Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[Kingfisher]

Personally, it sounds like you really liked Glasses I would say try and work it out, I don't think he'd hold it over you or anything especially if you explained everything that happened

Of course I like him, and I still want to be with him, it's just that I kept telling him to move on (because he really needs to) and that no amount of waiting will help him.
Then again, it has only been a few days. I'm probably being a bit too dramatic. He'll get over me soon. I'll just let him go. I'm not good enough for him, anyway. He should find someone more like him.

Hi,
If you both like eachother I think the best thing you could do is try and work it out- sometimes the way others see you doesn't matter and from reading your post it sounds like you're unneciserily going to hurt him and yourself. And I understand that you may not feel good enough for him but he clearly thinks you are and you seem important to him so I think you should really think carefully about your decision before you permanently break it off.

[-Firesong-]

Suppose, hypothetically, you broke it off with someone, and, hypothetically, the reason turns out to be a misunderstanding, and, hypothetically, you wish you hadn't made a scene of it, and, hypothetically, you want to try again.
How long, hypothetically, should one wait before, hypothetically, going back to their significant other, when, hypothetically, you kept aggressively telling them off, and, hypothetically, they insisted they would "wait for you," and, hypothetically, you wish to avoid looking, hypothetically, like a fool?

Or should you, hypothetically, just try to, hypothetically, leave the other person for good, and, hypothetically, try to get them to move on?


Long story short: I broke it off with Glasses this past Tuesday because my mother forbade me from seeing him outside of school. I've been snapping at him to stop following me like his life depends on it. He told me that his mother said to "Be patient and wait it out," which made me furious (though I didn't show it). Now it turns out my mother and I had a misunderstanding, and I feel like an idiot for breaking it off so hastily. However, if I crawl back to Glasses so soon, I'll just look desperate, and he'll always hold that "I waited for you" over my head. What's a girl to do?

Then hypothetically, if he hypothetically is waiting for you, he isn't going to hold it over your head.
And you should hypothetically get back together. He obviously loves you. I've read quite a few of your posts, and I know you think he can do better. But he wants you.

My boyfriend broke it off with me because of a similar reason, we never saw each other. This was during the summer. I was upset, but I did wait it out. When he asked me out again, I didn't think he was desperate. I was too happy to even think of saying no.

Personally, it sounds like you really liked Glasses I would say try and work it out, I don't think he'd hold it over you or anything especially if you explained everything that happened

Of course I like him, and I still want to be with him, it's just that I kept telling him to move on (because he really needs to) and that no amount of waiting will help him.
Then again, it has only been a few days. I'm probably being a bit too dramatic. He'll get over me soon. I'll just let him go. I'm not good enough for him, anyway. He should find someone more like him.

He doesn't want to move on. Please, please, please realize that he does love you. I really don't think he's going to get over you soon, and he's obviously hurting over this. I know I'm just a stranger on the internet, but I do know how you feel because I've been there too.
He wants to be with you, and that much is obvious. I think you should give it another shot with Glasses.

[wake me up.]

Okay, so this is a really long story but my boyfriend just broke up with me. I was gonna break up with him, but he beat me to it. Now, one of my best friends likes him, and I like my friend's current boyfriend. I told my OTHER best friend that I like him, and now she's mad. I convinced her to not be mad, but she said, "Thats just so wrong, you can stop from liking somebody." Which, you really cant. I said, "I know, Im trying but I dont need you to be mad at me because that doesnt help." She said, "Okay, I wont be mad if you dont like him but ________'s like one of your best friends, and you need to tell her." I agreed, but I dont really think I should, and I feel like she would hate me if I told her, but my best friend will hate me if I dont tell her, even if I stop liking her boyfriend. HELP!?!!?

[spaceferrari]

Wow, you all are taking it as seriously as Glasses is. o_o My apologies.
Glasses and I are both sixteen, and we are each other's first dates. People keep telling us that we're "adorable" together, and nonsense like "You're made for each other." I have to admit, I don't believe in that. We're too young to be so attached to each other and I now regret letting myself get so caught up in a relationship (No, we never had sex or anything, if you must know. I would have castrated him with a tree branch before I would let that happen). Besides, as everyone knows, the first time never lasts. There is no "love at first sight." There are no "happily ever afters."
And I must admit that I know I am hurting Glasses. I want him to find someone better for him. It's killing me to see him upset, but what would make me happiest is to see him at his happiest with someone far more suited to him. He deserves only the best.

[Zeee]

Space, you probably should remove your age ^^'
It's against the rules to share personal information, such as your age XD

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Hailey wasn't at school today, and Brett only talked to me twice today and they were very brief conversations.
It seems he's more.. talkative... when Hailey's at school.
But, let's look on the brightside; One, if he doesn't like me; there will always be someone who will. Two, I didn't have to listen to any of his sick-minded jokes today XD

[QUITLIKEFOURYEARSAGO]

heres what i need advice on: Im head over heels for my best guy friend today was feild day at my school .. we did tug a war between the classes doing that me and him and a another guyfriend were playing arm tug a war andi go to hold his hand and then later us and 2 other friends were doing mini trust exersises by catching each other and i did it once and he cuaght me i felt like i was in heaven <3 he is very nice and a great guy.What should i do ask him out? if so how?

[Captain Iron Krista]

heres what i need advice on: Im head over heels for my best guy friend today was feild day at my school .. we did tug a war between the classes doing that me and him and a another guyfriend were playing arm tug a war andi go to hold his hand and then later us and 2 other friends were doing mini trust exersises by catching each other and i did it once and he cuaght me i felt like i was in heaven <3 he is very nice and a great guy.What should i do ask him out? if so how?

I wouldnt make it too suden and out of the blue. Go sortz slowly into it

[Haagen-Daagen]

Well I had a rather awkward situation occur to me today. O.o
My best friend, his really good friend(Who happens to be a fellow I really like and don't socialize much with, and I'll just call him A from now on), and I were hanging out at my little sisters school waiting for our siblings to finish their talent show auditions. We were all talking, laughing, having fun, then my friend decides to leave and go get something from the office, leaving me and A alone. He totally stopped talking when our friend left, and I am super shy, so I didn't talk either. My friend texted me from in the school, knowing I like A, "Hey, make a move on him while you're alone!!" but I pretended it was just some telemarketer message when A looked at me questioningly. Awkward silence and avoiding of each other's eyes from the both of us. Until, of course, my dang little kidergartener brother starts being a gibblet-head and throwing things like rocks in the air, yelling, running around crazily, hitting us, and all those other random annoying things little boys do. A and I both glare at him in annoyance and yell,"Stop!!" at the same time, then we stare at each other for a second and it gets all silent and awkward again until my friend comes back.

[Kisiel]

Wow, you all are taking it as seriously as Glasses is. o_o My apologies.
Glasses and I are both sixteen, and we are each other's first dates. People keep telling us that we're "adorable" together, and nonsense like "You're made for each other." I have to admit, I don't believe in that. We're too young to be so attached to each other and I now regret letting myself get so caught up in a relationship (No, we never had sex or anything, if you must know. I would have castrated him with a tree branch before I would let that happen). Besides, as everyone knows, the first time never lasts. There is no "love at first sight." There are no "happily ever afters."
And I must admit that I know I am hurting Glasses. I want him to find someone better for him. It's killing me to see him upset, but what would make me happiest is to see him at his happiest with someone far more suited to him. He deserves only the best.

If he wasn't happy with you, then he would have ended the relationship a long time ago. He didn't, right? So he must have been happy.
Now, I don't know you, and I don't know the reasons behind why you think that you aren't good enough for him. But you have to believe in yourself. I know it's easier to say and harder to do, but you can do it. Don't hurt him.

[Kecko]

Wow, you all are taking it as seriously as Glasses is. o_o My apologies.
Glasses and I are both sixteen, and we are each other's first dates. People keep telling us that we're "adorable" together, and nonsense like "You're made for each other." I have to admit, I don't believe in that. We're too young to be so attached to each other and I now regret letting myself get so caught up in a relationship (No, we never had sex or anything, if you must know. I would have castrated him with a tree branch before I would let that happen). Besides, as everyone knows, the first time never lasts. There is no "love at first sight." There are no "happily ever afters."
And I must admit that I know I am hurting Glasses. I want him to find someone better for him. It's killing me to see him upset, but what would make me happiest is to see him at his happiest with someone far more suited to him. He deserves only the best.

If he wasn't happy with you, then he would have ended the relationship a long time ago. He didn't, right? So he must have been happy.
Now, I don't know you, and I don't know the reasons behind why you think that you aren't good enough for him. But you have to believe in yourself. I know it's easier to say and harder to do, but you can do it. Don't hurt him.

I agree with Kassua