Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

[greysilence]

Wow. That's really weird. He probably just wanted to get some attention.

I can't stop thinking about Max! And I still can't decide if I should send K a friend request on facebook (which might finally start us talking), or just wait to see if we ever actually talk this year. ._.

[Hideś]

Yesterday i should meet with my friend and B but B had car accident. I messaged him "So you won't be here? What a harsh :< I hope it wasn't big car accident^^" and he messaged me back "I think i can't. It's nothing big, someone hit our car. Please don't be mad at me". When i readed "Please don't be mad at me" i smiled. It sounds like my feelings are important to him. So i messaged him "I am not mad at you I am just a little sad but i hope we will meet another day" and he messaged me back "Sure". What do you all think about this?

[-Firesong-]

I just found out something disturbing about my boyfriend. I mean, I'd thought this was happening, but it wasn't confirmed until now. We were texting today, and he said he hated his parents. I asked why and he said this: "Oh, they hate me. My brother is a wuss and he would cry so they take their problems out on me so they scream at me and if there is something wrong they immediately think it's my fault."
He's said stuff about how his brother is a wuss before, but I didn't think much of it until now.
He also said this: "It's mostly my dad. He thinks I'm being disrespectufl by asking him to throw away something and he flipped and threw me to the wall then dragged me to my room and left me there."
I know his dad has a temper. I also know he's done something similar before. (He dragged him to his room by his hair and wouldn't let him eat at all.) But this just kind of scares me. Isn't there some sort of law saying you can't hurt your kids? And I'm also kind of scared his dad will go to far and seriously hurt him. Any advice on what to do/say?

[Official-Enjolras]

I just found out something disturbing about my boyfriend. I mean, I'd thought this was happening, but it wasn't confirmed until now. We were texting today, and he said he hated his parents. I asked why and he said this: "Oh, they hate me. My brother is a wuss and he would cry so they take their problems out on me so they scream at me and if there is something wrong they immediately think it's my fault."
He's said stuff about how his brother is a wuss before, but I didn't think much of it until now.
He also said this: "It's mostly my dad. He thinks I'm being disrespectufl by asking him to throw away something and he flipped and threw me to the wall then dragged me to my room and left me there."
I know his dad has a temper. I also know he's done something similar before. (He dragged him to his room by his hair and wouldn't let him eat at all.) But this just kind of scares me. Isn't there some sort of law saying you can't hurt your kids? And I'm also kind of scared his dad will go to far and seriously hurt him. Any advice on what to do/say?

Well my boyfriend has a mom who hates him and a brother who beats the crap out of him and siblings who try to kill him. His mom doesn't like me much so......but I can see why your scared because sometimes I think my mom might let go and just beat the crap outta me when she gets really mad

[arcticwolf]

I have a problem. I can't look my boyfriend directly in the eyes or I get lost in them. ;-;
I'm not kidding. I have to look over him or away from him whenever he speaks. Everytime I look in his eyes, I... can't really explain it. I get weak at the knees and this bubbly feeling weighs in my gut and gets worse with each passing moment.
I guess he's just too beautiful.

...I'm going to go tell him that tomorrow, and see what he thinks. He's going to laugh at me and bother me about it for a year xDDD
{To make things worse, we've been dating for almost nine months and I've had this problem since we first started dating.}

[Official-Enjolras]

Hehe just tell him

[Hano]

I have a problem. I can't look my boyfriend directly in the eyes or I get lost in them. ;-;
I'm not kidding. I have to look over him or away from him whenever he speaks. Everytime I look in his eyes, I... can't really explain it. I get weak at the knees and this bubbly feeling weighs in my gut and gets worse with each passing moment.
I guess he's just too beautiful.

...I'm going to go tell him that tomorrow, and see what he thinks. He's going to laugh at me and bother me about it for a year xDDD
{To make things worse, we've been dating for almost nine months and I've had this problem since we first started dating.}

I know exacly how you feel. I'm the same way with my boyfriend. He's got really intense, like beautiful hazel eyes. I love them, but yeah, easy to get lost in.
And just tell him about it, it't not a big deal. I'm sure he'll be fine with it C:

[Dangitbobby]

Was wondering if a guy could get some advice.

I really like this girl, let's call her 'T'

Well I have known T for over a year now, we met in school and such and I didn't really talk to her much, mainly because I didn't like the crowd she hung out with so I hardly talked to her. We both joined Forensics and I really got to talk to her there, soon after I started liking her in March. I was going to ask her out on her birthday in a really sweet way, but the day before I found out that her and a guy who didn't have any interest in her the week before, I was bummed. Soon after I learned they broke up, I continued to like her, she found out I liked her well because she asked if I did and I was gonna be honest with her. Her and I went to summer school together (P.E.) along with her best friend and a couple of my friends, up to this point I still liked her. At summer school I really got to know T, and we talked a lot though not alone, but with either her friend or kids we met, (I told my friends to back off) by knowing more and more about her the more I really started to like her, though I knew she didn't like me (Her friend asked if I liked her and I told her the story and she talked to T and her friend told me.)I was bummed but I acted like it didn't affect me though it really did. Now that school has started we have a class that we can talk a lot with in and still no luck at all. We texted earlier tonight and I admitted that I still like her and she told me in quote "your an amazing guy ______ and your so sweet and kind and such a great friend. Yuu deserve someone who likes yuu as much as yuu like them. Yuu deserve love and happiness and I hope yuu find a girl becuz your that great of a person." We talked a little bit more, now that I think about it I am ashamed that I didn't ask "are you that girl?" but it might've worsened our friendship more.

Now if you bothered to read this here is my question.

Should I continue to like this girl and talk with her in hopes that maybe one day she will like me? Or should I move on to someone else?

Thank you for any advice given, it will help a lot.

(I know I have posted this before, but I didn't really get nay help on it, and I would like some if it's not too much to ask..)

[Official-Enjolras]

I have a problem. I can't look my boyfriend directly in the eyes or I get lost in them. ;-;
I'm not kidding. I have to look over him or away from him whenever he speaks. Everytime I look in his eyes, I... can't really explain it. I get weak at the knees and this bubbly feeling weighs in my gut and gets worse with each passing moment.
I guess he's just too beautiful.

...I'm going to go tell him that tomorrow, and see what he thinks. He's going to laugh at me and bother me about it for a year xDDD
{To make things worse, we've been dating for almost nine months and I've had this problem since we first started dating.}

I know exacly how you feel. I'm the same way with my boyfriend. He's got really intense, like beautiful hazel eyes. I love them, but yeah, easy to get lost in.
And just tell him about it, it't not a big deal. I'm sure he'll be fine with it C:

yea my boyfreind has kinda hazel-blueish eyes, but I think he gets lost in mine rather than me getting lost in his. He gets lost with the rest of the Boy population at my school. >.> My eyes are blueish-greenish and change depending on my mood and what I'm wearing. Like if I'm happy their a light blue but if I'm mad they may turn a light grey sometimes or if I'm sad a Dark Blue. its very weird

[Hano]

I have a problem. I can't look my boyfriend directly in the eyes or I get lost in them. ;-;
I'm not kidding. I have to look over him or away from him whenever he speaks. Everytime I look in his eyes, I... can't really explain it. I get weak at the knees and this bubbly feeling weighs in my gut and gets worse with each passing moment.
I guess he's just too beautiful.

...I'm going to go tell him that tomorrow, and see what he thinks. He's going to laugh at me and bother me about it for a year xDDD
{To make things worse, we've been dating for almost nine months and I've had this problem since we first started dating.}

I know exacly how you feel. I'm the same way with my boyfriend. He's got really intense, like beautiful hazel eyes. I love them, but yeah, easy to get lost in.
And just tell him about it, it't not a big deal. I'm sure he'll be fine with it C:

yea my boyfreind has kinda hazel-blueish eyes, but I think he gets lost in mine rather than me getting lost in his. He gets lost with the rest of the Boy population at my school. >.> My eyes are blueish-greenish and change depending on my mood and what I'm wearing. Like if I'm happy their a light blue but if I'm mad they may turn a light grey sometimes or if I'm sad a Dark Blue. its very weird

Ohhh sounds pretty. I have dull brown eyes.... Boring. But yeah, everyone says he has the most gorgeous eyes. He doesnt get it at all, but pretty much every girl in my old high school has commented on his eyes.