|TheComfortCorner| v.4

[SoundAndVision]

My mom keeps accusing me of being anorexic because I'm not eating much, but I'm not. It's really staring to piss me off and depress me at the same time.
I mean, I'm 26.6 pounds overweight. How can you mistake me for being anorexic?

That could be why she thinks you are *hugs* she might think that your weight is why you arnt eating even when that may not be the cause. I am so sorry you have to deal with this. *Huggels*

[ghostley.]

and it looks like i'm crying once more over so many different things. why can't just one tiny little thing in my life go right?

[Amethysts]

Looks like I'm crying myself to bed tonight.

[sky dancer.]

obviously you think of yourself and not me.
maybe I didn't want to watch my siblings the night before my birthday.
maybe I wanted to hang out with my friends
Who think of me and not theirselves.
It's my day.
Not yours,
For once.
Let me enjoy it.
A day where people actually pay attention to me.
Please just ... Please

[Hyensa]

If any of you would like to talk privately, PM me.

[moonbutch]

Ugh...
I'm getting real tired of this dude...
He used to be my friend. But please, explain how you are a friend
if you insult my orientation to my face. My friends are trying to get him to apologize,
but he's just blowing it off... As always. And just watch as he
ignores us for 3 weeks afterwards like last time
this happened..

[shim]

tired of all these lies........

pardon me for saying anything

[Hyensa]

My mom keeps accusing me of being anorexic because I'm not eating much, but I'm not. It's really staring to piss me off and depress me at the same time.
I mean, I'm 26.6 pounds overweight. How can you mistake me for being anorexic?

Well your mother could just be worried about you, and she might be afraid that's something that could happen. I know my mother and father ask me questions constantly, It does get annoying. Have you tried sitting her down and asking her why she's been asking this? When you talk to her, try not to sound frustrated.

tired of all these lies........

Doesnt.......anyone,,,,,,,one person.....care...?

People care, it's just really difficult to read in a very small sized text.
Some people here also might not know how to help you, with little detail you're giving.
Being lied to does suck, but it's something you're going to have to deal with.
If you'd like someone to talk to, my inbox is always available.

Ugh...
I'm getting real tired of this dude...
He used to be my friend. But please, explain how you are a friend
if you insult my orientation to my face. My friends are trying to get him to apologize,
but he's just blowing it off... As always. And just watch as he
ignores us for 3 weeks afterwards like last time
this happened..

Maybe he isn't someone you should be hanging around with. c:
You could discuss with your friends ways to tell him he needs to stop. Even if he is blowing it off, it's not a right thing to do. If he refuses to listen to you and your friends, tell him to stop hanging out with you, and tell your friends you are no longer comfortable with hanging around him. There's also the option of going to an adult. Your friends sound like good people trying to defend you, so they might have some suggestions.

My friends aren't at school, again. I'm too afraid to sit and eat by myself so I'll probably just spend recess and lunch in the library.
I don't know why but my eyes keep tearing up and I feel like crying. I have other friends but I just feel uncomfortable being with people I'm not super close with. Even if I wanted to stay with them, I would be way too scared to speak to them.

I used to be afraid to eat by myself, too. You should do whatever makes you comfortable however, although sometimes coming out of your shell and asking some people if you can sit with them works, too! Don't be discouraged if they say no, not everyone is the same! It takes awhile to get comfortable with someone, but you'd have to not know them to get to know them eventually. If you do choose to sit with people you aren't super close with, try and start small talk by asking what kind of TV shows they like. Sometimes people wear accessories of things off TV's and bands, so you could ask, "Hey, do you like one direction?" Secretly seeing their wristband and knowing that they do.

Sorry for anyone I didn't reply to, I wasn't sure what advice to give. ):

[peachy keen-]

tired of all these lies........

Doesnt.......anyone,,,,,,,one person.....care...?

just because no one responded does not mean they do not care, and it was rather unkind of you to assume that. plus, writing in size 5 text does not help. we all hate being lied to. :( it is a horrible, sick feeling and I hope you feel better. c:

obviously you think of yourself and not me.
maybe I didn't want to watch my siblings the night before my birthday.
maybe I wanted to hang out with my friends
Who think of me and not theirselves.
It's my day.
Not yours,
For once.
Let me enjoy it.
A day where people actually pay attention to me.
Please just ... Please

aww Jen. please do cheer up! whoever is being narrow-minded and selfish just needs to get a life. and your birthday does matter to me! :)
-via iPod

[- ; bonk!]

Just wanted to pop in and say thank you for the comfort and advice <3