Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[Outlander]

theres this guy in my class that I like and he likes me back he told me buts theres 2 problems
my teacher said we aren't allowed to date people in our class
he likes me but he like 2 others too (I think)
any help please??

Your teacher can only dictate what goes on in school. She has no bearing on your personal life.

You'll have to talk about that with him.

but when because he live half an hour away and I only see him at school

There are many ways to communicate. You an I are doing one right now.

[shim]

quite true thanks!

[a n d y.]

~sigh~ Okay, I'm sick of typing 'J' Lets just say Jordan, Okay?

Okay, so maybe Jordan doesn't hate me. We still talk, smile, and you know... yeah. It scares me though because he already has a girlfriend.

But let's focus on Vince(:

I was in math class, (I'm not sure if I told this story) and I had my hair up with the ConAir bunmaker or whatever, so my math teacher was like: Oh, Gabbi your hair looks good up like that.
So Vince said: Yeah, I like it.
And so did his friend Austin
I think those two were being sarcastic though. But it didn't really sound like it. WHY AM I SO CONFUSED.

And I know this kid Eric, and I think he likes me and my friend Miranda.... That or he's just some really friendly weird kid... He's my friend, but I just think it's weird xP

[[x]]

Today Jake told his whole group of friends how I was the coolest kid in my grade.
Teehee!

[just'marley]

once upon a time i promised myself i would never cry in times of weakness,
this is the only exception.

so, last time i posted about my boyfriend, carlos, it was on how i should break up with him. well, the tables have turned and i've somehow completely gotten over everything. we were happy again, the cute couple again, everything was perfect. until he decided to complicate things even more by telling the whole school we broke up, so if his mom asked his friends if we were dating they would say no. apparently she doesn't like me, so.

anyway, i went the whole day acting like a dumped, depressed girl with hormones... like i should have been. apparently to him i, "took it the wrong way," as he stated when he decided to pin me against the lockers to confront me. -ow- so he eventually told everyone it was a joke. i don't know why, but he did, and we were "together again."
there's more to it, but i really don't need to go into detail anymore.

for the last few weeks, it's been more... awkward. he's asked about my scars, my depression, etc. it's like he's now embarrassed to be dating me. i've started pulling my sleeves down again, and ever since friday he's been ignoring me. i tried to talk to him but he walked away after calling me a sl*t. of course, i cried, and eventually blew it off as him having a bad day.

except, i found out at the local theatre, he's been flirting with girls and trying to catch dates with them. i went to break up with him, and he walked away again.

and now we're back to square one. i still love him, and just don't know what to do.
help? :c

[Outlander]

once upon a time i promised myself i would never cry in times of weakness,
this is the only exception.

so, last time i posted about my boyfriend, carlos, it was on how i should break up with him. well, the tables have turned and i've somehow completely gotten over everything. we were happy again, the cute couple again, everything was perfect. until he decided to complicate things even more by telling the whole school we broke up, so if his mom asked his friends if we were dating they would say no. apparently she doesn't like me, so.

anyway, i went the whole day acting like a dumped, depressed girl with hormones... like i should have been. apparently to him i, "took it the wrong way," as he stated when he decided to pin me against the lockers to confront me. -ow- so he eventually told everyone it was a joke. i don't know why, but he did, and we were "together again."
there's more to it, but i really don't need to go into detail anymore.

for the last few weeks, it's been more... awkward. he's asked about my scars, my depression, etc. it's like he's now embarrassed to be dating me. i've started pulling my sleeves down again, and ever since friday he's been ignoring me. i tried to talk to him but he walked away after calling me a sl*t. of course, i cried, and eventually blew it off as him having a bad day.

except, i found out at the local theatre, he's been flirting with girls and trying to catch dates with them. i went to break up with him, and he walked away again.

and now we're back to square one. i still love him, and just don't know what to do.
help? :c

He can't treat you poorly. If he can't treat you right, he doesn't deserve you. You seem like a wonderful person. Try and find someone willing to help you and not be judgmental.

[shim]

once upon a time i promised myself i would never cry in times of weakness,
this is the only exception.

so, last time i posted about my boyfriend, carlos, it was on how i should break up with him. well, the tables have turned and i've somehow completely gotten over everything. we were happy again, the cute couple again, everything was perfect. until he decided to complicate things even more by telling the whole school we broke up, so if his mom asked his friends if we were dating they would say no. apparently she doesn't like me, so.

anyway, i went the whole day acting like a dumped, depressed girl with hormones... like i should have been. apparently to him i, "took it the wrong way," as he stated when he decided to pin me against the lockers to confront me. -ow- so he eventually told everyone it was a joke. i don't know why, but he did, and we were "together again."
there's more to it, but i really don't need to go into detail anymore.

for the last few weeks, it's been more... awkward. he's asked about my scars, my depression, etc. it's like he's now embarrassed to be dating me. i've started pulling my sleeves down again, and ever since friday he's been ignoring me. i tried to talk to him but he walked away after calling me a sl*t. of course, i cried, and eventually blew it off as him having a bad day.

except, i found out at the local theatre, he's been flirting with girls and trying to catch dates with them. i went to break up with him, and he walked away again.

and now we're back to square one. i still love him, and just don't know what to do.
help? :c

I am really sorry you have to go though that

[.: pop 101 :.]

Delete please.

[jetlag]

@Fluffy - I'm no expert on this by any means, but to me it sounds like he either likes you, or really isn't interested in his current girlfriend- or both. Probably both, because he seems to give you a lot of attention. Ive been in this situation before. Since you're best friends with his girlfriend, I would try to subtly steer him back towards her, and maybe casually ask how their relationship is to see if everything's alright. If you want to be a good friend and they still want to salvage their relationship, try not to let you and her boyfriend become close - at least for the time being. You don't want your friend to think you're stealing her boyfriend! But that's just my two cents.(:

@Pongo- Im in your same boat on this! Things that I've brought up before would be what classes he's taking next year, mention a sport you know he plays/likes, or talk about an interesting upcoming/past event. To keep up a conversation, avoid the "yes" or "no" questions. Hope I could help.(:

[thunderofthedrum]

Advice please....

My boyfriend can manipulate me at times. I know he loves me very much. Ive told him what i feel hes doing, and hes sorry, but when i try to have "me time", he complains about being "sad" and "alone". I only have "me time" for like, 30 mins- 1 hour. Hes hurting me, and its not really fair. I just want time for myself. Hes the "self pity" manipulator....

Thank you so much.

Well my question is this - how much time do you guys spend together? Is it just a few hours a week? Do you live together?
If he sees you all the time and gives you no alone time, then he's just being whiny and really needs to get the heck over it.
If you only occasionally see each other and you don't want to hang out that whole time, then he may feel you guys aren't spending the time together wisely.

Either way, making himself out to be helpless and pitiful just to illicit sympathy and get a particular reaction from you isn't fair to you. Everyone has moments of feeling down or unhappy and wanting someone to do something about it, moments where they are in denial that they could do something about it themselves, but if he does this very often it's not a healthy thing for your relationship.