Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

[f l i g h t]

You can skip over to the bolded words if you don't want to read the whole story :D

Okay, so a while back when high school started this guy i barely knew told me he liked me. A couple months later after I got to know him a lot more, I started to like him. I liked someone else a lot more at this time, and he just hooked up with another girl who I didn't like in the first place. And the boy who liked me knew about them and knew how much I liked the boy. I was talking to him on facebook and i started joking around and said that I must be hideous, and he told me that I was beautiful. This sounds a little corny, but something just hit me when he said that. It made me think, "Wow. . . the one I've been looking for has been here the whole time."

A few weeks later, I told him I liked him. He was the happiest person in the entire world. A couple days later he held my hand when I was upset about a family problem, which made me a lot happier. Then in homeroom we started holding hands under the table everyday. People kept asking if we were going out, bt we didn't want to admit anything yet.
On the facebook chat, he told me he wants to kiss me. But I told him I was afraid to, so that didn't happen for weeks. Finally, last week, he kissed me. A real kiss. Not just a little peck. It was the real thing like you see in movies. And he kissed me earlier this week on the stairway when nobody was around. Then yesterday he asked me out because it was 11.11.11 and we went to the park and we kissed me for what felt like 20 minutes. I'm not even exaggerating here.

Okay so here's the point. He hangs out with his two exes a lot. He says he's over one of them, and said nothing about the other. For some reason it just makes me mad. Even though he's still with a big group of people when he hangs out with them. He has a very hard time getting over girls, and I don't know if that is just a boy thing or if this is his own problem. And he texts them a lot. I really don't like that. Should I tell him that I don't like it? Or should I wait until we are official and sure that we are in a relationship? I really need some advice with that, so if anyone with experience (because this is my first "boyfriend" and I need someone who has had more than one boyfriend before to help please). Thank you. (:

Well, I think if he's kissed you then he should be more serious about you. Ask him if he's serious about you. If he isn't then just drop him, but if he is tell him you want to be sure about it but can't because you don't know if he still likes his ex's or not.

I hope you got that. :) And if he still doesn't get what you're trying to tell him, just tell him straight out you don't like him hanging out with those girls. If he deserves you then he will stop talking to them.

[Official-Enjolras]

I love Daniel. I can't explain the feeling but I can't ley go of him and I'm always defending him. I spend so much time on the phone with him and he says I have som many amazing about me he says: U r/ has
1. Great personality
2. kind
3. funny
4. playful
5. cute
6. good looking
7. kind to other people
8. and you listen to me (Kind of) Lol i really don't
I do think I love him.

Any help? Yes? No?

[stina]

You can skip over to the bolded words if you don't want to read the whole story

Okay, so a while back when high school started this guy i barely knew told me he liked me. A couple months later after I got to know him a lot more, I started to like him. I liked someone else a lot more at this time, and he just hooked up with another girl who I didn't like in the first place. And the boy who liked me knew about them and knew how much I liked the boy. I was talking to him on facebook and i started joking around and said that I must be hideous, and he told me that I was beautiful. This sounds a little corny, but something just hit me when he said that. It made me think, "Wow. . . the one I've been looking for has been here the whole time."

A few weeks later, I told him I liked him. He was the happiest person in the entire world. A couple days later he held my hand when I was upset about a family problem, which made me a lot happier. Then in homeroom we started holding hands under the table everyday. People kept asking if we were going out, bt we didn't want to admit anything yet.
On the facebook chat, he told me he wants to kiss me. But I told him I was afraid to, so that didn't happen for weeks. Finally, last week, he kissed me. A real kiss. Not just a little peck. It was the real thing like you see in movies. And he kissed me earlier this week on the stairway when nobody was around. Then yesterday he asked me out because it was 11.11.11 and we went to the park and we kissed me for what felt like 20 minutes. I'm not even exaggerating here.

Okay so here's the point. He hangs out with his two exes a lot. He says he's over one of them, and said nothing about the other. For some reason it just makes me mad. Even though he's still with a big group of people when he hangs out with them. He has a very hard time getting over girls, and I don't know if that is just a boy thing or if this is his own problem. And he texts them a lot. I really don't like that. Should I tell him that I don't like it? Or should I wait until we are official and sure that we are in a relationship? I really need some advice with that, so if anyone with experience (because this is my first "boyfriend" and I need someone who has had more than one boyfriend before to help please). Thank you. (:

Well, I think if he's kissed you then he should be more serious about you. Ask him if he's serious about you. If he isn't then just drop him, but if he is tell him you want to be sure about it but can't because you don't know if he still likes his ex's or not.

I hope you got that. And if he still doesn't get what you're trying to tell him, just tell him straight out you don't like him hanging out with those girls. If he deserves you then he will stop talking to them.

He will probably be all like "But I'm over them now" and I'm not sure if he is. I think I might just wait, because he hasn't been hanging out with them since he kissed me the first time. But if he hangs out with them again I will tell him that I really don't like it.

[marimoon]

Oh noiez!
I gotz a new problem!
The year is almost over and I still haven't told Stick that I like him! Now I'm very irritated because i'm leaving in December!!!! o-o Helllppp mmeeeee!! I have no idea what to do. I wanna tell him I like him, but school is over and I don't know where he lives or anything like that!!!!! o-o God! someone please tell me what I should doooooooooooo!!!!!!

-Crazy

[blackoutTaxonomist]

Broke up with the boyfriend last night--it was pretty difficult, but it was probably for the best. Strange how things can go from being really good to really bad all of a sudden! |D I'm sure he'll be calling me names and ripping me down to every person he meets. You think you know a guy!

[mekaiser]

Oh noiez!
I gotz a new problem!
The year is almost over and I still haven't told Stick that I like him! Now I'm very irritated because i'm leaving in December!!!! o-o Helllppp mmeeeee!! I have no idea what to do. I wanna tell him I like him, but school is over and I don't know where he lives or anything like that!!!!! o-o God! someone please tell me what I should doooooooooooo!!!!!!

-Crazy

well, i had a problem just like this...it's not going to work.

[f l i g h t]

Oh noiez!
I gotz a new problem!
The year is almost over and I still haven't told Stick that I like him! Now I'm very irritated because i'm leaving in December!!!! o-o Helllppp mmeeeee!! I have no idea what to do. I wanna tell him I like him, but school is over and I don't know where he lives or anything like that!!!!! o-o God! someone please tell me what I should doooooooooooo!!!!!!

-Crazy

well, i had a problem just like this...it's not going to work.

Well you better pluck up the courage. If you don't take a risk, nothing is going to happen.

[~Fallen Angel~]

I love Daniel. I can't explain the feeling but I can't ley go of him and I'm always defending him. I spend so much time on the phone with him and he says I have som many amazing about me he says: U r/ has
1. Great personality
2. kind
3. funny
4. playful
5. cute
6. good looking
7. kind to other people
8. and you listen to me (Kind of) Lol i really don't
I do think I love him.

Any help? Yes? No?

Okay, um... First off, what do you mean by "listening" to him?

[s y n]

AAWWWWWW!!
I just found out that my boyfriend sent me a message saying "I love you"
last night at 11-11-11 at 11:11pm!! Although, my phone didn't get it, so
now he's upset that I didn't get it. I told him it was okay, and he said that
it wasn't because 11-11-11 will never come again in my lifetime. I told him
that we always had 12-12-12 next year lmao!

It's always the little things that make you say "awwwww!" With B, I say that
everyday! He's the best and I love him!!

My boyfriend sent me the same exact thing! I got it on 11-11-11 but it was like the exact moment that it turned to 11:11 pm that I got it ^^

Maybe it's some sort of trend c:


Three of my friends want me to break up with MC. The only reason is that he's not very nice to any of them. He's not a bully, but just playfully mean. Last night I was hanging out with him and EJ and he winded her because they got in an argument and then he threw a slurpee at her and then he left because he was pissed off at her (excuse my language). He's telling me that I shouldn't hangout with her anymore and she's telling me that I should break up with him.

They're expecting me to pick sides, and both of them expect me to pick their side.

What should I do? MC said he doesn't care if I hang out with her, as long as it's not while I'm with him, but she's insisting that I should breakup with him and she doesn't want me to hang out with him while she's with me. She's already taken my phone and broken up with him once, though I told him after that it was her and told him I'd never break up with him - then we had like an hour long text conversation of compliments and smiley faces and hearts ^^. I don't want to lose my friend, but there's no way I'm breaking up with MC just because she doesn't like him.

[-Firesong-]

AAWWWWWW!!
I just found out that my boyfriend sent me a message saying "I love you"
last night at 11-11-11 at 11:11pm!! Although, my phone didn't get it, so
now he's upset that I didn't get it. I told him it was okay, and he said that
it wasn't because 11-11-11 will never come again in my lifetime. I told him
that we always had 12-12-12 next year lmao!

It's always the little things that make you say "awwwww!" With B, I say that
everyday! He's the best and I love him!!

My boyfriend sent me the same exact thing! I got it on 11-11-11 but it was like the exact moment that it turned to 11:11 pm that I got it ^^

Maybe it's some sort of trend c:


Three of my friends want me to break up with MC. The only reason is that he's not very nice to any of them. He's not a bully, but just playfully mean. Last night I was hanging out with him and EJ and he winded her because they got in an argument and then he threw a slurpee at her and then he left because he was pissed off at her (excuse my language). He's telling me that I shouldn't hangout with her anymore and she's telling me that I should break up with him.

They're expecting me to pick sides, and both of them expect me to pick their side.

What should I do? MC said he doesn't care if I hang out with her, as long as it's not while I'm with him, but she's insisting that I should breakup with him and she doesn't want me to hang out with him while she's with me. She's already taken my phone and broken up with him once, though I told him after that it was her and told him I'd never break up with him - then we had like an hour long text conversation of compliments and smiley faces and hearts ^^. I don't want to lose my friend, but there's no way I'm breaking up with MC just because she doesn't like him.

I had a friend who went through the same thing when she started dating her boyfriend. But they stuck it out, and they've been happily dating for 6 months, even though they go to different schools now. Her friends eventually came around. I bet yours will too.