wanna do! Hope this kinda helped you! I'm not the best at giving advice when it comes to relationships and what not.
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V6♥

Postby Elite_Ninja_Squad » Fri Jan 05, 2018 3:06 pm

Ahhh I’m so mad at myself

So I tried to send s the letter, but now he likes another girl! (So I hear.) Gosh I’ve seen this guy date other girl before me and I don’t take it as hard as I used to, but it’s still upsetting! What do I do? How do I keep calm during these next 2 weeks to a month (cause that’s how long they normally last.)? Gahhh I really hate myself rn
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V6♥

Postby vaiill » Fri Jan 05, 2018 11:48 pm

vaiill wrote:When your boyfriend of two years decides to tell you he is done with our relationship on new years eve when I thought everything was going perfect lol

a little add on to this

I ended up going to his house yesterday cause he said "he would still be there for me and that I could still come over and sleep and cuddle with him". So I go over and I just start to cry
I bawled my eyes out. And for a while he didn't want to talk to me but then he gave me hugs. We relaxed for a while then I started to cry again, then his mother comes in and sees me crying and says "I know you love him" and gives me a hug and I just lose it

When his mother leaves he sits down and makes me hug him and I swear I haven't felt so broken in my whole life. All I could say to him was "please don't leave me" "I don't want you to go" "why can't you just stay" he would rub my back and just hold me saying to calm down. But Every time I asked him if he could please stay he just wouldn't reply. All I want is him. He said that I can do better then him and that there is plenty of fish in the sea. But I don't want anyone else I just want him

After I stopped crying, he started to tickle me, and poke me and just so funny cute stuff. It was just sensual? And made me happy? I was laughing and smiling but then I started to cry again cause I didn't want to lose this. This situation happened about 5 times throughout the day and then I get a text from my mum asking if I'm staying or going home. So I ask him and he says "oh I just thought you were coming for the day" and he said that it "didn't feel right" for me to stay over.

All I want is him, I had planned my whole life with him. He makes me happy and now he wants to go. He promised he would love me forever and even said that he would marry me and take me away from this place and we could grow old together. Everything has just been ripped away. And everyone just keeps saying "your better off without him" but no I'm really not. He is the love of my life and nothing is going to change that













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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V6♥

Postby ed sheeran. » Sat Jan 06, 2018 1:26 am

kinda just a vent,
there is no need to
comfort me, or reply
to me, but if you do,
then thank you c:

let's call my girlfriend umi.
let's call umi's friend yas.

a couple days ago, umi
asked me out. we only know
eachother online. we live
in different countries. anyways,
she has a friend who i get easily
jealous of (yas). just the way how yas
talks to her can set me off and i need
to get offline.

anyways, i'd do anything for umi.
umi knows that. but turns out she's
been hurting herself and is currently in the
hospital,, im worried like heck.

yas, she told me today that umi was
break up with me sometime today. we've
only been dating for not even a week but
I would actually give my soul to satan for her.
but umi's father found out about mine and mine
and umi's relationship, and now she has to break
up with me. the thing is though, yas told me this.
she told me that she was warning me. but i don't
know if i should believe her? yas hates my guts,
when me and umi started dating she went on an
old post of mine and said 'please don't take umi
away from me', which, to be honest, i found pathetic.

I don't think I should trust yas, but im sitting here
thinking 'what if it's true?'[

edit; yas wasn't lying. umi broke up with me a couple hours ago. everything hurts,,
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