WastedSpace wrote:niykee wrote:
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For the first one, I wouldn't really worry about things that aren't really an issue just yet. Having a crush is honestly different than being in a relationship with someone, but besides that, if your attraction doesn't linger, then it doesn't sound like that's the right person for you. Maybe you won't be the type of person to get into a long-term or committed romantic relationship. That's okay! You don't have to. It's not the purpose of life nor a goal you have to meet. So just enjoy your crushes and whatever life opportunities come your way.
As for the second, we're not mind readers and you know the situation better than we do. I say trust your gut, and if you want to know more, then you should just ask m about it.
- thank you so much luv for your advice, I'm a little late to replying but I still appreciate it very much! c:
I get a little paranoid because I've seen so many people in my family and my friend group be unfaithful to their partners and the results...well, they're never great. I think I'm just letting my paranoia get the best of me, which I need to nip in the butt before it gets to be too much yikes.
but im back again with a little situation. not exactly sure what it means but its whatever I guess. so now theres this new guy that I've had my eye on, and I just recently added him on snapchat. we've talked a couple of times before and we're in the same classes, but we're not close. We have one mutual friend which is actually one of my besties (who he actually tried to hit up before lmao yikes) and a few more as well, but they're not really people I hang out with.
anyways, I had sent a mass snapchat to a bunch of people of me and my friend saying "anyone doing anything tonight". the guy was apart of that list. so anyways two hours passed and a bunch of people had already replied, but no one was doing anything interesting so we just decided to stay in for the night. anyways after 2 hours this boy finally opened my snapchat, and instead of ignoring it, he replied with a picture of his face. He was deffff in the washroom, and his caption made it even more obvious lmao. I won't put the whole thing but he did say "yeah Im doing something, _______" and then he added something thats probably tmi.
anyways, I snapped him back with another pic of my face and my friends with the caption "nice???"
and im assuming the filter we had on our faces said 'happy new year' (even though im 90% sure it didn't) because he sent a reply back with 'happy new year' and then a Monday sticker at the bottom.
*SOMETHING TO KEEP IN MIND; IT LITERALLY TOOK THIS KID 15-30 MINUTES EVERYTIME TO OPEN MY SNAPS. HE WOULD REPLY RIGHT AWAY, BUT IT WOULD JUST TAKE HIM A LONG TIME TO ACTUALLY OPEN THE SNAP IDK**
I simply replied with 'happy new year ho' and sent it, expecting the conversation to end there. why? because I sort of forced myself to think the guy doesn't like me (idk why tbh?) and that he wouldn't be interested in initiating another conversation. about 20 minutes later I get a notification and it says its from him. so I open it and its a picture of a tv playing some movie and a vape in his lap, with the caption "I hate romance movies"
I know, I know, it doesn't mean he's into me or anything, I just kind of thought it was interesting that he would try to continue the conversation. so anyways, I replied with a snarky snap saying something along the lines of our teacher being disappointed in him for vaping (its a running joke in our class, and she ALWAYS rants about how people are dumb for vaping idk. its hilarious)
he then replied with "and why do I care?" as well as a blurry picture of his face.
I sent another snap to him saying "wow that attitude tho damn"
and 20 minutes later he sends me another snap of not one, but TWO vapes with the caption "gotta have two on me at all times"
yet again, kind of just...continuing it again. so we talked a little bit more. I noticed that he kind of got like...sassy and rude at some points and I wasn't sure if thats just how he naturally is? or if he was annoyed with me. for example, at one point I told him to blow some o's (like the little rings people do when they hit a vape lmao) and he was like "what do I look like to you"
and as a joke, my friend told me to put "a vape god?" because when he hit her up, he sent her a snap of him vaping with the caption 'vape god' so yeah. he then sent a pic of his face with the caption "tf no?" and I replied with "you lied to T then? good to know"
keep in mind it was about 2 in the morning and by the time he replied to the vape god thing, my friend T had already fallen asleep lmao. she wasn't in any of the photos prior to this though, only the first two. but anyways, he replied with a pic of him in bed with the caption "I see im a topic of conversation for you guys"
and I replied back with a "lmao you wish"
I DIDN'T THINK WHEN I SENT IT THAT IT WOULD COME OFF AS A LITTLE FLIRTY AND OH GOD DID I FEEL EMBARRASSED FML
but anyways, he replied back with a "negative sir" and a dark snap of his face
so I simply sent a pic of my fingers making the 'this close' hand pose thing (idk how to explain it)
with the caption "good" and then 20 minutes later he opened it, then left me on read.
I wasn't too whatever about it because I mean... it was 2 in the morning and he was probably tired, but when I woke up this morning I was kind of like 'damn...did he think I was flirting? did I say something wrong?' lmao. queen of over thinking things tbh.
but honestly I just want your opinions on this...like do you think he seemed annoyed with me? did it seem like I was flirting or being whatever? also what do you guys think about the random responses? like the romance movie stuff, and the 2 vape thing. hehe thanks Luvs.
