Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[KimSueKimmy]

This happens alot, what I would tell you would to just be cool and go along with it. Also you may try to hold his gaze, if he looks away he probaly has a crush on you.

Ok well we did kinda hold a gaze. But then he looked away and I just kinda melted. LOL!!! anyway. I gave him complements on his acting (Because of our school musical. He plays Lumiere) and his voice. But other than that we havent spoken to each other.

Can anyone else tell me if this is a sign or not??? Cuz I'm getting butterflies just thinking bout it!!!!

[spaceferrari]

Today was... a bit bumpy. In every relationship, there are fights and arguments.

Not trying to argue with you or anything, but this first sentence made me think about me and B. [Of course it did, what doesn't make me think about B??] We've been together for 6 months and have never [*knocks on wood*] had a fight. I mean, there was a point where I was off in my own little world and didn't talk to him much that made us both very unhappy...but we didn't fight about it. We simply told each other what we didn't like and we did our best to improve it. And it went very well!

Honestly, I don't think I could ever be mad at him. Never truely upset at him anyway. I think I'd always forgive him right away. It's funny, today I thought, Wow, I apologize to him A LOT! I do. I am always saying sorry for the stupidest things. The fact is, he's the only person I've ever met that I've never had a fight with and that amazes me. I'm usually the type of person to state the problems I have with someone, but never him. It's like he's my only weakness, hahaha!

It wasn't a full blown, shouts-and-insults argument. We were going back and forth, again and again, over email. He would ask me to visit, I would say I didn't want to be in the way, he would say I wouldn't but if I didn't really want to visit I didn't have to, and so on. At one point, he said to not bother visiting, because it "wouldn't be worth it" (since I would have to leave early). I signed off in a huff, asking why he didn't just straight up tell me I'm not worth it (Before you ask, yes, I tend to jump to conclusions. It's a very bad habit).
He spent most of today trying to catch me and apologize... he says he never meant to make me think I'm worthless. He also claims he doesn't have anything to do tomorrow, and then goes on and says that he does. I can't do anything with him next weekend because we visit my great-aunt (she lives in a nursing home) every other weekend. And I'm sure that by some unfortunate aligning of the planets there will be some odd event happening the weekend after.
I can't seem to win. :l
Thanks for the advice, but I think I'll just wait and see how I feel tomorrow. I don't want Glasses's weekend to be ruined on account of me being... well, my usual bitchypessimistic self.

[.:Rayneh:.]

Okay, I'm in a bit of a perdiciment... I like three guys. But here's the catch (if that wasn't already bad enough)

First and foremost is Caleb, he's younger than me (I'm 14, 15 in 5 days, he just turned 14 and he's in eighth grade) He goes to a different school. This guy claims he loves me and I am afraid that he might be playing me...

Then there is Andrew. He is 17 (just turned) and in my grade (got held back) and told me he's liked me since 7th grade. Part of me wants to believe him, but part of me says be careful. He's been passed around a lot. And I mean alot. I have liked him for about two years now... But I just don't know...

And that leaves Austin. The most complicated of all of them. He's a sophomore (16 years old), but really socially awkward, and desperate. He too has told me he likes me, but it seems to be more of a lust thing than him actually liking me. But I don't know. The complicated part is that his sister is one of my best friends. And that would be so weird and awkward...

Just to add to the problem, I'm scared of relationships... Well, not relationships, but, physical contact. Kissing actually. I want to do it, but I'm afraid... So afraid that I started avoiding my boyfriend just so I wouldn't have to kiss him... Again, I want to, but it scares me...

All off these guys have told me they like me, but I'm afraid that I'm being played, and I like them all back... What should I do?!

[spaceferrari]

Just to add to the problem, I'm scared of relationships... Well, not relationships, but, physical contact. Kissing actually. I want to do it, but I'm afraid... So afraid that I started avoiding my boyfriend just so I wouldn't have to kiss him... Again, I want to, but it scares me...

I believe you, kissing is scary the first time. Kind of in a "wth how do people do this all the time??" way.
But once you get over the initial shock, it's quite fun. ;]
If you really, honestly care for the guy, each kiss, whether it's your tenth or ten-thousandth, will be as special as the first.
Which is why I never get tired of it... it's just that one special thing that's truly exclusive to me and Glasses. Especially the look in his eyes after I give him a kiss. It doesn't matter how long it takes. He always gives me a look of such caring, gentle affection, something that one probably wouldn't expect from a guy like him. And I know it's only me that he looks at in such a way.
I guess I've made up my mind then. I don't care if it's only an hour, I'm visiting tomorrow and I'm going to kiss him and it's going to be awesome. >:l

[.:Rayneh:.]

Just to add to the problem, I'm scared of relationships... Well, not relationships, but, physical contact. Kissing actually. I want to do it, but I'm afraid... So afraid that I started avoiding my boyfriend just so I wouldn't have to kiss him... Again, I want to, but it scares me...

I believe you, kissing is scary the first time. Kind of in a "wth how do people do this all the time??" way.
But once you get over the initial shock, it's quite fun. ;]
If you really, honestly care for the guy, each kiss, whether it's your tenth or ten-thousandth, will be as special as the first.
Which is why I never get tired of it... it's just that one special thing that's truly exclusive to me and Glasses. Especially the look in his eyes after I give him a kiss. It doesn't matter how long it takes. He always gives me a look of such caring, gentle affection, something that one probably wouldn't expect from a guy like him. And I know it's only me that he looks at in such a way.
I guess I've made up my mind then. I don't care if it's only an hour, I'm visiting tomorrow and I'm going to kiss him and it's going to be awesome. >:l

But how do you get over your fear though?

[youngster joey]

I have a crush on a guy who might like me back, but my friends think he's creepy, so nobody knows about it. What do I do? (Also, I might not check out this thread agin for a while, so feel free to PM me about it)

[spaceferrari]

But how do you get over your fear though?

It depends a lot on how long you've known the guy, how familiar you are, how comfortable you are with him.
For me, my first kiss with Glasses was at Homecoming. Last slow song of the evening (how cliché). Near the end of the song, I looked up at him, and we both knew it was the right moment. A "now or never" kind of feeling.
The best way to "get over" your fear is to find that special moment. I don't mean to going out of your way to get the guy into a position where he can't refuse (that usually leads to trouble and resentment). When the right moment comes, believe me, you will know, and so will he. He may surprise you with it, but if he really cares for you, he won't force you.
Swallow your fear. Put your worries aside. Trust me, it will feel really weird at first, but once you're over the "wth is this??" stage, it will be the most amazing feeling in the world. ^^

[arcticwolf]

If you try to kiss him and you're scared, it's probably not the right moment.
I've only kissed one guy on the lips and it was because he pulled his "boohoo poor me I'm sad" crap because I didn't want to kiss him, since I was scared.

[-Firesong-]

Loooong day. Not helped by the fact that I'm sick as a dog.

Anyways, I got to school today and went to my locker. And Buggy showed up and said "[Insertmynamehere], how are you?" And I said I was good, and then he got the weirdest look on his face, he looked so pissed off, and stalked off to his friend's classroom, which is right next to my locker. And then he got his friend and tried to walk off without me. So his friend, who's always been very nice to me, drags Buggy back, and Buggy won't talk to me. By our second lap of walking around, I was sick of it and just left as soon as I got to a staircase.
Then in Art, he didn't talk to me. Normally he pulls a chair over to my table and we'll talk. Not today. My friend, Casey, she didn't know what was up with him, and she did offer to kick his butt for me. After Art I just left, we normally walk with each other to our third period.
Judging by how he was acting, I didn't want to go to lunch, because he would just ignore me and it'd be awkward. So I skipped my lunch.
And finally, in my last class, one of my friends tells me he's not mad, but I didn't really believe them. After that, when I was leaving 7th, I looked down the hallway and saw Buggy, and so he wound up apologizing. A lot. So I guess we're on good terms now, we didn't break up, but I just feel like I wouldn't care if we did break up. Normally, when Buggy acts weird and ignores me, I take it hard, and today, I didn't care.
Anyways, sorry for the long post.

[KimSueKimmy]

Ok last night I was looking at my crush and he looked at me and we held a gaze for bout 1 min. Then I looked away (HOW STUPID OF ME!!!) then on occation we would look at each other and I still complement him on his acting and his singing but he shows no emotion!!! I wish I could just ask for his numba and b over with it and txt him and just talk to each other instead of me (Being creepy) and stairing at him!!!!