by Wild » Mon Dec 02, 2013 6:34 am
I know there is nothing I can say that could help the hurt go away, even the slightest. You can skip my whole comment if you want to.
I have to admit I'm terrible at comforting people..
but.. Even if she's physically gone, that doesn't mean her promise to you is broken. You remember her, you miss her, and you know she held a part of your life and heart that no one else could replace. And just because of those few things, she'll never really leave you, will she? Live for both yourself and her.
It's sad that she's gone, and it's just heartbreaking to see other people suffer. I can't say the emotional pain will never go away, but It'll get better. Things will work out, just you wait and see.
However.. I do know what it's like to loose someone. You wish you could have done something, anything. You wish you could reverse time and go back and help them. You don't want anything to happen like this ever again, and you just feel like crying your eyes out(And on some occasions you may just end up ignoring that.).
But As you've said, there is nothing anyone could have done, and that's basically it. I hate to say "These things happen for a reason" but.. Well.. Yeah. I'm not saying that it's good that it happens. It's horrible. But if you ever want to cry, or get upset.. Just do it. No one will blame you. It doesn't make you weak if you mourn, or to cry. It just makes you human. If you're weak for being human, so be it. And it's certainly not good to bottle up emotions.
agh, sorry, I'm probably making it worse..