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by dolan duk » Sun Jan 17, 2016 1:22 pm
i have lots of crushes, is that a bad thing? but i do have a crush whom is also my best friend, so it's kind of weird if he found out. he doesn't get a sign from me at all that i like him, and that's alright. but... he told me he had a crush on somebody who yells at me and hates me so much. he shouldn't like somebody who disses his friends. it's not okay. my heart's broken. somebody lied to him and said that i told his crush something really bad when i didn't. he's mad at me. he won't smile at me. he won't talk to me. he won't look at me. i get the felling that he likes me sometimes. how can he hate me? why am i crying, and why do i feel like you like me when i clearly know that you hate me. everybody hates me. i got so much praise at my soccer game today, and we lost. five to zero. my coach was strict about it, and it made me cry. my coach didn't care. i just wanted to go home and be alone. i want to be with you.
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by ratgutz. » Sun Jan 17, 2016 1:22 pm
☁ I'm honestly so scared that I might
fall into an eating disorder again. It was horrible
and I finally got rid of it but sometimes those
bad thoughts will just come rushing back again
and I just really don't want to fall into that
destructive cycle again but it just feels so horrible
and I can;t really talk to any of my friends
about it because I don;t want to worry them and I just..
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by PurpleMonkey1212 » Sun Jan 17, 2016 10:13 pm
I don't know what to do..My ex best friend and I had this huge fight a few days ago and broke up. She blamed me for being a horrible friend even though I said I was trying to be a better friend to her. I have other friends but we were special from the start tbh. 2 years ago we had so much in common but now we are, well, strangers to each other and we are drifting away from each other. I have already decided to stop being her friend but I just need some comfort and someone to talk to

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by fika. » Sun Jan 17, 2016 10:42 pm
AutumnClifford wrote:I'm supposed to go to a concert with two of my close friends but I feel like I've done something wrong or to piss them off.
I hate my anxiety I want it to go away. :s
good news is, you probably haven't!
talk to your friends about it, ask if you've done anything wrong
and enjoy the concert! it'll be fun c:
good luck <3
lonely; wrote:i have lots of crushes, is that a bad thing? but i do have a crush whom is also my best friend, so it's kind of weird if he found out. he doesn't get a sign from me at all that i like him, and that's alright. but... he told me he had a crush on somebody who yells at me and hates me so much. he shouldn't like somebody who disses his friends. it's not okay. my heart's broken. somebody lied to him and said that i told his crush something really bad when i didn't. he's mad at me. he won't smile at me. he won't talk to me. he won't look at me. i get the felling that he likes me sometimes. how can he hate me? why am i crying, and why do i feel like you like me when i clearly know that you hate me. everybody hates me. i got so much praise at my soccer game today, and we lost. five to zero. my coach was strict about it, and it made me cry. my coach didn't care. i just wanted to go home and be alone. i want to be with you.
it's cool to have a lot of crushes
private message him somewhere, and explain
explain how you didn't lie because he's your best friend
and you would never do that, explain to him how you're
feeling and how you just want to talk to somebody.
if he's truly your best friend he should listen to you before
rumours. good luck with the relationship c; <3
pumpkin bruises ▻ wrote:☁ I'm honestly so scared that I might
fall into an eating disorder again. It was horrible
and I finally got rid of it but sometimes those
bad thoughts will just come rushing back again
and I just really don't want to fall into that
destructive cycle again but it just feels so horrible
and I can;t really talk to any of my friends
about it because I don;t want to worry them and I just..
i get it,
you don't want your friends to worry.
but tell them! if they're your friends,
they won't be mad or angry, or upset,
they'll try to help you through those bad thoughts.
don't put others feelings in front of your own boo,
your health is important.
but i'm proud of you for being able to get out of it,
and if you ever fall in it again just know that i'm
always here for you and i'm rooting for you to get
back out.
good luck <3
cirno wrote:why am i really here? i dont know anymore. truly considering quitting cs...
if you do it, you will be missed dude
i've seen you around and you're such a cool member
tbh i wish i had the guts to message you
if anything has happened to you, please don't quit
because of that reason.
if you want to quit to study more, then go for it
but i have an app which can block this site
for a certain amount of time that you want to study
it's called SelfControl
you'll get whatever you want one day (:
good luck <3
EmmaBelle wrote:I don't know what to do..My ex best friend and I had this huge fight a few days ago and broke up. She blamed me for being a horrible friend even though I said I was trying to be a better friend to her. I have other friends but we were special from the start tbh. 2 years ago we had so much in common but now we are, well, strangers to each other and we are drifting away from each other. I have already decided to stop being her friend but I just need some comfort and someone to talk to

if it's a toxic relationship
i'm glad you ended the relationship.
i was just like you, and after two nights
of crying to sleep i realised i had other friends.
which you said you do, which is amazing.
go talk to your friends about it, they'll be there for you
plus, sometimes a change of friends is nice c:
good luck <3
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by shim » Sun Jan 17, 2016 10:51 pm
week two of an inconsistent sleeping pattern. Almost every night I've been going to bed at 5 am and its destroying me. Sure, I have medication for sleeping for when I have random moments of insomnia, but they make me feel sick and bring back bad memories. I can't really do much else for sleeping except for the medication really. Whenever I try to sleep my mind can't seem to stop thinking, which leads to me getting anxious over things, leading to panic attacks. I'm going to mention this to my therapist but ugh. I just need a hug and answers. That's all I want. I just want to know what all is wrong with me.
(feel free to ignore, just need to let this out somewhere)
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by fika. » Sun Jan 17, 2016 10:53 pm
~Shimmer wrote:week two of an inconsistent sleeping pattern. Almost every night I've been going to bed at 5 am and its destroying me. Sure, I have medication for sleeping for when I have random moments of insomnia, but they make me feel sick and bring back bad memories. I can't really do much else for sleeping except for the medication really. Whenever I try to sleep my mind can't seem to stop thinking, which leads to me getting anxious over things, leading to panic attacks. I'm going to mention this to my therapist but ugh. I just need a hug and answers. That's all I want. I just want to know what all is wrong with me.
(feel free to ignore, just need to let this out somewhere)

i'm proud of you for getting through this!!!!
mentioning it to your therapist is a good thing
as they can give you other medications/ways
to try and sleep.
if you ever want to relax your brain a bit, shut all
light of, and listen to asmr. it's amazing and may
seem odd but it gives you a tingle in your head.
good luck <3
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