TheComfortCorner | v.6

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ugh i cant stand pet sites hardly at all anymore
why do people have to make fun of peoples' identities?
like it doesnt affect you at all?? why do you feel the need to do this??
what's wrong with being out of the ordinary? i guess a lot since people feel they have a right to tell people how to be and who they cant cant be??
im so tired of it, im about ready to just start blocking 90% of the site because im so fed up with seeing it.
like cant you leave people alone?? why do you have to make something that isnt your business a problem??
someone else's identity isn't your problem and isn't your concern, so kindly butt!! the heck!! out!!

[onion]

trades for dreamies getting cancelled bc u went to sleep haha lol i hate everything

[fika.]

It's not really that serious but these days no one talks to me anymore and I feel like my love for CS is slowly slipping away :c I play some multiplayer games and in one I asked "can someone be my friend" but then no one replied and one person said "nah"
I just wish someone could talk to me and we could play the same multiplayer game or something and have fun

it is serious!!
ignore those people, you don't want to be friends with them.
i can be your friend!
just shoot me a pm, i'm extremely friendly minus the anxiety hahahahahah.
many members in this community are kind!!
don't give up!!<3

i've been so depressed
my mom and i got in a fight saturday
but my dad spoke to her because i finally told him why i've been so upset
and almost all of it has been caused by her
she calls me fat, stupid and compares me to people
and they got in a fight because of me, which make me feel awful
but she said she wouldn't stop,
she won't stop doing the things that are making me depressed
like what she is doing makes me feel worthless
i can't handle it

i feel so dull and empty it's... sad

you don't need to reply i just needed to vent

you aren't fat, stupid, or anything else she has called you
don't feel awful
no one should treat people like that
none of it is your fault, tbh it is all hers.
maybe ask to just go to a friends house for the weekend,
just to get away, y'know?
kudos to your dad though, for doing that.
i hope you are okay soon <3

≽xI have so many things to say but can't because I really don't have any close friends left that I can get help from. Thank goodness I found this thread -- probably would've gone a bit mad if I hadn't. Even just typing this helps relieve a bit of internal pressure.
It stresses me out to actually state my worries though so this may get deleted.

This is pretty apparent by now, but my two best friends and most of my other friends have completely ditched me, which stinks because it's been about 11 months with little contact.
I have no evil words for any of them, though, especially my best friends. "X" and "Y" are such amazing, beautiful, spectacular, and inspiring people. I can't begin to state the love I have for them. But my pure heart towards them just hurts me a whole lot more than it would if it was filled with hatred or even apathy.
I miss them so much, but I have absolutely no way of contacting them. One lives across the country. The other dropped out of school. They both blatantly ignore me.

I can't just get new friends, though, because I'm probably the shyest person you'll ever meet. I refuse to talk to anyone unless spoken to first, I hardly ever ask strangers for any sort of help, and I don't use social media-specific websites. If you do talk to me, I will stutter and probably laugh in agreement with whatever you're saying because I probably wouldn't be able to hear you or figure out how the heck I could place any sort of word structure as a response. I am so awful with speaking -- I can't think on the spot in the slightest and I never have anything clever or interesting to say.

A miracle that has occurred, even despite my utter social awkwardness, is that a new boy in my community has basically thrown himself at me. It's so amazing how much he talks and tries to make you laugh. He has so much to say and I love that he chose me, of all people, to try to form a friendship with. It's adorable how he loves to poke me and steal my beanie and make cute little faces in response.
He's got a special place in my heart; I think about him all the time because I'm honestly worried about him. He's mentioned some things about his life that make me want to question him and make sure he's alright (but of course I won't say anything to him about this cause of my freaking nervousness towards anything) and he has a surprisingly low self-esteem. I wish I could talk to him more and maybe become a better friend to him so I could help him, but we only see each other about an hour a day and he doesn't text.

Another issue that I have is that I've recently switched religions and I've come out to my dad's family about it (I can't even begin to explain the reaction I would get if I said anything to my mother or her family). I was having such difficulty with the religion I was born into to the point where I just completely abandoned it and moved on to something that made more sense. It would be such an easy and pleasurable experience to find more of myself in this manner if it wasn't for the skeptical attitude of my family. They're extremely strong believers in their religion, which I don't blame them for because that's all they've known their entire lives, but it's so difficult to explain anything new to them. They continue to pressure me back into their religion and say things like "you're not going where we're going when we die", "what will others think of you when they hear you're part of that religion?", and "I'm pretty sure this is just a journey phase and you'll soon come to realize that our religion makes more sense."
I love my family and I love to spend time with them and make jokes, but it's terrible when this religion nonsense looms over my head. And I can't come up with a good argument on the spot so that I can defend myself and get them to (quite frankly) shut their obnoxious mouths up about it for good.

And then, finally, I'm giving up on school. I hate it. I am so alone all the time and nothing stimulates me to learn anything. Everything is so boring and repetitive. I've hated school ever since I've started it (I was home-schooled up until the end of elementary) and I have absolutely no motivation. I can't get a job, either, because apparently everything requires experience and I don't know what to do because I've never had a job before.
I want to give up, curl up in bed, and sleep undisturbed for three years.

Sorry for this essay-esque rant. I didn't realize it would get this lengthy. :c

don't apologies, boo!
first off, i'm proud of you.
for like, everything.
ignore your family about the religion-part, we
all have a right to believe in what we want.
just keep believing in what you believe in, nothing
is stopping you.
as for that boy, keep him
keep him close
maybe ask to hang out at break/lunch?
or explain to him about your shyness
i'm the same, and i know that when i've told
people they say it's okay and don't pressure me into things.
if he's a true friend, he'll be okay with it!!
you're doing great, honestly.
the world can be cruel, and to even leave the house is an
achievment. i'm proud of you.
school is boring and repetitive, i agree.
but you thinking that will only stimulate your brain to believe
it's true.
sit down and pay attention to the words, don't skim it
and begin to grow an interest in at least one subject
maybe you like history, or music.
i really hope you're doing okay,
and don't give up!
i believe in you <3

Hey guys... I'm suffering from social anxiety. I can barely even express myself, especially at social events. I just feel so... Ugly. My brother has constantly broken down my confidence, no matter how hard I try to fight it... I am short, not tall... I have acne and pail skin, not smooth and tan skin... I have tangly hair... Not silky and smooth hair. I'm like the opposite of what beauty means in the eyes of my peers. My social anxiety adds to this. Not to mention the weight on my shoulders from all my dumb work. My mother would scream at me when I was younger if I didn't do anything perfect.. I just don't really know... I am a lonely, ugly, short monster. At least that's what they think... I decided to give up on trying to love. I've been rejected for my looks. Always. I can tell. I have no curves, no perfection. Im just glad that I am so tolerent of this madness. I have patience, understanding, intelligence, tolerance, and empathy. All they see is ugliness, stupidity, annoyance, stubbornness, and more... People really do their best to bring out the worst in me. I have nobody to turn to... I just like to draw now. Yep. Just drawing...

that drawing is cute!
it's okay to only like drawing, it's good to have a hobby.
now, let me get this through your head and say it with me.
"i. am. beautiful."
go repeat it in the mirror
you believe your body is ugly, but in fact it's beautiful!
i've told this to a couple people on this thread and i'll say it to you:
go look in the mirror.
imagine you are your best friend, and your best friend said all those things about themself
now say all the stuff you would say to comfort your friend.
you see? that's the truth.
it's the truth because your body is your best friend.
don't treat it like it's garbage, it's not
tangly hair is fine. if you don't like it, maybe try
a new hair style.
'bout that acne, go to a dermatologist!
about your skin, get some vitamin D in you!
i'm pale too, but now that i'm spending more time
in the sun my acne is better (sun helps that, btws) and
my skin is a lot more 'tanner' without being tan, you get me?
you're absolutely gorgeous, please don't bring yourself down.
i'm super proud of you, and when your brother is being a bumface
just smile at him, and say "how can you say that with a smile on
your face?" and see his reply.
he seems rude, but please remember you are none of the bad things,
only the good.
good luck <3

Tbh i'd just like a friend!!!
i'm not the best at making them since i'm the most awKWARD PERSON ON EARTH.

i'll be your friend!!!
pm me!!!
i'm a ball of fangirl and enjoy music fun!!
<33
nah, if you mean at school go talk to someone
maybe someone you sit next to
strike up a small convo and be like "hey, can i hang out with you at lunch?"
good luck <3333

here alone with my sister
in the pelting rain
at night
for an hour
need comfort

i'm a bit late,
but i hope it went okay!!!<3

today just feels... strange
im not really sure what it is
of course im terrified about that man and im definitely not looking forward to saturday [pm, please?]
idk what it is about today...
anyone else feels this way sometimes?

also that pm would be nice... i need to rant and get serious comfort
last time i asked for a pm no one replied lol, i didnt expect anyone to haha

that's okay,
i get what is going on on saturday.
stay indoors don't answer the door, ignore everything to do with people.
you'll be fine babe, trust me.
just carry stuff if you're going out!!
i feel that way sometimes
just have a bath,
have a warm drink with junk food and
watch your favourite movie.
you'll be okay <3
i'm proud of you <3
good luck <3

idk whether or not I'm asking too much from him
we're both mentally ill but we've never had a relapse at the same time before
this is new and painful

first off, i'm proud of both of you
you can be there for each other
you aren't asking too much
support eachother and you'll both make it out alive
(ps. i suggest listening to missing you - all time low.)
good luck babe<3

everything is overwhelming and i cant think or br e a the

distract yourself,
read a book,
drink a warm drink and watch a movie.
just do anything you like to help you
escape from the world. even if it is only for
a few minutes. you'll be okay.

I just read a blog/site about.. grossly anti-feminist views and I'm honestly really scared and disgusted and its making my anxiety show its ugly head again.

you'll be okay,
you know none of that stuff is true.
GO FEMINISM
BEING A FEMINIST IS AWESOME
YEAHHHHH
just stick to your own views,
you'll always have the ignorant people in this world.
(psst. listen to carry on - 5 seconds of summer. i know you may
not like them and think "Eeeewwwwwwww" but honestly if you listen
to the lyrics more than anything it'll totally motivate you.)
no anxiety has an ugly head, just needs a bit 'o' help,
you'll be okay
good luck <3

I honestly feel so miserable. A pm and a hug maybe?

you'll be okay.
i'm not sure if someone has already PM'd you, but if
not feel free to pm me.
good luck <3

ugh i cant stand pet sites hardly at all anymore
why do people have to make fun of peoples' identities?
like it doesnt affect you at all?? why do you feel the need to do this??
what's wrong with being out of the ordinary? i guess a lot since people feel they have a right to tell people how to be and who they cant cant be??
im so tired of it, im about ready to just start blocking 90% of the site because im so fed up with seeing it.
like cant you leave people alone?? why do you have to make something that isnt your business a problem??
someone else's identity isn't your problem and isn't your concern, so kindly butt!! the heck!! out!!

it's disgusting isn't it
just keep being yourself, just like people who have their own
identities.
keep going on with your life,
laugh at the idiots and don't react.
some people are just trolls and feed off of attention.
good luck boo <3

trades for dreamies getting cancelled bc u went to sleep haha lol i hate everything

nah boo i get you,
it's actually impossible to get dreamies now.
but don't give up!!!
keep trying!!
you got this!!!
good luck <3

[my sweet piano]

No one replies to the art I post, whenever I post on a forum game it goes long times unnoticed unless it's vs. With fandoms. When I'm going to have 1x1s, they don't reply. When I order art, unless it's an art trade it takes months or doesn't get to me at all. I have no friends, and when I feel like I do, all they say is something like 'omg' or 'cool'. If you hate me, can you at least tell me or something?

[fika.]

No one replies to the art I post, whenever I post on a forum game it goes long times unnoticed unless it's vs. With fandoms. When I'm going to have 1x1s, they don't reply. When I order art, unless it's an art trade it takes months or doesn't get to me at all. I have no friends, and when I feel like I do, all they say is something like 'omg' or 'cool'. If you hate me, can you at least tell me or something?

don't give up!
some people may not have seen your post.
you have friends, and no one hates you.
it's too hard to hate you!
i hope you get what you want soon
you really deserve it.
good luck <3

[shim]

Yay for probably having to get a new $100 laptop charger because of my stupid dog not listening. I'm so mad. I'm so upset. I dont even have the time or money to get it. I hate myself. I hate my dog.

[fika.]

Yay for probably having to get a new $100 laptop charger because of my stupid dog not listening. I'm so mad. I'm so upset. I dont even have the time or money to get it. I hate myself. I hate my dog.

ok you might actually hate me for saying this,
but don't blame the dog!!
he can't speak human, he might not know
next time be sure to keep the charger out the way.
and make sure your doge is all good bc you know it's dangerous.
as for the money, maybe loan from your family or smth and promise
to pay them back.
i hope all is okay!<3

[Stirbargen]

i think about the friends i had on here a lot and it really makes me melancholic.
i had a ton of friends, both online and irl, before i moved.
even the reason i moved wasn't too perfect. but. i dunno.
sometimes i wish that it was still 2012-2013 and i could be a part of gift bombing groups again.
i wish my friends were still around on here, or at least remembered me.

[OKULTRA]

pm please? (again :c)

[fika.]

i think about the friends i had on here a lot and it really makes me melancholic.
i had a ton of friends, both online and irl, before i moved.
even the reason i moved wasn't too perfect. but. i dunno.
sometimes i wish that it was still 2012-2013 and i could be a part of gift bombing groups again.
i wish my friends were still around on here, or at least remembered me.

you can always be a part of gift bombing groups,
there are hundreds of kind people on this site.
i'm sure they still remember you,
people like you are hard to forget <3
don't give up on finding friends!!!
i hope you find some amazing ones soon <3

pm please? (again :c)

sending!