Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[thunderofthedrum]

i asked my crush out and he said no i didnt freak out but i told my ex-best friend and she gossiped it! I freaked out at her and im not friends with her, am i wrong fir flipping out at her?

Did you ask her to not tell anyone?
And if she is your ex-bff then why did you tell her at all??

[huskyderp]

well we were best friends but since she told everyone i made her my ex-bff

[thunderofthedrum]

well we were best friends but since she told everyone i made her my ex-bff

That does not answer my first question. Also that sounds rather harsh, rash, and dramatic to suddenly unfriend her.

[silky.moth.is.gone]

Ok, I've decided to post on this thread because I feel...brave enough? XD anyway let's call this guy C, I just started a new school, (thankfully one of my friends came with me to the school), and I've been there for about 1-2 months now, and there's a person in my class who I kinda have a crush on. And I don't want anyone to know but sadly my friend, A found out and threatens to tell everyone, and I want to ask C out but I don't know how with her teasing me and stuff. I think he likes me because he always talks to me and asks to lend a pen from me first even if he knows I don't have one. I don't know what to do :c

[ohdeer]

Ok, I've decided to post on this thread because I feel...brave enough? XD anyway let's call this guy C, I just started a new school, (thankfully one of my friends came with me to the school), and I've been there for about 1-2 months now, and there's a person in my class who I kinda have a crush on. And I don't want anyone to know but sadly my friend, A found out and threatens to tell everyone, and I want to ask C out but I don't know how with her teasing me and stuff. I think he likes me because he always talks to me and asks to lend a pen from me first even if he knows I don't have one. I don't know what to do :c

Sounds like love at first sight
Since it's a new school for you and you don't know anyone else except your friend, it's best you wait for a bit and see how things go. You might start seeing something important qualities in "C" that you missed when you first met him. Maybe you'll see flaws and total turn-offs, or maybe you'll get to know him better and decide now for sure he's right for you. I don't mean to sound harsh, but it's possible that you feel your crush likes you back when he's just being friendly. Your preference on the person usually puts on a bias in your judgement.
Again, be patient, I hope things turn out okay for you!
Oh, and if you really trust your friend and she's just teasing you, don't worry about her making fun of you if you're serious about asking him out.

-zoo

[GIGABITE]

*smacks head into wall*
I need to stop with these tiny crushes
seriously
because I am taking a slight liking to a boy in my school, he's in my drivers ed class and two grades below me (though only one year younger since I'm young for my grade)
I mean, he's really nice, I know he's single, we talk frequently, and it's honestly hard not to like him even a tiny bit because he's hilarious and doesn't mind my constant rambling. He also plays along with my shenanigans and that is some serious fun when people do that
Ramble over, but I needed to get that out, despite how ridiculous I probably look

[spring.]

Ok, I've decided to post on this thread because I feel...brave enough? XD anyway let's call this guy C, I just started a new school, (thankfully one of my friends came with me to the school), and I've been there for about 1-2 months now, and there's a person in my class who I kinda have a crush on. And I don't want anyone to know but sadly my friend, A found out and threatens to tell everyone, and I want to ask C out but I don't know how with her teasing me and stuff. I think he likes me because he always talks to me and asks to lend a pen from me first even if he knows I don't have one. I don't know what to do :c

Honey, if this A person is threatening to tell everyone, I wouldn't be too happy with her. I would talk to her and say that you dont appreciate that s/he is threatening to tell.

Anywho, I would get to know him better. If you still like him, start conveying that. Get a little flirty. Dress up a little, do your hair if you dont already. Little things his subconscious will notice.

[Princess Porcelain]

Okay, so there's this guy. Duh. Everyone has a guy/girl here to talk about.

Thing is, said guy lives 45 minutes away. I think he might like me, but last I checked he had a girlfriend. I don't know if they're still together. I like him...I mean, we're pretty much the same person. We laugh at the same jokes, like the same things, have the same interests...But the problem is, even if he doesn't have a girlfriend, he has a twin brother, who I am also good friends with. Said twin brother hates this guy's guts and also likes me and would probably stop being my friend if I started going out with his brother. I really don't want to lose a friendship over a crush, but this is really the only guy I've found that's exactly like me...In every way. I know if we got together the relationship would last despite the distance, and we might even be able to see each other occasionally. Plus, we go to the same summer camp [which is how I met him and his brother] so I can see him during the summer for about a week. I just don't know what to do, I've kinda-sorta been flirting with him, dropping hints and all...I just don't know how to bring up the subject of whether he's single or not, because obviously if he's not single he's off-limits. Usually I would just straight-up ask him about things, I've done that to him about other subjects and he's taken it rather well, but I just don't know, I'm half-afraid that if I ask if he's seeing someone he'll say yes and the other half of me is terrified that he'll say no, and we'll start going out. It's not really going out I'm afraid of, just the thought of asking him out...I'm not a chicken when it comes to this kind of thing normally, most of the time I just straight-up tell someone I like them, but ahh I don't know...He's different. Advice?

[Maryanne00]

Well I have this problem. I have been textin this boy for ages now and I am starting to like him, he is four years older than me and lives in England. I don't know what to do, sorry it's vague but I can't describe it.

[pizzas and scream]

*smacks head into wall*
I need to stop with these tiny crushes
seriously
because I am taking a slight liking to a boy in my school, he's in my drivers ed class and two grades below me (though only one year younger since I'm young for my grade)
I mean, he's really nice, I know he's single, we talk frequently, and it's honestly hard not to like him even a tiny bit because he's hilarious and doesn't mind my constant rambling. He also plays along with my shenanigans and that is some serious fun when people do that
Ramble over, but I needed to get that out, despite how ridiculous I probably look

are you sure to lable them crush and not "kinship bond"? but if there are romantic implications of "wow, this is what those characters in tv show and fairy tails feel when they get the giddy tingle in the chest and head, where it swims, dazzles and clouds the mind"


my school and social life never looked anything like yourses. i feel like I am "bad special", like the muck monster in the swamp that never knows what humans are.
and it would be hard to turn my life around and force things. like go to a university where i sleep away and try to act like I am fresh out of highschool, or get an office job and force myself into office romances, or what ever people that work a lot with people.

or take up suggestions of constant volentar work, but only for me to use it as hunting grounds, so i can get a crush and hope I do and be able to have joy and romantic love, and not just "Oh yay cool, new shiny wow" and get bord with a person, and wonder how much is a personality flaw of immaturity or my brain being broken.

when i read other peoples lives and experances, it feels so much still, always like from a tv show. where I look out in dead confused eyes, with a muddled brain, "oh huh, that is weird". there is no need for me to watch "teen sitcom, middle school drama" tv shows at my age (unless I was going to make that movie about the Time travling kid who goes to the Flintstones-esque school for what ever reason, although I did like the one with the superheros)

then and now. I can't feel. and it hurts with so much rage and confusing. that I cannot feel. just i tell myself this will make me happy, and cure some of my ills. that sometimes princesses in towers, imprissioned by evil dragons are them selvses


do any of you here ever think of forcing your self into situation? that is not what one in the schools do, a "OH well Todd sounds nice, I think I will just ask him out, i hear he is very kind and I want to date someone so I will approch him" and never "Todd is so cute, how do i confess my feelings?"

what and how many times to the younger ones date or have crushes on "unattractive" people? like if someone is 13 and they have a crush on someone that looks like Chris Griffin from Family guy or has a deformed head, and maybe they have a sweating disorder and have an oder and are missing a hand.
or someone like that, and they don't like their face but they are "I have such a huge crush on you, please go out with me" and they are a stranger to you. and how many would say "sure, let's see if this works, you are a total stranger to me, but love is about getting to know eachother"

sometimes I don't think people of some ages would. and I hope they do. nothing angers me more than "you should never persue someone because they are attrative, or never reject someone because you don't find them pretty", but then all their crushes are pretty people, or they date the good looking. it's kind of like "why did you not just go find the most weird looking person and ask them out, no? no, you fancied someone you thought looked good, and was convenient an attractive person....why didn't you go to the unfavorable?"

such a petpeeve.