TheComfortCorner | V.9

[LaceWhiskey]

It's hilarious how callous you can be.
How warped your memory is that you blame every single issue on me.
It takes two to argue.
It takes one to end a friendship.

Everyone's memory is a fickle, compassionless device.
I don't claim to know what happened nor do you choose to be concise.
There were more tactful ways to go about it.

We were separated by oceans.
You were a mess of emotions.
And so was I.

I shouldn't have apologised.

[CyberneticVampire]

I seriously question why I'm here. I don't know why everyone forgets about me. Why I'm so invisible. So many people treat me like I don't exist. So why should I exist at all? I feel like I'm just waiting for the next friend to block me for no reason or to stop talking to me forever and act like I don't exist. It seems like no matter what I do I can't get anyone to stay in my life. Why is it always the same? Here I go crying again.. just great. No matter where I go whether it be online or irl no one cares about me or genuinely wants to be my friend. Making friends is so stupid.. I just need to keep telling myself I don't need friends and maybe soon enough I'll believe it. Because trying to talk to people and care about them is worthless. I just shouldn't be here. Everyone would be happy that way.

[crashedOut]

its so funny and cool when my teacher knows damn well shes forcing me to do something thats putting my discomfort and anxiety through the roof and then repeatedly antagonizes me until i start crying trying to make me do more than im mentally able to handle before infantilizing me and implying im acting like a baby and deadnaming me because i left the room to calm down since she wouldnt leave me alone loool im skipping her class for the rest of the year she's a heartless monster
supporting autistic people is so awesome until they show behavior i dont like -her, probably

[Raitza]

My boyfriends uncle passed yesterday, and he's very upset about it, and I don't know what to do to help him. He kept telling me to leave him alone on the phone last night, and to hang up, but I couldn't, so I let him yell, to me, and at me and stayed on the phone for 3 hours until I heard him snoring on the other end. I'm not sure if that was the right thing to do.
I dont know how to help.

If anyone has advice for helping a loved one who's recently lost a family member please help me. I don't know what to do and it hurts so much seeing him in the amount of pain he is feeling. He barely smiled at work today, and when I went to talk to him, he could barely say 5 words to me.

I need advice on how to help him please

Hi!

I'm no way an expert on this, but as someone who's gone through grief and whose loved ones have gone through grief, I would say this: be patient, listen and try to figure out what they need/want.

Grief is different for everyone, some like to truly be left alone so they can process it by themselves, some need comfort and closeness. But what I think all need in a time of grief: time. It sucks when it feels like you can't really do anything to make it better and in a way you really can't, not like time can. But that's okay. In the mean time, just be there. Be there and make them know you are there, available for them if/when they need you.

I think one of the most important things is to figure out what your boyfriend truly needs, do they need someone to listen to them vent or do they need time on their own. You could also try and ask this from them directly. The fact that they didn't hang up the call themselves tells me that it could be just to vent and get the emotions out. (but if it become too hard to you, you should always tell them, don't take more than you can carry).

When someone who's close to you is going through something like this, it's hard for you too. Don't be too hard to yourself either. <3

[viles]

• a what i had assumed to be lighthearted video went into 'what are you doing with your life?' sort of life advice very quickly, and i'm just...aaa i'm not in full breakdown mode bc tbh there's a part of me that doesnt even have the capacity to care. like in a lot of ways i have given up. i've sort of assumed that the most i could hope for my life career-wise is maybe some sort of like bank job. idk but the video did go into the importance of cultivating friendships and putting yourself out there, and that part of the advice did start to get to me. relationships, platonic or otherwise, are the only thing in life i truly care about. everything else feels meaningless. i want to have those connections, but in many ways, i feel like i'm incapable of it. i just...idk. i'm trying not to cry but im very tired and i was not expecting to have to think about these things right now

[screamingrainfrog]

I feel so incredibly weak and tired and I don't know what's wrong with me
I can barely do things I considered easy before
I jokingly chased my brother earlier but got out of breathe wayyy faster then I usually do. I'm not fit by any means but I should feel like I'm dying after such a short sprint.
Idk if I'm physically Ill, not eating properly or something or if my mental health has started affecting me physically
That also reminds me, I've been eating a lot more recently. Like why are you eating more then normal and you are EXTRA tired huh
I hate this body T-T

[rileypillow]

Today was supposed to be a good day but it ended up as just another crap day. Again. I’m so exhausted.

[CultKinitoUwU]

i want to zleep forever

[marciplier]

i feel so lonely

[Cosmonaught]

i cant keep blaming myself. this is all on my mom and the kids at my sisters school. i want to come with her to school for a day to protect her, i feel like i need to.