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[thunderofthedrum]

how do i explain to my parents the person i love is 3 yrs older then me and we both love each other ...why do they say were to young for love?

Let me see if I got this right...

claws990p » Sun Oct 19, 2014 5:50 pm
when i talk to him the whole world stops and its just me and him i feel so lucky that i have him but i am afriad to say the 3 word he want to hear

claws990p » Mon Oct 20, 2014 2:46 pm - reposted above
claws990p » Mon Oct 20, 2014 3:23 pm - reposted above

claws990p » Mon Oct 20, 2014 3:34 pm
ive never had a True kiss

claws990p » Mon Oct 20, 2014 3:57 pm
your a prince im a maid your a rose im a thorn .... why do love me so much ..... i did the worst things i make dumb decisions and say things without thinking
why cant i just tell you i love you with everthing of this heart i have left

claws990p » Tue Oct 21, 2014 3:23 pm
This is for every girl
When u think your in love becuase hes cute or if shes cute .... just wait for real love it happens when nobodys expects it

claws990p » Tue Oct 21, 2014 7:03 pm

yukicross0292 wrote:uhh...How do you make a guy think you're...
A) SMART
B) Cool
C) Cute
D) LIKABLE????

help me please??

you cant force anything you have to become friends first

claws990p » Fri Oct 24, 2014 4:20 pm
update
i found that one person who completes me

claws990p » Tue Oct 28, 2014 3:16 pm
so i have always been a loner ..like 4 to 9 friends then one day that person i needed came now he says he loves me and i love him but im worried he could be with other girls due to he out of state

claws990p » Sun Nov 02, 2014 8:28 pm
i have trust issues ...like bad ....im broken beyond repair and now my walls are falling down because of him ........ i want to give him my heat but what if he breaks it

claws990p » Mon Nov 03, 2014 4:02 pm
i have trust issues ...like bad ....im broken beyond repair and now my walls are falling down because of him ........ i want to give him my heat but what if he breaks it
im opening up to him but im so afraid hes gonna break my heart .....i love him though

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These are just over the past two and a half weeks. That's all!
From what I've seen of your posting, relationship experience, and roleplaying, I'm guessing you're pretty young.
At the beginning you sound like you are jumping into 'those three words' WAYYY too fast, or at least sooner than you were comfortable with. You haven't kissed anyone yet, you know that building a foundation of friendship can be a good thing (or at least getting to know each other), but then on October 24 suddenly you seem convinced you've found your soulmate. That's rather dramatic, to be honest.

I don't feel 4-9 friends means you are a loner. I have two best friends, three friends long distance that I don't get to see very often, and a boyfriend. That's still just five actual friends. That's totally normal. BUT, it sounds like this new guy is on the internet so how well you do really know him??? You are so quick to jump to 'love' and that feels very immature and overly eager to me. YES he could be seeing other girls, especially if you don't know him well. Stop assuming you 'love' every person you have a crush on. This guy you like - is he respectful? Does he have manners? Does he care about your feelings? And don't forget, sometimes a person will be nice to the person they LIKE and be totally awful jerks to other people. I wouldn't want to date someone who is disrespectful to their parents, rude to hard working waitresses, racist, homophobic, etc. Does he have goals or does he just sit on his butt at his computer smoking pot or something? Have you even SEEN this guy?!

I know I'm being blunt, but many of your posts strike me as very melodramatic so I feel being blunt is necessary. You haven't given any information about this guy, only that you like him and that it's likely online and that you are scared of getting hurt. Take a step back and TRY to be objective. What do you know about him? How long have you been talking to him? Don't EVER do something you are uncomfortable with. You have to respect YOURSELF if you expect anyone else to respect you. If you let yourself be walked on, then people are going to think it's okay to do so.

[Beta]

I get to hang out with my crush tomorrow after school I'm so nervous. I've only been on two dates before and they were both awkward as sin. He told me last night that he wants to kiss me. He asked me if it would be okay if he kissed me while we were hanging out. I gave him permission to, but now I'm nervous. I've only been kissed twice, both by a boy I didn't like. I didn't kiss back so I pretty much have no kissing experience. What if he thinks I'm a horrible kisser and doesn't like me anymore? I'm like pulling my hair out thinking about it.
I also have a question to those who do have experience with kissing. Most people say they feel sparks when they kiss someone they really like. I felt nothing when that guy kissed me. So is it true that you feel sparks or something like that or is it just nothing?

You do feel sparks. When you kiss someone you feel passionately towards, you kiss a little longer, stretch a little higher, get a little closer. It's a rumbling and exciting feeling that comes from within. When you kiss someone that you don't feel comfortable with, or that you aren't truly physically attracted to, there's anxiety present and it takes away the good feelings of sharing a kiss with someone. It's an overall excitement, especially when it comes to the first one. I hope you do get to feel this with this guy, but if you don't, don't give up hope immediately, just give him a chance.

[.:Ovanite:.]

Hi, i need some advice, i have a crush and i think he likes my friend more than me, and i get really jealous sometimes when they leave me out of something... Am i over exaggerating? Because i dont know what to do please help

[thunderofthedrum]

It's very difficult for me to find a relationship, apparently
Really I need it in my life; some kind of stability. Someone who will actually care for me, since all of my friends have other friends and I'm of the lowest priority
But for whatever reason, every crush I get is a flop. This only further stresses me and simply adds to my weird emotional state. This whole relationship thing is just not happening for me for a while, I suppose
I still admire people, however, even though at this point I just don't try anymore

To be honest, it sounds to me like you want a relationship simply to have a relationship - and that's not the right reason. When we don't know someone super well, we tend to overlook all of the 'unknowns', or delude ourselves into thinking there is only further perfection to be found (instead of reality, flaws, bad habits, etc). Also, make sure that when you ARE with someone, they aren't your WHOLE world. Maintain your own life, your own goals. Don't live through the person you are dating or become clingy. Independence is attractive, as long as you aren't being distant.

[Skogkatt]

So it's my boyfriend's birthday on Friday and I want to make it a really good day for him.
I've already given him his birthday present, I took him to his first concert on Halloween ♥
Anyone have any tips about how to make it a memorable time? ; v ;

[pizzas and scream]

I get to hang out with my crush tomorrow after school I'm so nervous. I've only been on two dates before and they were both awkward as sin. He told me last night that he wants to kiss me. He asked me if it would be okay if he kissed me while we were hanging out. I gave him permission to, but now I'm nervous. I've only been kissed twice, both by a boy I didn't like. I didn't kiss back so I pretty much have no kissing experience. What if he thinks I'm a horrible kisser and doesn't like me anymore? I'm like pulling my hair out thinking about it.
I also have a question to those who do have experience with kissing. Most people say they feel sparks when they kiss someone they really like. I felt nothing when that guy kissed me. So is it true that you feel sparks or something like that or is it just nothing?

You do feel sparks. When you kiss someone you feel passionately towards, you kiss a little longer, stretch a little higher, get a little closer. It's a rumbling and exciting feeling that comes from within. When you kiss someone that you don't feel comfortable with, or that you aren't truly physically attracted to, there's anxiety present and it takes away the good feelings of sharing a kiss with someone. It's an overall excitement, especially when it comes to the first one. I hope you do get to feel this with this guy, but if you don't, don't give up hope immediately, just give him a chance.

Someone like me who is love shy with intamacy issues so mine is " do I really want to touch this person?"

[northern downpour ;;]

Everyone is telling me to get over him
But I can't
It's like...
I can't picture myself with anyone else but him.
And I don't want to.
I need so much help...

[Abbsicle]

Everyone is telling me to get over him
But I can't
It's like...
I can't picture myself with anyone else but him.
And I don't want to.
I need so much help...

i know exactly how you feel. stay strong ok? itll all get better and youll never have to worry about him sometime soon, i know it. c:

[Beta]

Everyone is telling me to get over him
But I can't
It's like...
I can't picture myself with anyone else but him.
And I don't want to.
I need so much help...

i know exactly how you feel. stay strong ok? itll all get better and youll never have to worry about him sometime soon, i know it. c:

Everything will be alright, that's exactly how I felt when my boyfriend and I split up for 3 months; however he came back. I'm not saying it WILL happen but it is a possibility. Stay strong hun. xx

[northern downpour ;;]

You people are too nice <3
He told me there was a chance he'd come back, but in the meantime it just hurts.
I don't know what comfort I have right now, really...
Guess I'll just keep on living... but how do I deal with the pain? I'm not good at that