Crushes or boyfriends/girlfriends

[JamBlack]

Thanks Rainbow and good luck to you and Dylan too (Yup I did like him. A lot xD)

thankss :] and well good you found somone

^^ <3 I swear my friend (I'll call her Nini) is almost as excited than me! (not very possible xD but almost!) shes practically attacked my facebook with messages :L

[TubsDeGoat]

Thanks Rainbow and good luck to you and Dylan too (Yup I did like him. A lot xD)

thankss :] and well good you found somone

^^ <3 I swear my friend (I'll call her Nini) is almost as excited than me! (not very possible xD but almost!) shes practically attacked my facebook with messages :L

yeah same thing happned to me when dylan broke up with me though. i only cryed in summer school but as soon as everyone else found out that were my freind and knew how much i loved him literally had tears running down there face for me. it was scary, but i love watching people have more emotion than me xD

[meerkatgirl]

Oh look, boredom strikes again. Turns out it's been 11 months since C liked me. I realized that I liked him the whole time too. Almost a whole year. And I only figured it out a few months ago. Damnit self.

[TubsDeGoat]

awwww no! its ok, if you really like him then maybe when he sees you he will notice how amazing you are and like you too. dont worry!

[Prussia]

I've been reading on this fourm alot but I was to lazy to write anything. xD Since I have a bit of extra time I think I'll write a bit. I need some help. <3

So, there's this guy... Lets call him "A". Well, "A" is one year older than me. Well, actually I'm older than him but he's in a grade above me. I started to like him more than a year ago. In that time we talked on facebook everyday and he eventually asked me out. I said yes after much thought. We never really saw each other except a few minutes in the morning of school and I would just give him a hug. It lasted about about 3 weeks because he liked another girl that was REALLY out of his league. He asked her out after we broke up and she said no.

It's been a few months since then and I'm not sure if I like him or not. I know I would be devastated if he went out with another girl but still I find it so much fun to make him mad or depressed. PFFFFT. I'm a horrible person. x'D Now that I'm in marching band I see him alot more. Even though he'll be in high school while I'm still in middle school. :'P But anyways, "A" has been obsessing over this new girl in marching band for a few days now. And we haven't talked much anymore. Figures, everytime he likes me I don't like him and when I like him he doesn't like me. Well, I'm not 100% sure he doesn't like me but he sure likes this new girl more. Also, she's one year older than him. But she's really a little too nice so I wouldn't be surprised if she said yes if "A" asked her out.
Anyways, at marching practice he always stares or looks over at me. And before the new girl came he would ask me for a hug a few times a day. He even said my hair smelled really good. Hahaa. <3 But today at the last marching practice before school starts he only asked me for one hug and he running around saying he was so happy after he was talking to her.

Any advice? <3
-Shinra

[CaliDutchess]

I'm in a bad mood. I'm going to keep it short.
D, "friend," and I were supposed to hang out. "Friend" blames me when things don't work out and makes my day even worse. I stop talking to "friend" and get away from the drama, and then D asks if I want to hang out. I agree, hoping she'll get my mind off it all as she's one of my closest friends. "Friend" finds out and gets even more mad and blows up on me gain. We probably aren't friends anymore. Back on topic, I didn't see B today, and I didn't even get to talk to him that much. I'm pretty down right now, so B's going to be hearing about my problems next time we talk. That'll be interesting to have the tables turned for a change. I'll let you all know what he says, as well as how tomorrow goes.
(So much for keeping it short...)

[hotel breakfast]

Meh, I'm only crushing on movie/tv show characters at the moment, but I don't think it counts... (Draco Malfoy (OMG look at his hand OMG a man-ring! Squeeeee! *dies*) and Michael Kelso, if you were wondering.)
-Riff

[KoolAid&Cyanide]

JAMBLACK!!!!! YOU AND BADGER ARE TOGETHER!!???!?!?!?! im sorry i wasnt on for a bit but really!? D

Yes! Yes yes yes and it makes me really happy to say that ! ^^ Yep he asked me out yesterday (pokes timer in siggy) <3

Aw, congratulations!!!

Congrats! It's always sounded like you really like him and I'm positive you two will make a great couple!

Daily Question: Nowhere. It practically went farther with the pervs from Gravelbourgh this weekend. (Not really, just kidding, but it could've if they hadn't been complete pervs, because, dang, some of them were cute.) Since that was a slightly boring answer, I wanna answer yesterday's question(s?) too. As for the song, I just made a whole playlist, but the undisputed #1 song is definitely Happy, by Never Shout Never. Just because I have this whole thing with telling him he needs to be enthusiastic and smile and whatnot, and I just smile so much every time I play that song and think of him. It's not even necessarily any of the other lyrics that do it, other than "We should be happy, that's what I said from the start." It's not the context Christofer Drew is singing about, but it works. Oh, and there's always I Want You to Want Me by Cheap Trick and I'm Not That Girl from Wicked, because, having a crush, most people can relate to those two. And 6 Months, by Hey Monday, now that swimming's over, and I won't see him for more than half a year. And as for the second question, I see him less during the school year, just because he lives in a town 15 minutes away and I only really see him during summer. Last year I saw him 3 times between swimming seasons, and one of those was a swimming-related event.

Speedswimming's over now. Provincials were this weekend, and I had one heck of a time with Michael, his brother Anthony, his cousin Josh, my friend Avery, and Avery's friend Ryan. Didn't actually spend as much time as I would've liked with Mikey, I was being kinda antisocial the first morning, he was antisocial the second morning, and the second afternoon I had to help with concession, raffle, and selling towels, but I sat with him at the banquet Saturday night. We had a blast. As much fun as Tony, Ryan, and Josh are, it's nice to just have Michael time. He's quite a bit different than them. Plus Josh sometimes creeps me out. As hot as he is, Avery can have him. I've got Michael anyways. And we both stayed back to play Killer Bunnies (actually, he, Avery's brother Drew, and Michael's cousin Noah went across the street to Drew's place until I, with my minion Jordan, stalked them down and got them to play Killer Bunnies) when Josh, Avery, Tony, Mitchell, Haley (another swimmer), and Ryan went to Ryan's house during the party Sunday night. It was for the better anyways. We played 3 kickbutt games of Killer Bunnies, and they were apparently drinking (enough for Mitchell to get tipsy) at Ryan's, and I only recently stopped drinking, and the best way to stick with that is to stay away altogether. Plus Michael doesn't drink either. Ever.
But it's sad I'm not going to see him anymore. We'll see each other at the pizza banquet at the end of the month, but after that I have to hope that luck and random coincidences are on my side so I can see him. Last year I saw him twice after the pizza banquet: a couple weeks later at the grand opening of the car dealership Avery's dad owns, where we had a blast, and once at a hockey game where he was there with his hockey team. We barely spoke that time. (Ironically enough, me and my friend made a list of guys I wouldn't see at the game just a couple minutes earlier, and Michael was number 2 on that list). I've texted him a couple times, but he hasn't replied. Knowing him, he probably hasn't even read the second one yet. Or he has no idea who it is, since he doesn't have my number. But it's hard not to figure it out, since my fully Ukrainian, ultra-spazzy personality shines through in text messages, and I'm one of few people who a) call him Mikey, and b) say yeesh. Also, unless he has a stalker, not that many other people would know about Killer Bunnies Sunday night. But he probably has read it, and just hasn't responded because a) he isn't much of one for texting, (ver true) b) he just isn't answering because I called him Mikey both times, he hates that, I should stop (quite likely), or c) he's done with me now that swimming's done (most likely).

I just realized this is by far the longest and rumbliest post I've made in a long time, and no one probably wants to read it, so I'll stop here.

EDIT: While retracing this, I realized I did that stupid thing where I ramble but forget to explain stuff and consequently confuse people. So here it is: Tony and Anthony are the same person, Tony is short for Anthony; the pizza banquet is our swim club's awards banquet, we order a bunch of pizza, and Susan, our coach/chef bakes dessert, and we hand out awards, leftover ribbons and whatnot, and pb timesheets; and Killer Bunnies isthe most awesome, weirdest, most complicated card game ever. Oh, and the pervs from Gravelbourgh. At the swim meet this weekend, on Sunday, when I wasn't swimming, a bunch of guys from Gravelbourgh (one of the teams in the South) came and started hitting on me while I was sitting under the waterslide, listening to my music. They tried getting me to do the stupid "Can you touch you elbows together?" thing, and tried getting my number (since I told them Facebook was a conspiracy theory), but all they got was my name. My first name. I almost had to pull Michael in to help, since he's the kind of friend that helps with that kind of situation.

Oh, also, chances are there's gonna be a rumour about me and Michael sometime soon, since Calum, another swimmer, seems desperate for Hammerhead drama, and Avery and Mitchell are done with each other now. (Well, Avery's done with Mitchell. Mitchell's PO'd because of Avery bringing Ryan to the meet and flirting with Josh). Because that's exactly what we need. More Michael-and-Gale talk. Because we don't get enough of that already. (Note the sarcasm).

[angelblaines]

Meh, I'm only crushing on movie/tv show characters at the moment, but I don't think it counts... (Draco Malfoy (OMG look at his hand OMG a man-ring! Squeeeee! *dies*) and Michael Kelso, if you were wondering.)
-Riff

Darren Criss <3

[Ita]

WARNING: Prepare yourself with a bowl of popcorn and preferably a large amount of drink, this may be long.

This whole year I committed myself in not having any boy relationships for a while, I managed to go through the whole year but I sense next year will be more difficult for me, since I'll be going into High school, now I know what you're thinking, aren't you a little too young to start dating?, I get that a lot, I'm fourteen and soon to be fifteen. I've met a lot of people that have already started dating at my age.

Anyways, BEHOLD! My love life...

4th Grade - I had this major crush on this guy - Let's call him 'Cam' - who is now like a brother to me, so when I look back at this it's really awkward.
He happened to be the dorkiest kid in the class, not so much the in-crowd. One of the reasons why I liked him, he's been in all my grades through kindergarten so I knew him most from all the other students. We became really good friends but inside I wanted to be more then that, which made me feel that if we were to go into any further relationship it'll ruin our current friendship. He had short brown hair, and has brown eyes, and he wore braces, and would dress like all the other boy students. Now he looks scene, long brown hair (He straightens), no braces and very tall. My friend - Let's call her 'Amanda' - changed our relationship by telling him straight up that I liked him more then a friend, while I was standing next to her begging her not to, not only that but in front of his friends. Of course, he didn't feel the same way. So in saying that it did ruin our relationship, we stopped reading with each other, talking to each other, sitting next to each other, playing sports with each other, etc.
But in this current year we just hang out and talk, and so far he's been the only friend that has set me up with my crushes, which all went out well, sort of.

5th Grade - Okay, Okay, I still had little feelings for 'Cam', and he actually saved a spot for me in the beginning of the year, but things were still awkward between each other. But months passed and I made a new friend - Let's call her 'Kat' - me and her were like two peas and a pod, no one could tear us apart, not even the teachers, we'd always find a loop hole. There was this 'new' student - Let's call her 'Sarah' - I've known her since Kindergarten and she was my best friend, but she became too clingy and she'd try to shove Kat away from me. I told her one day I didn't like her, I didn't want to upset her but I tried my best on being forward with her. I thought it went well until Kat was sick one day, she would hug and squeeze me and I'd literally have to shove her off me. Here's where we get into the crush part. You see, she would always talk about this one kid - Let's call him 'Bob' - I knew him, just never talked to him, he's more of the maybe-if-I-be-quite-they'll-never-notice-me type of person. One day me and my friend Kat started getting more annoyed of Sarah. We were in the bathroom washing our hands when Sarah came rushing in saying, "Ohmigosh, look at this ring Bob gave me!", it was a giant plastic ring that looks like you could get from a vending machine. It was hideous. Of course me and Kat knew it couldn't have been true because Bob would always seem to try and avoid her, so I bumped into him in the hallway along with Kat and we started explaining everything to him, that's when we became friends. Later on he went up to Sarah and told her straight up, "I don't like you, I'm sorry, and...that ring, I did not give you that, I would know. So please, stop spreading rumors about me and you being together.", and of course, it seemed as if she did not get the message. Me and Kat would sit next to Bob at lunch just in case, I began to have a major crush on him.
Finally in 6th Grade, he asked me out, we lasted for about 5 months, it was complicated. But we're now best friends.

7th Grade - Okay, this year I went through a lot of relationships, so I'll list them as short as I can.

This kid named...'Jack' asked me out, I hardly knew him but he seemed really sweet, we lasted for a few weeks and for Christmas he gave me this necklace, I felt bad because in that time I began not liking him anymore, my friend knew it too so she talked to him, he was fine with it and we just ended from there.

I've known this kid since the beginning of middle school, let's call him 'Jerry', he was amazingly funny, supportive, protective, cuddly and sweet, although it didn't end well. In this day he tells me he regrets ending our relationship. One of my 'Friends' was mad at me and sent a false message to him saying I was using him. That 'Friend' is now an ex-friend, because she still denies it, even though Jack still has proof of the message. We only lasted about 2 weeks.

I've sort of known this kid since 5th grade, my sister is friends with his father so she would talk about him and how we should meet, funny thing is he ended up in my class. The teachers would always seat us next to each other (Not in alphabetical order), and pair us up, I started having feelings for him as well as one of my best friends, lets call her Monique and for him...Daniel. Monique switched classes before she had feelings for him, so I had more of the advantage in getting closer to Daniel. It was the night of the dance and he told his friends he wasn't going, but after me and him were helping out the teacher and I said, "I'm going to the dance.", he changed his mind and asked me out that night, I couldn't go ask Monique for permission (We made a promise) and instead out of my mouth came a big Ol' "YES!". Monique was very upset but we made up the next day after I explained to her everything.
Me and Daniel lasted a month and 2 weeks, the break up did change me.
Now we're just complete strangers to each other.

After the break up my friend 'Cam' from earlier set me up with this kid...'Nick', he was the most amazing out of all of them, I've got to admit, He had short brown hair, blue eyes and the most gorgeous smile, he was in fact one grade over me, before we started dating he would list everything he liked about me, 'Cam' would be beside me making sure everything went out okay, he asked us if we were going out when we started holding hands (Cam fell asleep on my leg), Nick looked at me and said, "It's really up to her" and did his cute smile, so I accepted. My friends started being grouchy because they would complain how much I ignored them when I'm with my boyfriend, so I ended up doing the opposite, and our relationship ended.
After that he would still talk to me, give me hugs and on a Saturday night we'd hang out with our friends and he'd sit next to me and talk to me.

Next up is whom I'd call, 'Kevin'. We met at the skate park thanks to my friends, the next day we would hang out and get to know each other, he'd tell me how much he loves my eyes and I'd tell him the same, Nick happened to be there standing behind me, I was playing one of my favorite songs, I was so stupid and Nick said, "...This makes me very upset.", I didn't understand and then I realized the song I was playing happened to be our song when we were dating.
Our relationship lasted a while until he stopped texting me, and stopped showing up at the skate park, everything just ended from there.
Overall he was just using me as a 'Score'.

The reason why I had said it would be difficult for me next year is I'll be seeing Nick, because to be honest, I still have feelings for him.

When we first met, we were tossing a yellow duck puppet around with everyone and we both grabbed it at the same time, so we were practically holding hands, I looked up for him and we locked eyes for a while and started talking to each other.

FIN.
How was that for a romance novel?