Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Medusa72]

Too embarrassing...nvm ehehehe

PM me if you'd like.
In fact if anyone on here would like to PM rather than just respond to a thread, my mailbox is open, even if it's just ranting.
Why you ask? I know how disappointing it is not to get a response (back when I had boy troubles) and I'd like to give as much support possible.

[ScarWitch]

The struggle is real...

My boyfriend works as a brick mason at his family's masonry and has so for a few years. He does a lot of labor intensive work, and has been injured quite a few times. Doctors have told him that he basically has the body of a 50 year old, when he's less than half that, including arthritus on top of the many aches and pains of long ago incidents.

Anyway, today his spine was acting up so bad he could hardly move, and when he did move his eyes were misted over from the pain. He's going to the chiropractor tomorrow, which is good, I'm just really worried about his injuries in general. His wrist acts up all the time at school, giving out when he's caring things or writing and his knees sometimes do the same thing.

This isn't really looking for advice persay, I'm just worried. My friends are busy at the moment and my mother would tell me that he isn't normal for his age. She likes him, but she has issues with men with long term obvious injuries... Sorry, just had to get it all out. Thanks for reading if anyone does...

[intristin]

The struggle is real...

My boyfriend works as a brick mason at his family's masonry and has so for a few years. He does a lot of labor intensive work, and has been injured quite a few times. Doctors have told him that he basically has the body of a 50 year old, when he's less than half that, including arthritus on top of the many aches and pains of long ago incidents.

Anyway, today his spine was acting up so bad he could hardly move, and when he did move his eyes were misted over from the pain. He's going to the chiropractor tomorrow, which is good, I'm just really worried about his injuries in general. His wrist acts up all the time at school, giving out when he's caring things or writing and his knees sometimes do the same thing.

This isn't really looking for advice persay, I'm just worried. My friends are busy at the moment and my mother would tell me that he isn't normal for his age. She likes him, but she has issues with men with long term obvious injuries... Sorry, just had to get it all out. Thanks for reading if anyone does...

I'm sorry to hear that. :c It must be really hard for you, having a loved one in pain. I'm sure he's appreciating all your concern and support, however, so be sure to keep it up. c: You sound like a very good couple and I hope he starts to feel better soon. <3

[intristin]

Mer.

My boyfriend is so perfect but ;-; whyyyy

I have this issue. I know it sounds like I'm fishing for compliments, but I really. Am. Not. Pretty. By now, I should have lost all the baby fat in my cheeks yet hey - it's still there. It makes me look very childish. Plus, I have glasses. No offense to ANY glasses-wearers. But it doesn't help my face at all. My nose is really fat, too. ;-;

So I'll say something in the middle of a conversation like "blah blah blah I mean, I'm not pretty but blah blah" and all my friends respond "aw you are too pretty!" but c'mon. They're friends. No one is going to say, "Yeah, you're not that pretty.."

When my boyfriend comes on the scene, he compliments my hair, my clothes, everything. I feel like he's trying to make me feel like I'm pretty when (here it comes) I'm not. I don't even know why I feel the need to post this, and I feel so dumb writing it, but it's been bugging me for awhile.

Is my boyfriend trying to make me feel better? I'd like him to stop. It's starting to feel like he's teasing me and strangely enough, I'm annoyed/hurt by his compliments. I know he isn't *really* trying to insult me, but when I know I don't have a very pretty face it hurts when someone compliments it....? I don't know.

[Dia.]

Mer.

My boyfriend is so perfect but ;-; whyyyy

I have this issue. I know it sounds like I'm fishing for compliments, but I really. Am. Not. Pretty. By now, I should have lost all the baby fat in my cheeks yet hey - it's still there. It makes me look very childish. Plus, I have glasses. No offense to ANY glasses-wearers. But it doesn't help my face at all. My nose is really fat, too. ;-;

So I'll say something in the middle of a conversation like "blah blah blah I mean, I'm not pretty but blah blah" and all my friends respond "aw you are too pretty!" but c'mon. They're friends. No one is going to say, "Yeah, you're not that pretty.."

When my boyfriend comes on the scene, he compliments my hair, my clothes, everything. I feel like he's trying to make me feel like I'm pretty when (here it comes) I'm not. I don't even know why I feel the need to post this, and I feel so dumb writing it, but it's been bugging me for awhile.

Is my boyfriend trying to make me feel better? I'd like him to stop. It's starting to feel like he's teasing me and strangely enough, I'm annoyed/hurt by his compliments. I know he isn't *really* trying to insult me, but when I know I don't have a very pretty face it hurts when someone compliments it....? I don't know.

He's your boyfriend for a reason. I know, I know... It's on the inside that counts, looks don't matter, blah blah blah... BUT I strongly believe initial attraction doesn't come from personality. Appearance plays a key role, because without being attracted to appearance, you won't be interested enough to learn about all those other things that make someone special like their interest, their personality, their sense of humor, their obsession with cats, video games, chocolate cake, stupid puns....
This means he likes you for YOU, just the way you are. Maybe you don't see why, but I guarantee that he sees all these little things that make you beautiful to him. ^^
I read this tumblr post that was like the most real thing ever. It was about crushes and relating your own to how other people just feel about you. You see all these little things in the person you like that just make your heart scream because ohmygoshtheyaresoperf<3. They most likely don't see these little things and if they do, it's unlikely that they think it's charming or cute or attractive.

I'm not sure if this post made any sense...

[intristin]

Hehe, it made enough sense. cx Thank you for the advice. I'll try to remember it when he compliments me. I don't even know why I feel that way. :p Maybe I'm used to people who make sarcastic comments about me online or something, who knows xD

[Dia.]

Hehe, it made enough sense. cx Thank you for the advice. I'll try to remember it when he compliments me. I don't even know why I feel that way. :p Maybe I'm used to people who make sarcastic comments about me online or something, who knows xD

Everyone feels that way sometimes. ^^
For every compliment that you push away, make it your goal to accept two in it's place. When you accept them, try to see them as well. Yeah, I know that's super hard. xD But for example, "You're eyes look really good today!" Oh yeah, I guess I was pretty happy with the way my eyeliner worked out this morning! o3o

[kotalicious]

I need some serious help right now -_-
I went to see my boyfriend last Tuesday. I stayed with him for the whole and we did some..... things I guess. I had a wonderful time and was extremely happy. We texted each other the whole night after I got home. The next day he didn't really talk to me, and he hasn't since then. I mean, we still talk but its not a lot. Maybe an hour tops. We don't even say we love each other anymore. When I told him I loved him he never replied. I was stressing out wicked bad yesterday because of it so I decided to talk to him. I asked him if I did something wrong or if he was losing his feelings for me. He said it wasn't like that. He told me he was just sick and extremely stressed. He told me he was thinking about moving ti Cali which is waaaaay across the US from me. I asked him if he wanted to break up with me and he said "no. not now." I was hoping talking to him would make me feel better but now I feel even worse. He said he still loved me but there's no doubt that he's going to break up with me before he goes to Cali. I know I will get over it eventually as I seem to get over things way too easily, but I still don't want it to happen. I love him and don't want to lose him but he won't tell me what he's stressing about and he won't let me help him. My best friend told me to dump him before he dumped me to save me from the hurt, but I think that would hurt me even more. I like him more than I've liked anyone before and I just don't know what to do. Some advice would be wonderful right now.

Edit: and now he's blocked me on facebook -_-

[goranski.]

So. First day back at school, saw T, and for some reason he seems to be mad at me. And I went home sick. But on top of that, this girl C was on my Instagram and he wanted to be added to my bio so I said why do u care and C commented "bc he likes u" and I'm like "what?" And she didn't respond but today in 2nd period I got up to grab something and she came up to me and she said "you know about our Instagram convo a few days ago? It's true" so now I'm just confused and sorry, I kinda was just ranting...;-;

[Clifford95]

Hi! Could anyone please pm me? I have some questions about stuff...
Edit: Sorry that was really vague...I really like this guy but we can't date and I need some advice