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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby -_____- » Tue Apr 09, 2013 12:17 pm

suits & bowties wrote:i really just need to stop being so bubby and happy all the time.
apparantly my last name reminds people of something that is pink and purple and anime-ish and i don'T KNOW WHY.
i just...
so many things to do, so many projects, so many paper, assignment, ect.
and i'm stressing out.
i don't like it.
and i cannot find a picture that fits my theme and is green with suits.
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Just stepping in to say that there is nothing wrong with being bubbly and happy. This just means that you have a great life...or that even though you have problems, you're able to get through them all with a smile ♥
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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby seep5 » Tue Apr 09, 2013 12:19 pm

music7 wrote:
Would it be absolutely insane of me if I decided to draw each member of One Direction their own dragon, because that's what I'm best a drawing?


Okay, so my parents are divorced and I go to my dad's apartment every other weekend. Well, that weekend is coming up, and my dad decided to be mean and make us stay the night at his house. I convinced him to get a cat, but now my doctor(neurologist) said that it's not fair to my mom because she's allergic. My stupid miserable life! I am really nervous about this because I don't have a good relationship with my dad; he thinks that I hate him, but I don't... I've also had some pretty weird and bad dreams involving him... Anyways, I'm just not ready for it, and there's no way for me to say no... I don't want to do this, and I have no choice. Plus, if I don't go, my dad will think that he's right in the fact that I hate him, but really don't... Ugh!!! My life is so complex and vexing, I just hate it!!!


Right now, it's that time of the month, so I'm super emotional and crampy... I hope it goes away before it's my dad's weekend, but it should... I just don't like it, and it's so annoying, because I'm always worrying about it, in school and all. Ugh!!! So annoying!!!


My life is miserable. I just hate it so much... Ugh!!! I don't know, I just don't know what to do anymore... I feel like I have no purpose in life... I mean, I must... but I just don't know what it is... I don't know...


And there's this guy that I'm not sure is a perv or not who really likes me and want to date me, though I've told him no and that I'm not aloud to date!!! It's so annoying and he just needs to leave me alone!!! He's even in my class tomorrow, and has to sit next to me because we have assigned seats!!! Just ugh!!!


*hugs* 1D dragons?? Awesome not weird! Embrace the original!

Maybe try giving your Dad a gift and tell him you love him?

As for the guy, just tell him no and wait for him to move on.
Hope you feel better soon!



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Okay I guess I'm feeling sad, like my heart's about to cry?? Idk man, it's been a while since I had a "mental breakdown".
My parents don't understand me. I know what I have to do. I know what's the goal of life. No matter how hard I try not to react to my dad's words, they always get my heart. *sighs*
And then the sadness continues to look for other stuff and then we have a freaking circle. Idk man, I don't even know why I'm posting here. I just need a hug and maybe a cute animal gif. I can't even eat chocolate because I can't get in my cool black pants, in which I could get in two weeks ago....


I don't have any Anime gifs but I do have *hugs* ^^
My parents don't get me either -,- it's annoying
I hope you feel better soon c:
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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby gold » Tue Apr 09, 2013 1:48 pm

music7 wrote:
Okay, so my parents are divorced and I go to my dad's apartment every other weekend. Well, that weekend is coming up, and my dad decided to be mean and make us stay the night at his house. I convinced him to get a cat, but now my doctor(neurologist) said that it's not fair to my mom because she's allergic. My stupid miserable life! I am really nervous about this because I don't have a good relationship with my dad; he thinks that I hate him, but I don't... I've also had some pretty weird and bad dreams involving him... Anyways, I'm just not ready for it, and there's no way for me to say no... I don't want to do this, and I have no choice. Plus, if I don't go, my dad will think that he's right in the fact that I hate him, but really don't... Ugh!!! My life is so complex and vexing, I just hate it!!!


About a year and a half ago i had a similar problem with my dad. My parents have been divorced since I was 8 years old. I started getting busy with cross country starting, joined the stage/set crew for the school play, and my friends randomly decided we should start having sleepovers weekly. All of a sudden I had things thrown at me left and right along with homework. On the weekends I was there (we go every other weekend too) I would spend the little time I had to myself typing homework on my computer or relaxing on CS. He got super pissed randomly and was convinced I hated him and I was trying to avoid him. He even started trying to keep me from leaving the house to go to my track meet. He just went all-out JERK. I'm not sure exactly of your case, but in mine we (my mom and I) had to keep reminding him that I'm not 8 anymore and I have things to do, and my mom got pretty pissed at him for being so jerkish. He got a lot better within a month or so. Just try to stay calm and assure him you aren't avoiding him, but you're just busy lately now that you're older and more involved with activities, friends, etc. and hopefully he'll understand :3
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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby baestille » Tue Apr 09, 2013 4:05 pm

    i guess life is just getting down on me, I have no clue why I try anymore, because whenever I try I fail, and I fail hard. not like f or d- kind of failure, but just failure. I don't know what to do. I'm no longer bullied which was a stress bomb on the brim of explosion. everyone thinks I'm okay, I'm not. I put on a smile, and it might be real, but it just feels so, fake. sometimes my friends see through my disguise, and they are the only ones who understand. I lost someone important to me recently, and I've been cut no slack for it. I've been separated from my best friends because of schools, and life is a like a building on fire, and it's finally coming down. I've got a disease, type one diabetes. Personally it's not personal, but if I cry it's blamed on my diabetes. and this bothers me because I'm restricted from my feelings. or so it feels horrible! if I get mad, test your sugars, if I get sad, test your sugars and if I'm high they continue to believe my feelings are fake. I just need someone who understands me and those are my friends.

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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby seep5 » Tue Apr 09, 2013 4:10 pm

huntress. wrote:
    i guess life is just getting down on me, I have no clue why I try anymore, because whenever I try I fail, and I fail hard. not like f or d- kind of failure, but just failure. I don't know what to do. I'm no longer bullied which was a stress bomb on the brim of explosion. everyone thinks I'm okay, I'm not. I put on a smile, and it might be real, but it just feels so, fake. sometimes my friends see through my disguise, and they are the only ones who understand. I lost someone important to me recently, and I've been cut no slack for it. I've been separated from my best friends because of schools, and life is a like a building on fire, and it's finally coming down. I've got a disease, type one diabetes. Personally it's not personal, but if I cry it's blamed on my diabetes. and this bothers me because I'm restricted from my feelings. or so it feels horrible! if I get mad, test your sugars, if I get sad, test your sugars and if I'm high they continue to believe my feelings are fake. I just need someone who understands me and those are my friends.

    I have a quote,
    the worst things in life come free to us~


*hugs* Yes the worst things come free, but so do the best things. Life is how you look at it, there are pros and cons to being a millionaire and there are pros and cons to being *perfect. You have to focus on the beautiful parts, the funny parts, the small parts most people overlook, or even the most perfect of lives will drag you down.
Hope this helps c:
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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby dead poets society » Tue Apr 09, 2013 4:22 pm

Okay, I need some help. I'm really confused about this guy. I really like him we are friends, and he gives some of the best advice on the face of the planet. He's very helpful and sweet and listens to me with no complaints. He is very selfless and puts others before himself. But I emailed him a long email. Okay, a really long email. When copied and pasted onto word, it was four pages. And I spent two and a half hours typing it up on my iPod. I am dedicated to him and will do almost anything for him, no joke. But three months ago, he stopped emailing me. His last reply was thanking me for the kind email I sent him. And now he's out of my life. No goodbyes or anything. I am so confused by his behavior. What did I do? Was it something I did? .

._. I feel useless.

I have a hard time in school, too. Not with grades, but the social part. I take ACAD (accelerated) classes, and they are easy beyond belief. In second grade, my IQ was higher than the average adult's. I am just off the charts smart, and I'm not trying to brag. I love being that smart, and if I work, I am garunteed a full ride scholarship. School bores me at times because everything is just too easy. The accelerated classes are too easy, so how do I feel about the normal classes? Bored beyond belief. Because I'm so smart and get my work done insanely fast, I have no normal friends. Everyone thinks I'm a goody goody except for my ACAD friends. I don't really mind, because things like that have never hurt me, but people are constantly hitting me up for answers, and that bothers me. I never say yes, but they still ask.

That's all. I just need a hug and some advice. Thanks to anyone who helps.
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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby FurOfHawk » Tue Apr 09, 2013 5:46 pm

The Writer wrote:I am somewhat friends with this girl, but I am having a problem with her. You see, we like the same person. But the boy goes to my church and we know each other well. She is in every class with him and they know each other well. His mom hates her, but his mom somewhat is friendly to me. The other day, his mom told him that he should completely ignore her. I don't know how to react. I feel sorry for her, yet this other feeling, I don't know what it is.








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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby Twisted Transistor » Wed Apr 10, 2013 5:09 am

    I don't know what to do anymore ..
    My grandmother is 88 years old right now, so I can understand it isn't going as smoothly as it used to be. But the thought of losing her makes my head spin. She is just the most wonderful person in the whole wide world. She would never lie to anyone, be rude to anyone, .. she always sees the good in everyone and literally everyone who she knows cares deeply about her and she knows a lot of people. Her heart is as pure as the name she bears, 'Rose'. I just- she has been with me for so long- I don't think I can cope with more loss right now in this period of my life- especially with the thought in mind that my two grandpa's passed away not too long ago, very soon after each other. On top of that are we probably going to move away if my grandmother really gets worse, so we can take care of her. She literally lives on the other side of Holland so reaching her takes over three hours alone. *sight*. I know death is a part of life but- heh, I sure as hell wish it wasn't.
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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby ~IronRose~ » Wed Apr 10, 2013 5:14 am

Twisted Transistor wrote:
    I don't know what to do anymore ..
    My grandmother is 88 years old right now, so I can understand it isn't going as smoothly as it used to be. But the thought of losing her makes my head spin. She is just the most wonderful person in the whole wide world. She would never lie to anyone, be rude to anyone, .. she always sees the good in everyone and literally everyone who she knows cares deeply about her and she knows a lot of people. Her heart is as pure as the name she bears, 'Rose'. I just- she has been with me for so long- I don't think I can cope with more loss right now in this period of my life- especially with the thought in mind that my two grandpa's passed away not too long ago, very soon after each other. On top of that are we probably going to move away if my grandmother really gets worse, so we can take care of her. She literally lives on the other side of Holland so reaching her takes over three hours alone. *sight*. I know death is a part of life but- heh, I sure as hell wish it wasn't.


*hugs* I now what you are going through. My greatgrandma died last year and it took a toll on all of us but we pushed past it. You may not think it but she will always be with you and will never acctually leave. We all wish there was no death but without it there would be no meaning of life.
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Postby ossa di cervo » Wed Apr 10, 2013 5:56 am

A few months ago I lost my boyfriend. He passed away due to meningitis. Needless to say, I'm not the same person I used to be. I've hardened and my shell has thickened. I don't want to make friends, I don't want to lose more people that grow close to me..

But my own mother doesn't seem to understand this.. She has no sympathy for what I'm going through. Conner and I had our own apartment so when he passed away I was forced to move back in with them. When I had left my step-dad and I hadn't had the best relationship. But now that I'm back it's a thousand times worse. And they all expect ME to fix something I don't know how to fix.. My step-dad claims that I've said some awful things to him and he won't even look at me now.

I don't know what I did, or what to say. They're threatening to kick me out now and it just feels like my world is crumbling. I have to hold back the constant tears and the real me. I'm breaking down and falling apart and every day they throw this at me, it just gets tougher. I've told my mom I don't know how to talk to my step-dad but she just laughs in my face and says I better get to looking for somewhere to stay.

I used to relate to kids being bullied in school but now it just feels like I'm being bullied at home.. By my parents. The only people I thought would be with me forever and they're just throwing it in my face...
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