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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby mekaiser » Mon Mar 19, 2012 1:39 am

Toxic-Dust Forever! wrote:So, I get to walk by my crush's house ALLL week next week, starting tomorrow.

Cause I'm walking a dog and his house is along the way to the school. ^^
I have a feeling that something is going to happen.
I don't know if anybody remembers, but I told you about my friend that has a crush on him as well?
She thinks of it as a competition, but I don't.
Does that mean anything?
Anyways, so I went with a walk with her, and we actually talked about things other then him. xD Which I liked.
The history me and this guy has is.. it's just amazing.
I met him in grade 4- He liked my best friend Bailey, but I liked him.
In grade 5- We went to the same Daycare. Things got to a point were he almost kissed me. But it was to soon (Only grade 5!) and so I pushed him away... But he still ran after me. xD We were really good friends.
In grade 6- We were in the same class, and at Halloween, I dressed as a dead bride, and he dressed as a dead groom. And it was totally unintentional. All the girls were pushing me into him, and all the guys were pushing him into me. I didn't like that day ;n;
In grade 7- He would hold doors open for me, and he was such a gentleman. But then at the grade 7 dance, I danced with my friend Matthew cause he had no friends... to a slow song. And then his best friend danced with me pretty much the whole night. Amg, it was horrible. And he stomped on my foot at the end of the dance :C
In grade 8- We both hated eachother. We had no classes together, but if we saw each other in the hall we would glare at eachother. I said his name with disgust.
In grade 9 (Now)- At first, things were slow. but then he would stare at me ALL the time, he would talk to me, he would smile at me, he would do the 'eyebrow wiggle' at me... and then things slowed down when my friend came in. :C
Now, do you think I have a chance with this guy? Should I tell him I like him? Or.. I was already thinking of it, but you guys are awesome and I want the get-go from you first.
Remember- My friend wants to tell him too. But I think she will chicken out. She's said she was going to for three months now. Hasn't.
Thankies! Sorry for the long post ;n;

heheh eyebrow wiggle *smirks* so my opinion about...i'll call him eyebrow wiggle or EW...okay? So I think you and EW would be a good couple....at the same time you shouldn't hurt your friend about it. If she thinks it is a contest you could either
A Give her a little competition by flirting with him. (which would be a little evil but it would ruin your cute little history with him!)
B let her have him. (which would be awful!)
C Take him! (I have no comment)
The difference between the three is A would be a little fun, but it would hurt your friend. B would be too nice of you and you deserve him! C Would be rude and completely evil. frankly friendships last forever and are very important If she's close. If not....then what's the point? Which would last longer is my question. A unclose friendship or a tottally cute relationship?
Hi you all! I am getting back into the swing of things, so forgive me.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby peachie. » Mon Mar 19, 2012 1:47 am

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amour. wrote:
URGENT!

Hello! My name is amour. I am in a deep rut and need help FAST. If you haven't read my posts before here is q quick summary;
I am a girl who had had a crush on a guy for a long time. After he had discovered feelings for me too we decided to date. We have been dating for a little over a month but he is now avoiding me and we hardly talk. I have a best friend who is a male, R and I have reecently discovered I have feelings for him.


Tonight R and I were testing just like any other night. But as it got later stuff started to change...
Me; oh okay. And sorry for lying to you about liking (insertsomeguysnamehere). I am just worried of what will happen when it gets out.
R; come on pls tell me. I won't tell anyone. U even scared to tell me?
Me; yes I am mortified. If I did tell u do u promise nothing would change?
R; I swear on my life nothing would ever change.
Me; okay then... I like.....
R; ......who?
Me; ........you
R; really?
Me; yeah... Please don't hate me. I never meant fir this to happen. My stupid little heart x(
R; oh I don't hate you. Our friend ship is gonna be alright. But why do you like me?
Me; okay. Ur just always there for me whenever I need someone. Ur nice oh and very funny.
R; aww thanks. Do you wanna know the actual truth I never had the balls to say?
Me; ur welcome. Okay..
R; so you know when we were texting and I said that i would probs tell u straight up that I like u. Well I guess that wasn't true.
Me; wait.... R u saying....?
R; that I like you. You wanna know why?
Me; holy macaroni 0.0 sure.
R; lol. Well first of all your quite pretty and your very nice and ur probs the bestest friend I could ever have.
Me; that is the nicest thing anyone has ever said to me. Thank you.
R; (: so this conversation never happened did it?
Me; sadly no it didn't. But u know I am screwed now right?
R; why are you screwed?
Me; I am dating D. But you and I kind of got a 'thing' for each other.
R; oh that's what I thought.
Me; what the h*** am I going to do?
R; I donno. Do you want to know what I miss?
Me; yeah, what do you miss?
R; I miss seeing everyone and I can't wait to see u again.
Me; I can't wait to see you tomorrow. We have a lit to talk about ;)

- skipping a lot of useless stuff -
R; I miss you ):
Me; I miss u too ):
R; I just wish tomorrow would come sooner just so I could hear your voice.
Me; awuh <3 lol now that u know u being super sweet to me x)
R; <3 now I can actually say what I am thinking of you.
Me; <3 (: what am I going to do though? Break up with D?
R; I wish I could text you all night. <3 I donno.
Me; ikr. I don't want to stop textig u.
R; me neither, but I have one bar if battery left. )':
Me; oh darn ):
R; don't worry I can still talk for at least 20 more mins <3
me; yay <3
R; has anyone ever called you pretty before or am I the first one?
Me; ur the first one <3 I have never gotten called pretty before.
R; well your one of the prettiest womans I have ever seen. <3
Me; lol dude ur making me blush x)
R; that's what I am aiming for. (;
Me; lol. Seriously I hope ur really telling the truth about liking me cause if not I would look like a total idiot.
R; no I really love you. I could talk to you forever <3
me; I love you too <3 ... Would this count as cheating on my boyfriend?
R; my phones about to die >.< I love you, good night. <3
me; I love you too. Good night. See you tomorrow (:
R; <3

What am I going to do?!?! I love a guy but I am dating another? Do I break up with D so I can be with R? And if I do what do I say to him?
Help me!



Honestly, if you have feelings for another guy, the best thing is to break up with your boyfriend. While I was dating J, I had a huge crush on MC and I knew that he liked me back and I felt almost like I was cheating on him. So I waited a little bit, asked MC where this would go, waited to see how our relationship went after we both knew (whether it would be awkward or just better), figured out if I was going to gain anything by breaking up with J, then just did it. Because I did, I had a wonderful relationship with MC, my first actual affectionate relationship. I sort of miss being with him, but at the same time, I know that we just aren't mean to be together. I felt bad about breaking up with J for him, but it all worked out. Wait and see if the relationship between you and R is going to go anywhere from your flirting and liking each other. If you think it'll be great and you'll date and be happy, then I'd say to go for it and break up with D in the nicest way possible. Besides, if you say that he's avoiding you, maybe it'd be best. The second time MC and I dated, he barely talked to me and never hung out with me or anything, which led me to believe that a break up was better, which - I know now - it actually was.


HD hasn't talked to me since Friday and he hasn't texted me since Thursday night, which is why he hasn't talked to me because we need to text to plan on hanging out since our parents don't know the other person and it would just be weird to phone each other. I'm getting a little worried about it. But then again, he's often in trouble, so he probably got his phone taken away or something. Still, I'm a bit worked up about it. :s Hopefully he'll text me tomorrow and we can hangout or something.


Thank you so much ;u;
And am following your advice and waiting this out a little to see where R and I's relationship would go. Akward or better. So far it's normal. But later today we shall figure it out when I get to talk to him face to face. I have been thinking about breaking up with D. Him and I were friends before we started dating and we have faded away from each other when we are dating. So I could just say that I want to go back to being friends and the dating never worked out.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby TheBigBadWolf » Mon Mar 19, 2012 1:52 am

I have a problem. 2 boys have a crush on me. Both are my best friends.So here is the problem:Let's call best friend a J and best friend b O. Both boys like me have told me they do BUT THEIR like my little brothers.Hint they are around my age in the same grade too. I see them as my siblings. And I feel I do have a crush on O but not J because To me he is my little brother.Help me!!! What should I do??????
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby peapcd » Mon Mar 19, 2012 1:56 am

Hey ive got my first problem!!!!

Okayz. So i like a guy, lets call him j. J is sweet and funny and loves the bruins. I realised the other day i was wondering what it would be like to hug him.... I think i have a crush. He is amazing and i love him to death as a friend, but what happens if he says no?? Anyone able to help?
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby Angry.Jackal » Mon Mar 19, 2012 2:12 am

I dunno. It seems to me that almost everyone on here says that someon could be your bestest friend in the whole world but when you date them, you never really get the same BFF feeling if you ever break up. Just sayin'.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby Roonil Wazlib » Mon Mar 19, 2012 2:15 am

Ɖяαɢσи Ɯσℓғ wrote:I dunno. It seems to me that almost everyone on here says that someon could be your bestest friend in the whole world but when you date them, you never really get the same BFF feeling if you ever break up. Just sayin'.


Then it's simple. Don't date your best friend :3
But it worked out for my friend...she dated her best friend and she's still happy :3
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby -Firesong- » Mon Mar 19, 2012 2:32 am

RavenclawGirl wrote:
Ɖяαɢσи Ɯσℓғ wrote:I dunno. It seems to me that almost everyone on here says that someon could be your bestest friend in the whole world but when you date them, you never really get the same BFF feeling if you ever break up. Just sayin'.


Then it's simple. Don't date your best friend :3
But it worked out for my friend...she dated her best friend and she's still happy :3

I've been dating my best guy friend for about ten months. We've broken up twice and stayed on good terms.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby TheBigBadWolf » Mon Mar 19, 2012 2:38 am

But I love J like a brother nothing else. I do love O but it would hurt j
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby peachie. » Mon Mar 19, 2012 2:39 am

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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby -Firesong- » Mon Mar 19, 2012 3:30 am

amour: I just went back and read your posts, and I think you should just break up with D as soon as you can.
Telling R that you "love" him... that's borderline cheating. If you were saying you loved him a 'just friends' way, then maybe it wouldn't be too bad. But you're not talking about just friends. If the crap ever hit the fan, meaning D finds out about this, you'd be in a big mess.
Don't wait around and "see what will happen" with you and R's relationship. If by waiting around you mean not breaking up with D and still flirting with R on the side, don't do that.


amour wrote:
R; no I really love you. I could talk to you forever <3
me; I love you too <3 ... Would this count as cheating on my boyfriend?
R; my phones about to die >.< I love you, good night. <3
me; I love you too. Good night. See you tomorrow (:
R; <3


Notice how R didn't answer your question: "Would this count as cheating on my boyfriend?"
I'm just saying. Break up with D, or cut off this crap with R.

I may have come across a little harsh, but somebody has to say this straight.
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