♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V6♥

[Cinxer]

I feel like such a bad person. I hurt my bf.
Weve been dating for almost a year and weve been having a lot of arguements the last month or so. Today he found out I havent been to work in 3 days because ive had my walet in his car those days. What he doesnt know, what no one knows, is that i never started that job. My first day i didnt show up. I just cant work more fast food.
He figured it out this morning and hes very upset that i lied. Idk how to fix this, he might break up with me. He mentioned it in our last fight and didnt say i love you at the end of our call. We live together. If we break up its going to be hard living together. I understand his feelings and id feel pretty betrayed too if I found out he was lying to me. Idk why i keep lying. Its new for me within the last few months.
Ive been deeply gripped by my depression recently. Been thinking about a lot...

Update: we talked for hours both of us crying. He almost left me but I managed to get him to give me another chance. He said he can't trust me, doesnt look at me the same as when we first started dating, and he doesn't love me the same either. I feel like I'm watching him falling out of love when I still feel as strongly if not more than when we started dating. It hurts so much.

Update again: he broke up with me and wants me out of our place by the end of the weekend 😭 i still love him so much. I didnt think it was that big of a deal.

[espen.]

hhh so i have a crush and he's older than me, which is fine, cause boys at my age are kinda..dumb. he's super duper sweet and I'm pretty sure he's into me, but then all the stupid virus stuff happened. we used to text, but he's been unresponsive since like December, which is really confusing to me. he's I guess joined/training in the air force, which is scary cause I don't want him to get hurt and the whole not talking to me is also confusing. he's talked about his past girlfriends (before the virus) and one of them was super emotionally manipulative, and hearing about that just makes me want to give him a big hug. i really really like him, and I truly want to just make him happy and feel safe, but I don't know what to do. I've invited my friends over, including him, but only three have shown up. my mom thinks its the parents just not telling the kids, and not that they don't wanna hangout with me. uh any help would be nice, I'm very confused. c:

[Sixx O'Clock]

So things didn't work out with the guy I mentioned in my last post. :\ Oh well, easy come easy go...
I've just been focusing on making friends rather than trying to find anyone new.

[Cinxer]

I have a really good friend i met about two years ago and we had a great time as roommates. I know he isnt interested in me romantically nor I him but I might be interested in one of his brothers? 😂 it sounds aweful i know. I dont know any of his family i just know he has brothers. The reason I would like to be with them without knowing them first is because of everything i know about my friend. They are super Christian so we would definitly get married before any intimacy which is ok and they are amazingly generous peoople. They dont believe in physical punishment and are very patient. I just feel like they are everything ive never had in a family and id like to be a part of that.

Any advice on how to ask him if his brothers would be interested?

[komaeda kun]

Not really a question, I just wanted a place I can gush about my boyfriend because I don't really have anybody else I can talk to this about.

We've been dating for 8 months now, and he's my second boyfriend. My ex and I lasted a few months, but he broke up with me for mental health reasons last May. He quickly moved on, though, and was already dating another girl within the month. I, on the other hand, was not ready to move on. I was depressed the entire summer, and when college started back I tried to start dating again to get my mind off him. I met my current boyfriend, and we hit it off immediately. I'm just so glad that I met him. He's introduced me to so many things that he's passionate about (One of those being Danganronpa, thus beginning my addiction) and he's been the best boyfriend I could've asked for.

Have things been perfect? No, of course not. We're both a little stubborn at times, and we butt heads on some things. But we never have huge fights, and we always end up apologizing to each other.

So, in conclusion, I'm just a big simp for him and I love him very much <3 That is all

[tiredofbeingsad]

um so....I met this guy at the beginning of the school year and we instantly got a long really well. We finally started dating about four months ago. Everything is going really well between us, good communication and a good understanding of each other. But, his mom hates me and says a worship..the d3v1l. I don't. Not only is that going on with his mom, but before she said we couldn't be together we..did some stuff we shouldn't have done together.....we were about to tell our parents and then it went crazy and now we aren't sure what to do. We want to honor and respect our parents by telling them and by staying just friends like his mom wants but it's been hard to do so../:

[Sixx O'Clock]

Welp, guess I'm single again. Kinda sucks, but it didn't really seem like we were gonna work out as a couple anyway. Just better off friends.

[ThuggishThighs]

Man I'm in a tough spot right now. I haven't seen my boyfriend in a year now, it's so hard being long distance. I'm worried about our relationship in the coming year, I'm starting in a huge new school and I would just feel so bad if I fell for someone else and still loved him, but couldn't see him. I don't know if the fear is even rational, but it's there. We're both poly but I wouldn't even know how to approach adding someone to our relationship because I wouldn't be comfortable dating someone without him also dating them and liking them and he's the same way. We've been together so long, we're best friends and I love him with all my heart but I can't help but worry about our future since we're long distance. Any advice is appreciated.

[SarcasticLoner]

Just scooching in for a little self-splurge here as I'm not in the right headspace to openly speak about this to anyone in person. I've been friends with this lovely person for coming up to a year now, honestly speaking I got attached rather quickly yet I don't think I was aware of just how severely, according to out mutual friends this was the same on his behalf too. A few weeks ago we did end up getting together and no lie I fell extremely hard. Everything had been going pretty well, the odd spat once or twice generally a result of adjusting to having one another in our lives in a different way than before, but otherwise brilliant. We both struggle mental health wise and both have a history of finding it extremely difficult to open up and be vulnerable to other people which looking back possibly should have been something we should have taken into consideration but it's a bit beyond that now. Rather suddenly around a week ago he notably distanced himself from me and avoided all but the bare minimum of conversation with me, unfortunately this coincided with myself having a mental health crash leading me to do some rather rash bad decisions as I was receiving no support from anyone. Following on from this we've sat and had a few conversations and concluded it would be better for us to just stop things, I won't get into any specific reasonings as after all this is a public site but the base reasoning is we both thought we could handle being in a relationship when in reality neither of us could actually do it. I have nothing bad to say about this person or how we came to be in this situation, he's genuinely been brilliant, I just feel awful as I had genuinely been the happiest I've been in a very long time whilst we we're together. We're currently living in the same household with friends and will be continuing to do so for the foreseeable future, I'm not holding out any hope for anything to re-occur in the future as I've always maintained the mindset of expecting nothing from nobody and just seeing what happens in life. At the end of the day I think I just need to reassure myself neither of us did anything wrong, it just wasn't the right time and the way I'm feeling at the moment is perfectly valid and I will be alright.

[b.umblebee]

alrighty i need some advice. heres a little backstory. so about 6 months ago my friends tried to set me up with this girl who they were friends with. long story short, she said it felt a little forced and didn't want to be w me. that was fine, so since then we've just been friends. I never really got over her. fast forward to about a month ago, me and my best friend started hanging out with her a lot. we're gonna call my best friend C, and the girl i like P. so me and C both picked up a vibe from P. she seemed a little jealous when i would talk about other girls. now, fast forward to 2 nights ago. she invited me over to her other friends house (we're gonna call this friend E) and then their other friend came over. (we will call this friend J) so me, P, E, and J were all drinking some very family friendly juice;) and P, E, and J went to the bathroom together at some point in the night. after this, J told me that P said she was trying to flirt with me, but she didn't think i was getting it. this is funny because i was flirting with P and I did not think she was getting it. so we have established that both me and P have no idea how to flirt. neither of us have ever been in a relationship either. after that night, me and P hung out all day together (alone) and it was rlly fun. but basically what im asking is where do i go from here?? i know im going to have to take the lead because shes kinda shy about it. like this girl has not even had her first kiss. but oh my i like her so much. we have so many shared interests and we can literally talk for hours. but anywaysss if u read all of this tysm, and i would rlly appreciate some flirting advice. also i feel like its worth mentioning we r both wlw. thank you!