♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

[dracosmalfoy]

i have a boyfriend and he's amazing. i adore him. i crushed on him for the longest time too?? i didn't think it would turn out with us dating, but here we are

[Eurydice]

okay, first time being here. Someone I used to date came here often (still does) and I thought I try it out. It's not about them though c:

High School has just started yet again, and someone I've known since...well about 3'rd grade finally asked me out. I mean, he told me his feelings about 2 years ago. but at the time I had just started a relationship with my... last love ^^ (I dislike using ex) Now, here's the thing, I said yes.

But, I'm only... 5 days in now and I'm having second thoughts. Not that I don't care about him, nor that he's a bad boyfriend. But I had my heart set one someone else, a girl. I'm bisexual. Either you believe in that is an actual preference, or if you think "she just doesn't know what she wants', well then, whatever c: not my problem. What my problem is, that I'm still very much wanting to try relationship with this said girl. But had given up hope on 2 different aspects.

One, there is a girl I think is much closer with her then I will ever be (though is dating a guy atm), and 2, I assumed she was straight as a line. Only today did I learn she was into girls. And one of my friends is trying to learn if she has any interest at all to me.

Problem being, should I try to peruse this new possibility of a relationship with her? Or should I stick with the guy I got. My feelings for him arn't strong, but if I were to date any guy, it would be him and only him. No one else.

Any advise on how to go about this?...

Well, if it were me i would try to pursue the relationship, but tbh it really depends, the girl could say she doesn't like you, so that's why i think you shouldn't let him go just yet, but if she does like you, decided who you have stronger feelings for.

If you like the girl a lot more then let him off easy, and in a week, go after the girl, cause you dont want to start dating the girl right after, its kinda rude....

so thats my advice.

[.nubs.]

*That awkward moment when you find out a guy you like is 3 grades older than you )*

I dated a guy 3 years older than me when I was in Freshman year of high school. It was barely a relationship because I was 14 and immature, but there was nothing really wrong with it. It's not like he would be a predator just for liking you back, but any age difference bigger than 3 or -maybe- 4 years at your age gets iffy fast. Be sure to check your state laws.

I agree. I'm extremely mature for my age so I always end up dating older people. Not like....ew older people, but understandably older people.

[Casistrophic]

*That awkward moment when you find out a guy you like is 3 grades older than you )*

I dated a guy 3 years older than me when I was in Freshman year of high school. It was barely a relationship because I was 14 and immature, but there was nothing really wrong with it. It's not like he would be a predator just for liking you back, but any age difference bigger than 3 or -maybe- 4 years at your age gets iffy fast. Be sure to check your state laws.

I agree. I'm extremely mature for my age so I always end up dating older people. Not like....ew older people, but understandably older people.

Just be careful. Older guys who -are- a problem specifically look for people who want to be/believe they are mature for their age (so...every teenager, pretty much). Often it's a trait that goes along with a certain amount of naivete which can be exploited/manipulated by people with bad intentions.

[runnershigh]

my girlfriend and i are v happy, but we live so far apart and i think it's starting to take a toll on my mental health. i mean, i'm already unstable but its gotten worse. i've become easy to upset, easy to anger, i am possessive and obsessive and i just feel like i'm losing it. i miss her so much.

[Paranoia]

my girlfriend and i are v happy, but we live so far apart and i think it's starting to take a toll on my mental health. i mean, i'm already unstable but its gotten worse. i've become easy to upset, easy to anger, i am possessive and obsessive and i just feel like i'm losing it. i miss her so much.

Oh man, I know that feel ;-;
My boyfriend and I have been getting more and more ornery with each other the longer we've been apart.
Neither of our feelings have changed towards one another but I've been frustrated lately and I'm sure he's been frustrated and tired as well. I try to have patience but in the end I just don't.
Long distance relationships are beyond tough and I guess there's no real advice to this, besides maybe some comfort of knowing someone sits in sort of the same position as you?
Just try to be patient and hope that you'll see them in person sometime soon <3
I can offer hugs, someone to talk to, and art /once I get some sleep so feel free to send more refs my way and maybe I'll get to something more than a sketch at some point ;u;/

[ShinyLugia]

A Boy That Likes Me Wont Tell Me To Be His Girlfriend But We Like Each Other And My Friends Are Trying To Hook Us Up But He Is Very Shy.. What Should I Do? I Mean People Keep Saying Were Ment To Be But I Don't Know What To Do, I Need Tips On Dating And Relationships. But Also Don't Know If Im Ready.. Because After I Found Out He Liked Me He Would Avoid Me I Don't Know If He Still Likes Me Anymore.. I Mean He's Smart And Caring But I Don't Know What To Do.. Do I Tell Him How I Feel About Him Too Or Just Letting Him Avoid Me? Im Just So Comfused! What Should I Do?

[runnershigh]

my girlfriend and i are v happy, but we live so far apart and i think it's starting to take a toll on my mental health. i mean, i'm already unstable but its gotten worse. i've become easy to upset, easy to anger, i am possessive and obsessive and i just feel like i'm losing it. i miss her so much.

Oh man, I know that feel ;-;
My boyfriend and I have been getting more and more ornery with each other the longer we've been apart.
Neither of our feelings have changed towards one another but I've been frustrated lately and I'm sure he's been frustrated and tired as well. I try to have patience but in the end I just don't.
Long distance relationships are beyond tough and I guess there's no real advice to this, besides maybe some comfort of knowing someone sits in sort of the same position as you?
Just try to be patient and hope that you'll see them in person sometime soon <3
I can offer hugs, someone to talk to, and art /once I get some sleep so feel free to send more refs my way and maybe I'll get to something more than a sketch at some point ;u;/

thank you so much ;v; <3
i've only seen her twice since we started dating [and we've been dating for nine months], and there's 900km and my protective parents between us, and it's just so frustrating
but thank you for your kind words, it does comfort me to know that you know how i feel ;v;
you're so lovely, thank you ;u; <3 [also i hope you sleep well!]

[shim]

Figured i'd try this thread. I need some advice or some comfort right now.

I have a friend whom i'm very close with. I've helped them through a lot and they've done the same for me. But i feel as our friendship has taken a turn for the worse.

Back in November 2014, they told me they liked this girl, and that they were both dating. All was fine until the girl cheated on them and pretty much used them. They broke up a bit after.

Fast forward to April 2015, my friend and i started to get very close and we both had feelings for each other. We pretty much had a platonic relationship to say, and we only got closer and closer.

A bit after April, i don't remember exactly when, the girl who cheated on them in the past tried to reconnect with them again. She told them that she felt bad and that she had changed and was in love with them apparently. Myself and a few other friends tried to warn them about being careful as she might go and do the same. After some consideration they ended up dating yet again. A few weeks after they were dating, the same happened. She cheated and lied to them and they broke up and i never heard about them again. Until now.

My friend and i have gotten extremely close, to the point of dating to say the least, we had both forgotten about her and moved on. I found out last night that my friend had been talking to her, claiming that she had matured a lot and changed over the past few months and that she was also moving far away. But the worst, they like her.

I have mixed feelings about it. I want to be the supportive friend but it makes me sick to my stomach to think that after all we've been through, they like her. I'm mainly upset as they told me that if they and her date, that their feelings for me would stay the same and they'd love me just the same. And that i thought they loved me, that i was good enough and that they wouldn't want anyone else i guess. I'm not sure what to tell them right now. They aren't talking to me either.

What should i do? Should i be the supportive friend and help them and sit in silence with how i feel? Or should i simply try to stop it from happening? Or am i just being oversensitive about this entire situation as they might not even end up dating?

Sorry for such the long and confusing post, i hope i explained it well.

[Lincoln]

I have something short to say.

I just finished school, and my ex-boyfriend has a couple years of school left.
The other thing is, he's only my ex because his mom despises me, and won't let me talk to him AT ALL.
She got hold of his phone, and deleted and blocked my contact. And since I'm not allowed to talk to him, I can't give him my number. He also thinks the relationship is over.