Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[spring.]

Ok so I sent the forbidden words to my ex.
I need to talk to you.
I'm gonna call him tomorrow if I am alone or if I can go on a walk. I am going to talk to him about various things.

1. The situation with a.
2. He constantly tells me he still cares, but why aren't we dating? / Why does he only care when I am truly frightened or when I am threatening to kill myself because of depression? Where is all this caring when I am having a mental breakdown over my grades or when I am withdrawing from everything?
3. Why did we break up?
4. Why did we date?


I know I liked him but I don't honestly think he liked me. So I want all of these questions answered

[surfiez]

AHHHH I just had the best night ever! ❤️❤️ So I finally chose out of the two guys who I like the most. Anyway we were talking all day and we went ice skating with a bunch of friends. So towards the end I found out that he liked me from his sister and I kinda knew but this was like really good news. Anyway we were both scared to make the first move but I finally confronted him and asked him if he liked me. I he said he did and I said I did and then he asked me to be his girlfriend! Such a good night ❤️ We held hands and hugged ahhh such an amazing night that I will never forget

[kayynine]

I don't even know what to do anymore.

I have a huge crush on this guy at my school, but there's so many reasons I can't ask him out, even if I wanted to.
I've known him since middle school and have had a crush on him since.
We had a class together last year, but this year we... had none.
Even then, we'd pass each-other between classes and he'd occasionally glance at me or completely stop speaking at his friends and start staring. I can only assume that he was being playful, and nothing more.
We only spoke twice that year, because I was shy AND because it wasn't 'right' for our cliques to mix. Some did, just because they were what I'd like to call 'Superior' to everyone else in the group. A lot of girls in that group had a crush on him as well, but it didn't seem like he paid them any attention.
Once, he did that thing where we backed into a corner and he put one arm against the wall so he was leaning over me, but he only asked if I liked a certain type of music. I gave him an answer, and he nodded, said that he liked the band as well, and walked off.
Recently, school has been a huge stress for me so I've been trying to forget about him. And then, boom. I'm in Independent Studies. I didn't even get to say goodbye, even though it was my choice and I knew that it was my last day. So now the only way I can even 'speak' to him is through friends, and I never see them. He's on my mind all day, and I just can't help it. I feel so lost, and somewhat depressed because of my own acts. I knew I couldn't be with him anyway because he was the type to ask someone out even when he was still in a relationship, and I knew he had several girl's phone numbers.. Only 2 of my closest friends know that I have a crush on him, but I haven't spoken to either of them since I left. He's the type that your parents wouldn't want you to be with. I guess you can say he's a 'bad boy' but I can't help it. Gah... What do I do? I've debated going back but I know that I'll just end up back where I am, ignored and depressed. Not only by him, but by my 'friends' too. Life is so confusing...

[surfiez]

^ just ask him if he likes you. That's what I did and now I have a boyfriend

[wicked;]

ha, he hates me.
because i was just trying too hard.
and that screwed everything up.
fml.

[kayynine]

^ just ask him if he likes you. That's what I did and now I have a boyfriend :D

I. Can't. Even if I wanted to. I'm on Independent studies.
Even then, as I explained, it would be too complicated. He doesn't have a Skype, Kik, etc. so there'd be no way to even communicate.

[booshcat]

The last time I was on this thread it was a pretty terribly ending (sort of) crush. Nooooow.... not so much!

A few weeks ago I went to a concert, and while my friends and I were waiting outside (in the pouring rain, I might add) after the show, we met up with some people. There was this one guy who was extremely cute and outgoing it seemed. When we had to leave I got his number and we've been talking on and off since then. It's really nice, not like a 21 questions kind of thing- very relaxed and stuff.

I was second guessing that he was even interested in continuing to get to know me, but he's initiated conversation first multiple times, and his responses wouldn't be as genuine if he wasn't interested in at-least a friendship.

The only downfall is he lives in a different state, although it's only 45 minutes away from me.
But I don't know, he's really easy to talk to and I look forward to talking with him. (:

[Cartier]

So yeah, I've got this boy, we will call him Cole. So Cole is really sweet and kind and I'm pretty sure he likes me. Okay well I know he likes me.. But then on the other hand I also like good best friend, who we will call Jake. Jake is sweet, but he liked my friend, and we don't know if he does anymore. He's Coles best friend. Cole likes me, and I Like' him, but I also like Jake.

[Casistrophic]

So yeah, I've got this boy, we will call him Cole. So Cole is really sweet and kind and I'm pretty sure he likes me. Okay well I know he likes me.. But then on the other hand I also like good best friend, who we will call Jake. Jake is sweet, but he liked my friend, and we don't know if he does anymore. He's Coles best friend. Cole likes me, and I Like' him, but I also like Jake.

If you like them both, why not go with the path of least resistance? If Cole likes you and you like Cole, you should try going on a date and see if you're compatible. If not, maybe Jake will be interested. But if you are not heavily attracted to Jake over Cole, Cole certainly seems like the best place to start. Dating is all about feeling around and finding who works well with you. If you and Cole don't work out as well as you hoped, Jake will still be there.

[surfiez]

@gone forever
My boyfriend doesn't ahve a phone at the moment and we are talking through Instagram dm's. He is using the family
iPad XD I'm sure you'll find a way.