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I just feel so bad, I hate giving late replies to my friends, why did my computer have to screw up? :c I need a huggggg

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I just feel so bad, I hate giving late replies to my friends, why did my computer have to screw up? :c I need a huggggg

*HUGS* Don't worry, your friend will understand, and don't feel bad, happens to the best of us ^^.

i found out today that my aunt has numerous spinal rumors. surgery runs the high risk of death and there's already one too many deaths in my family this year. i'm worried for her and the stability of my family.

*HUGS* Stay strong, and help your family and aunt stay strong. Visit her and comfort her, I'm not the best at advice but all I can say is help her stay strong and hold her hand. And about your family, let them know your concerns and do your best to help them. Sorry I can't do more but I'm praying for your family, you, and your aunts well being.

The pain in my chest is getting worse

*HUGS* Please seek help from a doctor or let someone know. Don't struggle alone. I hope your chest pain gets better and you seek help immediately.

i was shut down about wearing a suit for this easter party my stepmother throws every year. there isnt a shadow of a doubt in my mind ill be forced to dress like a girl, and i know nobody will use my name/pronouns. on top of that, my mother undermined my dysphoria today and doesnt even believe it's real.

i'm just...done.

*HUGS* Have you tried consulting your father or letting a teacher or friend know? As I've said, don't struggle alone. Also, I'm sorry about the Easter thing. I'm not the best at advice again but I know how it feels to be forced to dress like a 'proper girl'. If it real gets you stressed or angry take a walk, it helps.

I am really, really lonely.
I have no friends near me, and it's not like I am good in social situations.
I'm just ready to break down and sob.
Is that okay? Nobody cared in my area anyway. .n.

*HUGS* I care, and so do many other people. You just don't see them. And break down and cry if you must, it's a good way to let things out. Also, have you tried to practice speech and approach someone? Good luck and I hope your days get better.

Sometimes I feel like I'm paranoid, in a way. .-. I sometimes feel like everybody's against me, that everything they say holds some type of hidden meaning, yet no matter how hard I try, I can't crack the code ... There are times where I will honestly reread somebody's message ten+ times, even if it's just a simple "Hey, what's up?", just to make sure I caught every punctuation mark, analyzed their word choice, get a good feel for the tone of the message- because I am terrified that there is some hidden meaning in their words and I have to find out what they truly mean.
I just get so wrapped up in the thought that my friends might actually not care for me, or that complete strangers I meet might know something about me that they're willing to hold against me ... I just can't help myself from obsessing over the words they use, reading their body language. I just feel like there's always something they aren't telling me, and it drives me insane sometimes.
Yet, this isn't all the time. I just have random episodes where I'll feel like this, but even still, it drives me crazy.

A hug would be nice, but in this situation, I'm mostly just looking for somebody who feels like they understand. Perhaps this isn't as uncommon as I'm thinking it is, maybe most people feel this way from time to time, but I would just love to talk to somebody who feels they can relate- and can possibly give me advice to control my semi-paranoid thoughts, since I don't want to worry about all these little things anymore. ;-;

Bringing up an old post I made a few days earlier. I realize that this issue isn't nearly as major as other people's concerns posted on this thread, so I'm in no way forcing anybody to reply! I simply wanted to bring it up, since today was a rougher day for me (I thought some of my friends were ignoring me and it caused me to freak out a little bit)... I don't think I'm truly "paranoid," as in having the mental disorder- I simply just have a lot of worries that I never learned how to properly deal with. Any type of advice would be greatly appreciated, or a simple conversation will do just as nicely. If you have the time, that is.

Thank you in advance for any help. c:

*HUGS* Don't worry, every problem is important.
Okay, anyways. Take a deep breath, and talk to your friends and parents about how you feel. It helps. Trust me. And that's also something you must do. Trust your friends. Good luck! I'm sure you'll managed to figure out this problem.

im pretty sure i have borderline personality disorder and i want to ask my therapist if i could get screened for it, but i have no idea how to bring it up. i know i sound like an idiot for not knowing how to ask, but how would someone even bring that up for discussion? any tips would help. thank you in advance.

Well... You could try bringing up how you've been feeling and what's been going on to make you think this. After that you can bring it up.

Or you can just ask confidently, like, "_Insert Name_, I've been having these symptoms/problems/feelings and I think I have Borderline Personality disorder, I was wondering if I should get screened for it."

Sorry if this wasn't helpful at all. Try getting advice from a trusted adult or friend. Good luck!

of course, just because I'm a woman, that automatically means I'm on my period if I'm upset.
totally right, mom.

No it's totally not because of how stressful school is and how I'm failing in my track team...

*HUGS* Cheer up! I know how stressful school is sometimes you need to take a break and relax. Try managing your time well and if you ever need help on homework get help from you parents or friends! Also, I'm sure you're not doing very bad at track. And if you are, maybe managing your time to have more training could help? Sorry for not being very helpful but I hope it all gets better.

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If anybody ever needs help I'm open for a PM. Don't worry, although I don't give the best advice I'll listen to you.
I'm also sorry if there is a typo occasionally, I'm on mobile so it's hard to type >~<

[shim]

Overflowing with school stress
Can't even take a day off without getting yelled at
I always do everything wrong there
I hate it
>n<

[CarmillaTheCreampuff]

Overflowing with school stress
Can't even take a day off without getting yelled at
I always do everything wrong there
I hate it
>n<

*hugs*
It'll be okay honey
Try drinking some hot tea or cocoa and just allowing yourself a little break
Give yourself a little bit of time to just cool off.
Trust me, a bit of silence with a hot beverage calms you down C:
Feel free to pm me if you want to vent as well
I do hope it gets better for you, and I know you can tackle any challenge thrown at you

[MoonStone00]

My last rat jelly just passed away and it's all my fault. I shouldn't have put flea dop on her. The last thing I got to say to her was I love her and sing you are my sunshine.

[amaoretto]

I feel like crying right now, tears are actually starting to form in my eyes...
I overheard my mother and step-father fighting about our new dog...
My mother is allergic to fur but we have a Mexican Hairless...
My mother is sick because of her and they're thinking of giving her away.

I-I just don't know what to do...

[BrainOnSka]

okie dokie chicken rant here.. bought a blue "Old English game bantam" at a swap.. turns out the guy was either wrong or lied.. 4 old english game breeders have told me he is a DUTCH I feel sick to my stomach... Maybe I shouldn't have asked.. And i have a brown red in with my Wheaten.. Was told it would put me Backwards, not forwards But If I would have bred him to mouse (The wheaten) and got mutt babies to sell to 4-H kids.. I would have felt even worse... but now I might need to get rid of Roopert (the Blue "old english" which is actually Dutch), and I've already grown attached, or to take on another breed (heck I have Mille Fleur D'Uccles, Black Breasted Red (BB red) Old Enlgish Game Bantams, Lemon BlueXBrown Red Old English game bantams, Wheaten old english game bantams [IF i can find a pair without paying $60!] and Easter eggers.) I was never told breeding would be this hard. Now I need to text mom in the morning and tell her to get Roopert out of the pen with the 3 girls, and put Martin in, put mouse out with the BB Reds and the 4 easter eggers and put Roopert in that cage where mouse was... Alone. Until we can figure out what to do with him. I really don't want to get rid of him, he's such a cute boy! But to take on another breed? I mean they are Bantams. But will mom be able to find blue dutch hens? Plus school worrying me too. GAH. I just want to scream. hey at least I didn't just start breeding all willy nilly, but it still sucks. Mouse and Martin were such a cute couple. And just.. yeah. Sick to my stomach over chickens.. Is this really what my life has come to? Can I get a reasurring nod or hug?

[Bittertiffany]

So many thins have happened in my life, so many things, and it keeps coming back to beat me down. I'm not even looking forward to the summer anymore because I have to go to my dad's house half of the time. I've started to get depressed.. I've been robbed from a large portion of my childhood, and all I want to do right now is go back just one year, to the time where I actually had freinds, where I had much less cares than I do now. All the stress of school is too much now, I have enough with my dad. I just want a normal life, I just want to enjoy my life...

[CarmillaTheCreampuff]

Im having a really hard time breathing
Like
This has been happening a lot as of late
And its like
Im taking breaths
and its not filling my lungs
And I'm feeling dizzy
And Im scared
Cause I've tried all kinds of different positions and nothing is working
It just comes in random outbursts
And doesn't go away until i finally pass out because I'm feeling my body shut down
My parents don't believe me (as usual)
Can I have a hug?

[scythe.]

oH GOD WHAT DO I DO
this person I look up to a lot has been harassed and bullied a lot lately because of personal stuff
and now they just said 'bye' after explaining how everything they did is wrong
but it wasn't
and now I'm scared they're going to do something drastic and stupid that should never be done
and I don't know what to do
I'm scared for them
I don't know what to do
what do I do
I can't breathe