leaves wrote:hey jun (god i still absolutely adore that name),
there's nothing wrong with feeling like that, you're extremely valid.
just know that there are tons and tons of people willing to back you up. you are not alone in this.
but i just want to say that there is absolutely nothing wrong with how you identify. how you identify doesn't affect anybody else, it's your own choice and whatever you identify as is 100% valid, no matter what anybody else says.
please do not regret what you've done, because you chose to really life your own life, and that is very admirable. it's not easy to come to terms with, that's for sure. but i'll let you know right now that there's so many people that will accept you no matter what.
if you ever need to talk, you know where to find me <33
also yes i am pumped for the montero album LMAO
ansjsdfshkjaaa thank you bug <33 (and i love YOUR name mwah)
i'm glad i managed to let myself acknowledge who i was/am, despite delaying it so much and taking so long, haha. definitely couldn't have done it without the help and support i've been getting lately. i really appreciate your words, especially in how identifying this way doesn't affect anyone else. i really need to remember that anyone who takes issue with it isn't worth my time of day :">
the tracklist looks SO GOOD i'm living
sputnikzero wrote:Hey,
I know this gets really hard.
Want to remind you that just like leaves said, you are not alone.
Nothing worth having is ever easy, and this is definitely not. I think you are real courageous in the process of finding out who you are and learning to love yourself. There's an entire community here too if you ever need some comfort. I'm here to talk.
also, that backdrop is gorgeous ^^
i took a hot minute to reply in general but gosh, evan, thank you so much :"]
i know you're going through a lot too, so i hope i can offer you some comfort in the knowledge that you're not alone either <3 you got this, dawg
SurgeFire wrote:i know it’s extremely hard especially in your situation, but you have quite a few people willing to appreciate you and accept you at least on here; and i hope you can at least remember that when trying to confront those thoughts. that’s what i've been told, when i think irrationally think of the evidence that doesn't support your thinking. you are never a mistake, because i wouldn't have gotten to talk to you or witness what you’ve been able to do on here ^^
like, this is beautiful, i adore the landscape!
surge i would die for youuu <33
but yeah, you have a point there - i've been meaning to put together a small channel in my personal server for little affirmations since those always mean so much to me and it helps to keep them at hand, lmao. ily man
JK341 wrote:basically everything that leaves said. I'm not much for one that is good at wording things, but know that youre always welcome to blow up my discord DM's any time ya need, i may not know what exactly to say but ill always be the listener when needed. ^^
no worries dude, i'm not feeling quite as wordy today myself, but i thoroughly appreciate you taking the time to drop by regardless <3 you're always such a ray of sunshine, thank you so much j!! :"D
Silver Pandorica wrote:There isn't much I can say that hasn't already been said, but just know that there are so many people who love and support you jun! You are not a mistake, you are unique and wonderful and an absolutely amazing person. Everything you're feeling right now is totally valid, and you don't have to feel guilty for feeling that way or thinking those thoughts. Finding your identity and discovering who you are and how to be comfortable with that is a process that takes most people years into their adulthood. It's extremely admirable that you have acknowledged who you are. Things will get better man, and there's a ton of people behind you to help you along the way.
This is beautiful, by the way. Your backgrounds always continue to amaze me.
i think that's one thing i also tend to forget - that there's no time limit to figuring oneself out or becoming comfortable with the reality of one's identity :") thank you, for both the comforting words and the compliment. <3
Pollee wrote:I am so sorry to hear about the issues you are struggling with. I have been in similar waters. I found a verse in the Bible, 1 Peter 5:6-9 which will hopefully comfort you in your situation.
6 Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. 7 Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.
8 Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. 9 Resist him, standing firm in the faith, because you know that the family of believers throughout the world is undergoing the same kind of sufferings.
I truly hope that you will feel better soon. I will pray for you and that God may give you guidance on your difficult path.
God bless you,
-Pollee
well, when one abrahamic religion isn't doing it for me, maybe it's time i check out another /j
i'm not really a man of faith, but i appreciate the sentiment.
