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Re: Crushes or boyfriends/girlfriends

Postby CaliDutchess » Thu Jul 21, 2011 9:51 am

I'm hurting so bad right now. B says he loves my close friend so much. Just now, he cried for the first time in ten years, and it was because he's convinced he'll never get my friend. Him crying made me cry. Ever since I've started loving him, he's the only thing that can cause me to cry. I love him so much, and it hurts so bad to see him in so much pain because off my close friend not liking him back.

Now, his step-dad won't let him out of the house again. All I want is for him to be happy, so I'm going to come up with a plan to get him out. It makes me so happy to see his smile, but it hurts so bad to see him upset. He said he'd die happy if he could just hold her and she said she loves him. That stung so, so much. It's exactly how I feel about him. Sometimes, I hate how he's so honest with me. I'm the only one he's able to communicate with, though. I have no clue what to do or how to feel now, and I'm crying again because he's so upset.
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Re: Crushes or boyfriends/girlfriends

Postby KoolAid&Cyanide » Thu Jul 21, 2011 2:58 pm

CaliDutchess wrote:
I'm hurting so bad right now. B says he loves my close friend so much. Just now, he cried for the first time in ten years, and it was because he's convinced he'll never get my friend. Him crying made me cry. Ever since I've started loving him, he's the only thing that can cause me to cry. I love him so much, and it hurts so bad to see him in so much pain because off my close friend not liking him back.

Now, his step-dad won't let him out of the house again. All I want is for him to be happy, so I'm going to come up with a plan to get him out. It makes me so happy to see his smile, but it hurts so bad to see him upset. He said he'd die happy if he could just hold her and she said she loves him. That stung so, so much. It's exactly how I feel about him. Sometimes, I hate how he's so honest with me. I'm the only one he's able to communicate with, though. I have no clue what to do or how to feel now, and I'm crying again because he's so upset.

Ohhh, honey, I feel so bad for you right now. And I know it's no consolation right now, but it will work out, things will get better, if it's meant to be, it'll be.

Why do guys I like keep showing up in my life? There's Logan, who I've had a crush on for almost three years now (it's complicated right now, not going to go into detail right now), he and one of his brothers were at public swimming yesterday right before speed swimming. Then there's Josh, who I liked two years ago and finally actually got over this year, only to like him again (I'm finally over him now, hopefully for good.), who I have seen twice in the past 20 hours (once with his shirt off, dang he's been working out or something, cuz he looks nicer than he used to. Which I guess still isn't actually that hot. And it could've just been because it was dark). And Morgan, who I've had small crushes on at a couple points in my life, was with Josh and another guy from my class when they biked/skateboarded shirtless by my place last night. Morgan was the one who called out to me. And Stephen, who I had a miniscule crush on last year, was at the pool this morning during lane swim. I didn't even realize it was him until me and Chelsea, one of the lifeguards, were talking about ages for taking all your Red Cross courses, and Chelsea asked him a question, and then my brain was just like "Oh. That skinny kid swimming beside me all morning was Stevie. Hmm." And there's Ryan, my best friend and more or less my first serious crush, who lives in Calgary and is probably coming to visit next week, after not seeing him for two years. Yeesh. Not that I'm complaining. I'm still pretty good with all these guys, except maybe Josh, we've always had kind of a weird relationship. But Logan and I have always had a pretty friendly, if a little bit shy, relationship, and we both have always kind of liked each other, and Morgan's really goofy friendly, and nice to everyone, same with Stephen, and Ryan's still a great friend even though he can probably beat me up now (which is new and disappointing). Just, yeesh.
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Re: Crushes or boyfriends/girlfriends

Postby dddddonuts » Thu Jul 21, 2011 3:05 pm

Jay Hawk wrote:Is it possible to love someone and want to wring their neck at the same time?

Yes, I've felt that way before... and let's not go into detail. :what:
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Re: Crushes or boyfriends/girlfriends

Postby s y n » Thu Jul 21, 2011 5:08 pm

My friend hates me.
So much.
Why?
Because her crush is the same guy who has a huge crush on me and has asked me out multiple times. I was reliving funny memories with her and my best friend at our three-person sleepover, and here was mine:

The time that I sat beside her crush in school. We were doing this thing with atlases, and we were allowed to work in partners as long as they sat close to us. My friends sat no where near me (D:), and my friend's crush, let's call him A, didn't have an atlas so I let him work with me. We were literally close enough to kiss each other, and we were laughing and having so much fun. But when I looked over at my friend, I got a total deathstare. She was being a real bee, eye, tee, see, eightch (Yay for spelling it out with pronounciation!) AKA a female dog, and so I found it really funny at the time.

But she totally flipped out on me at our sleepover, and now she won't talk to me. It doesn't really bug me that much seeing as me and my best friend don't really like her, but she's the type of girl that could spread bad things about me, but luckily I'm the type that everyone believes so I could tell eveyone they aren't true. Still, I'd rather not deal with her when she's like this. ._.

The funny thing is, I didn't even like A at the time. I do now, but, yeah.
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Re: Crushes or boyfriends/girlfriends

Postby CaliDutchess » Thu Jul 21, 2011 5:19 pm

@OneDayMore- Thanks, and I hope they do.

I probably won't be able to talk to B tomorrow, as I'm going to a place without Internet connection. To be honest, I'm really worried he'll do something horrible that he can't take back. He's been suicidal before, and now he's worse than ever. If he's really down and I'm not there for him, I'm afraid of what he'd do to himself. Here's hoping he's going to be fine from 11:30 am to around 5:00 pm!
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Re: Crushes or boyfriends/girlfriends

Postby ~*Angel*~ » Thu Jul 21, 2011 5:59 pm

@ Cali

I know this is going to sound like a suicide but hear me out. You need to tell him how you feel, how you really feel. What you said right here about seeing him be happy and that you feel the same way or ten times more that he feels about your friend. Obviously, your friend isn't good enough for him and doesn't want to be with him so now is your time to act. If it helps right him a note and give it to him and either let him read the whole thing in front of you or tell him to read it later when you're not around. But, you absolutely NEED to tell him. He's hurting and what's a more better remedy than being told your loved by an awesome girl like you? TELL HIM!
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Re: Crushes or boyfriends/girlfriends

Postby Grainne MacInnes » Thu Jul 21, 2011 6:26 pm

I like this dude (I think he's cute but you probably wont XD) and the rumor is that he likes me too, but I'm too shy to ask him. He's really shy too...ah well.
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Re: Crushes or boyfriends/girlfriends

Postby Grainne MacInnes » Thu Jul 21, 2011 6:28 pm

OneDayMore wrote:
U mad, bro? wrote:
Midnight_Shadow18450 wrote:Going to the Cinema on Saturday with my boyfriend to see Harry Potter. Then after the movie i'm going round his to spend the day with him. Yay! <3


My boyfriend and I went to see Potter this past Friday, I wore a Gryffindor shirt I made myself and brought my stuffed Fawkes and Every-Flavour-Beans and was so excited XD I'm glad my boyfriend can deal with my craziness.


You have a stuffed Fawkes? Jealous! But btw, Ravenclaw kicks Gryffindor's butt.

This week is semi-finals for swimming, and then after that I only have one week if I make it to Provincials. That's a week and a half left of seeing Michael on a regular basis. Avery's still convinced that Michael and I are in love and would make a cute couple. I'm still denying it.

What? You all have boyfriends? Never mind. And Slytherin beats all of them!!!! HA!
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Re: Crushes or boyfriends/girlfriends

Postby The Royal Mirage » Thu Jul 21, 2011 7:02 pm

... Hufflepuff is unspoken for. I kinda feel bad for them, but I'm not taking sides in this. Plus, I made a total idiot of myself calling Retro.

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Re: Crushes or boyfriends/girlfriends

Postby CaliDutchess » Thu Jul 21, 2011 7:05 pm

~*Angel*~ wrote:@ Cali

I know this is going to sound like a suicide but hear me out. You need to tell him how you feel, how you really feel. What you said right here about seeing him be happy and that you feel the same way or ten times more that he feels about your friend. Obviously, your friend isn't good enough for him and doesn't want to be with him so now is your time to act. If it helps right him a note and give it to him and either let him read the whole thing in front of you or tell him to read it later when you're not around. But, you absolutely NEED to tell him. He's hurting and what's a more better remedy than being told your loved by an awesome girl like you? TELL HIM!

He's fine with me having a crush on him, which is all I've told him, but I'm not sure our friendship would be alright with me telling him I love him that way. I've told him I love him before, but I only meant it as a brother. In fact, he's even said the same to me, but he said as the little sister he's always wanted. Anyways, he's even said before, "All the girls I like think of me as a friend, except you. You like me, but I like you as my little sister." I'm positive he doesn't like me back, unless he was lying for some reason I don't know. I'm not sure, but I think telling him I love him will only make our friendship awkward. Yeah, I thought the same with only saying it was a crush, but I think I was just lucky we're so close that a simple crush isn't enough to ruin it. Telling him I love him, on the other hand, may only make things worse. Plus, he loves my friend a lot and he's liked her since the beginning of the year. Even though she's hurt him more than once, he can't get over her. Gahh things are just so complicated now...

Again, I'm not sure. If I think that it won't affect our friendship, then I will tell him my full feelings. I know I have the guts to do it, but it's just losing him that I'm afraid of. I'll consider telling him, and I really appreciate your advice. Thanks!
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