Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[Kecko]

My crush and I were goofing off, he tried to tackle me and accidently elbowed me in the throat, then he tried to tackle me again and I shoved him to the ground, and then when I was running from him I messed up and fell on the ground scraping up and bruising my shin pretty good and he stood over me and asked like 5 times if I was ok. He also found me while we were playing hide and seek, but one of my family members was it, my crush was like "*my name here*?" Then he saw me and stood in front of where I was and said "Ok, I got you surrounded!" My family member was like "She's not even over here is she?" And he responded "Yeah she is, but she's got one good hiding spot doesn't she?" It was fun! He always calls me by my nickname and will sometimes change it around a bit, He no longer has a girlfriend, I don't think he'd ask me but is it ok to think about what would happen if he did?

Yep, it's okay! I've actually thought about what I'd say if he asked me out. I'd say "I'd love to, J." And smile attractively. It will probably work

Yay I'm glad I'm not the only one thinking about it!

[Acidic]

My crush and I were goofing off, he tried to tackle me and accidently elbowed me in the throat, then he tried to tackle me again and I shoved him to the ground, and then when I was running from him I messed up and fell on the ground scraping up and bruising my shin pretty good and he stood over me and asked like 5 times if I was ok. He also found me while we were playing hide and seek, but one of my family members was it, my crush was like "*my name here*?" Then he saw me and stood in front of where I was and said "Ok, I got you surrounded!" My family member was like "She's not even over here is she?" And he responded "Yeah she is, but she's got one good hiding spot doesn't she?" It was fun! He always calls me by my nickname and will sometimes change it around a bit, He no longer has a girlfriend, I don't think he'd ask me but is it ok to think about what would happen if he did?

Yep, it's okay! I've actually thought about what I'd say if he asked me out. I'd say "I'd love to, J." And smile attractively. It will probably work :D

Yay I'm glad I'm not the only one thinking about it! :)

Haha! It's basically imagining a relationship while I'm in a boring class XD

[Kecko]

Haha! It's basically imagining a relationship while I'm in a boring class XD

Always considering it or thinking on what he said or what we played when he was over, kinda crazy! Same for me on the boring class thing!

[Acidic]

Haha! It's basically imagining a relationship while I'm in a boring class XD

Always considering it or thinking on what he said or what we played when he was over, kinda crazy! Same for me on the boring class thing! :lol:

LOL! I also do it when I'm in my bed and I can't sleep <3

[oikawa]

ffff.

I feel so loneley. I havent had a crush in months.

Whats wrong with me? D:<

[Kecko]

Haha! It's basically imagining a relationship while I'm in a boring class XD

Always considering it or thinking on what he said or what we played when he was over, kinda crazy! Same for me on the boring class thing!

LOL! I also do it when I'm in my bed and I can't sleep <3

Same!! Its kinda fun! And addicting...

[spaceferrari]

Small question.
What is the right time to end your first relationship?
I'm the first girl Glasses has ever dated and vice versa. It's gone on almost a year now. I feel I should let him go soon so that he can find other people he may be interested in.
I don't want to leave him, but I feel that may be what's best for him.
Any words of wisdom?

[-Firesong-]

Small question.
What is the right time to end your first relationship?
I'm the first girl Glasses has ever dated and vice versa. It's gone on almost a year now. I feel I should let him go soon so that he can find other people he may be interested in.
I don't want to leave him, but I feel that may be what's best for him.
Any words of wisdom?

Well, I've been in a relationship for about a year too, and it's my first.
I don't plan on ending it anytime soon...

Why do you think ending it would be better for Glasses? Has it gotten to the point where you aren't really dating and it's more like you are just good friends?

[Nimble Awesomeness]

Small question.
What is the right time to end your first relationship?
I'm the first girl Glasses has ever dated and vice versa. It's gone on almost a year now. I feel I should let him go soon so that he can find other people he may be interested in.
I don't want to leave him, but I feel that may be what's best for him.
Any words of wisdom?

D'aww, ok. I was rooting for you and Glasses, but I'd noticed that you weren't feeling it anymore. (Unless that was someone else... O.o Too many people. x.x)

Well, just tell him the truth. Explain to him exactly what you're feeling, that you just don't feel it anymore and it's not fair to you or him if you stay together. I know it's super cliched to say "It's not you, it's me", but it's the truth for most situation. You still care about him, right? And you like him a lot, right? But you just don't feel anything romantically anymore. (At least that's my understanding, correct me if I'm wrong. I haven't read one of your posts in a long time. xP)

As for time, no time is good for a break up. But make it casual, not anything special. Don't text him, don't facebook him, don't Google hangout him, make it face to face. Make plans to meet up with him at the local park, or that old abandoned school up the street. (Best thing is, we have one of those. x) You have to make it a place where he can rush off if he wants to. He is going to be upset you know, and even if he's not it's still going to hurt. You are breaking up with him. So don't expect him to just be totally cool with it. Not that I thought you would do that.

So, hope this helps, and good luck! I'm sorry that you have to break up with him though. :(

[spaceferrari]

Small question.
What is the right time to end your first relationship?
I'm the first girl Glasses has ever dated and vice versa. It's gone on almost a year now. I feel I should let him go soon so that he can find other people he may be interested in.
I don't want to leave him, but I feel that may be what's best for him.
Any words of wisdom?

Well, I've been in a relationship for about a year too, and it's my first.
I don't plan on ending it anytime soon...

Why do you think ending it would be better for Glasses? Has it gotten to the point where you aren't really dating and it's more like you are just good friends?

No, not at all. We're still interested in each other (to the extent of my knowledge at least, he still likes me).
I won't go into great detail, but my family life has been very stressful and often painful. I have trust issues and, though I have not been clinically diagnosed, fear that I may suffer from a mild form of depression.
Recently, I've made Glasses upset on more than a few occasions. I never mean to, and I always apologize, but I know that it isn't good for him no matter how many "I'm sorry"s he hears.
All I want is for him to be happy, and I feel that he would be happiest with someone else, someone with fewer, or at least more understandable, problems.

Edit:
@Nimble Love: I'm not losing affection for Glasses; I care for him very much and, to put it as you did, I still have romantic feelings for him. I do honestly want to stay with him, but something in the back of my mind keeps telling me that feeling that way is selfish, because I would be depriving another, more worthy girl of Glasses's attention.
Glasses is slightly higher than me in the pecking order of my school, and he has many nice things: a big house on lots of ground, many pets, a big family, many fancy cars, and lots of friends, not to mention great talent, intelligence and strength. It's nothing he's said or done to make me feel this way, but because I haven't been as fortunate as he is (or, concerning a few areas, am more fortunate but feel I act arrogantly), I don't think I have the right to be in a relationship with him. I want to, more than anything I want to stay with him, but I don't think I should.

A friend gave me a pretty good talk at lunch, though, and she helped me a bit. I hope I can ask her to tell Glasses what she told me (because, unfortunately, Glasses and I do not share any classes this year).