| TheComfortCorner | v.5

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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby DoomyPanda » Fri Jan 08, 2016 2:58 pm

The smallest most insignificant things can make me so amazingly happy that I start to cry. But... other very small insignificant things can also make me feel like I've sunk into the deepest darkest hole you could imagine.

When I try to rationalize my way out of feeling awful about little things by saying "oh no it's insignificant," I start feeling worse because if that's true, then what if the small things that make me really happy are insignificant, too? It sounds kind of odd, but it really means a lot to me.

I can feel like I'm floating on clouds of happiness and love but then five minutes later I feel weighed down by all the garbage in the world. I dunno... I could use a digital hug.
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby Jιηx » Fri Jan 08, 2016 3:04 pm

Doomy wrote:The smallest most insignificant things can make me so amazingly happy that I start to cry. But... other very small insignificant things can also make me feel like I've sunk into the deepest darkest hole you could imagine.

When I try to rationalize my way out of feeling awful about little things by saying "oh no it's insignificant," I start feeling worse because if that's true, then what if the small things that make me really happy are insignificant, too? It sounds kind of odd, but it really means a lot to me.

I can feel like I'm floating on clouds of happiness and love but then five minutes later I feel weighed down by all the garbage in the world. I dunno... I could use a digital hug.


*warning* this may be the rambling of an idiot
Consider this a digital hug sent! I know, it's really hard when everything, even the little things, make you feel so intensely. But that's also really beautiful, that those things can make you feel. For most people, something small IS insignificant, even when it's good. The fact that the small things make you feel this way is a rare thing, and it's a really beautiful thing. You just need to find a way to not let the bad affect you as much.
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby sapiosexual » Fri Jan 08, 2016 3:06 pm

Doomy wrote:The smallest most insignificant things can make me so amazingly happy that I start to cry. But... other very small insignificant things can also make me feel like I've sunk into the deepest darkest hole you could imagine.

When I try to rationalize my way out of feeling awful about little things by saying "oh no it's insignificant," I start feeling worse because if that's true, then what if the small things that make me really happy are insignificant, too? It sounds kind of odd, but it really means a lot to me.

I can feel like I'm floating on clouds of happiness and love but then five minutes later I feel weighed down by all the garbage in the world. I dunno... I could use a digital hug.

nothing that makes you happy is insignifigant. even if its just a smile from someone or a random compliment, its okay if it makes you happy ! but with the smallest horrible things that seem to trigger your sadness- youre allowed to be sad sometimes, its a normal human emotion (even though it sucks)- when youre feeling bad from the "insignifigant bad things" maybe remember all the little happy things in your life !! cancel out the bad with the good- depending on the situation it may be difficult but i believe youre strong enough to make your way through whatever life hurls at you! hugs u

@itsybitsyspider; your hamster must have lived a long and happy life while living with you! pet deaths, especially when youve had them for a while, can be actually pretty tough to deal with . its so nice to hear he never suffered and at least you knew his time was approaching. maybe make a little memorial for him!
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby Jelly. » Fri Jan 08, 2016 3:10 pm

I got a terrible score on my SMI
I know it seems silly, but i'm doing so well in math,
and all my career ideas, rest on me doing well in math and getting in the AP life science classes
I can't afford another math class.
The teacher said it wasn't really a big deal,
but I'm going down on both my SMI and SRI.
I feel like....trash. Math Treash.
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby Pragmatic » Fri Jan 08, 2016 3:22 pm

KabukiKinz wrote:
Can You Not wrote:School has been giving me so much anxiety.


Oh yeah, school does that so much. But in the long run your education will be important if you want to get a job, but don't stress about it! Ignore mean kids, be nice to the teachers, and get your work done. I have learned to just not care what anyone thinks. You got this!



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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby mr.robot » Fri Jan 08, 2016 4:27 pm

pls for the love of god can i just have ONE night of sleep just one
im so tired all the time
ive tried everything - literally
this is what... four years of this now?
ridiculous

*feel free to ignore, just having a little vent.

also if anyone needs a chat feel free to pm me!! im gonna try sleep again now but ill be available in like... 3 hours even if i do sleep lol
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby Dill » Fri Jan 08, 2016 4:32 pm

I am so done with school. I feel like the stress has broken me. And I still have several hours of homework tonight and I'm exhausted because I didn't get a lot of sleep last night because it took me ages to fall asleep because of stress. I'm in 5 college level classes and I'm not even in college yet and my coping mechanism with stress is rapidly becoming avoiding it/not doing assignments and I just don't want to do this anymore... help
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby Lincoln » Fri Jan 08, 2016 4:39 pm

I just need a friend right now. Or even better, a relationship.
I would like it if any of you had time to come chat with me tonight ;u;
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby vval » Fri Jan 08, 2016 4:45 pm

my anxiety/stress levels are quite high lately. going back after all what's happened (all good things) has made it so much harder to go back to school. i haven't gone a day without either trying not to cry, or crying. tonight i spent almost five hours working on a project due next week, and it just stressed me out so much more. this weekend i have some nice things planned out, so hopefully i'll be stress free and happy. but in the meantime i have to last one last day, which may be slightly stressful, at least i have a scrapbooking class for the last hour. but i'm just really depressed atm because after all the company left, everyone's back to work, and all the festivity is gone, everything feels so empty and life feels so pointless. school is just causing a lot of stress on me and i know it will be great for future education, but at the moment i really want to go back to two years ago, when i missed a month of school because my dad was in an accident (and i know this is bad but read further), me and my mom never argued once, except this one time where we had a tiny argument about something lost, but back then it was christmas, we were quiet, friendly, calm, y'know i wish things were like that, just not my dad in the hospital (he's perfectly okay now, he was one of two in every 100 people to survive his injury!) i hate having to be stressed out about school, my parents' thoughts, my friends, etc. etc. i've gotten better since monday, i pretty much cried all day at school, it was really stressful. today i cried three times, once because of stress, once because of happiness (my mom told me something about my birthday, it wasn't much but i was really emotional so) and once because i had an argument five minutes after that. i wish i could just go one day feeling happy

sorry for the long vent/rant
just wanted to get some things out
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby bud » Fri Jan 08, 2016 5:25 pm

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