TheComfortCorner | V.7

[momincharge]

my flipping website is overwhelming me
with school, therapy, and still being in
my young teen years + a website??
i mean, don't get me wrong, i have
perused my dream of making a website,
but its just,, hard
i keep trying to get more people to join
and then i have to sneak on during class
since i'm an admin but then i'm already
failing grades
and im on my dang period too so this is great-

[revvington]

Why must they bash something I love and enjoy to watch? Just because I like to watch that anime doesn't mean I'm a weeb. Why are you bashing on my favorite characters? I'm sick of it guys. Why won't you stop?

[pebblick]

So one of my friends, let's call her J, just lost her dog. The dog was only less than one year old. So the dog died because J left her pills out. The dog ate the entire thing, but J thinks it's her fault. What should I say to her, because I feel if I don't say anything, J might think I'm not her friend. Please help.

[fika.]

alright, i am absolutely FURIOUS.

this is the fourth time my laptop has done this. it has just magically refreshed, so i lose ALL my replies.

i am so sorry guys but after having the longest day and currently holding back tears from frustration and being upset; i won't be able to reply to the past few pages. this was my second attempt today and both times my laptop has failed me.

the main reason i cannot reply to the pages behind is because my migraine is doing my head-in, i'm aware i shouldn't really be on my laptop but i still have college work to do so i just go on here every ten minutes or so.

if it is urgent and you want a reply, pm me. i would be more than willing to respond; i just can't bring myself to have the mental energy to reply to the last few pages for the third time in one day. i feel like i've let you all down, i am so so sorry.

i've never been so upset over not being able to respond. i hope these links are of some help for those who need help in this exact moment.

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to help you smile:
list of little things - list of little things to help make you smile and be happy
cutest - cutest tumblr to help with your self esteem
smile things - cute colours and tumblr page to help you out
adorable - basically another tumblr that does the same as the ones above

to help you with anything else / distractions:
emergency compliments - if you ever feel poo, and nothing seems to cheer you up, this site is full of 'emergency compliments' which can make you laugh at how ridiculously brilliant they are.
automatic flatterer - you know what's cute about this? you put in your name, nickname, whatever (it doesn't save it) and it pays you compliment after compliment after compliment. it's the cutest idea ever.
the dawn room - do what it says. after doing that, loads of encouraging messages will come your way!
hugs - hugs is all i have to say.
thunderstorms - control them!<3
beautiful places - if you're looking for a sign, this is it. set a goal to visit one of these places. don't change that goal. you won't regret it.
how to change your life - just read it. it's amazing. too good.
player two - if you're feeling hurt or upset, visit here. it's a game. it's good.
koalas - if you're in need of a distraction that lasts a good five minutes, play this. it's fun, and if you love koalas it's even better!
stick man game - good distraction with a hopefuly message i made at the end!
just say yes - this blog was made by zoella and good for anyone who suffer with anxiety disorder, have panic attacks, depression, have social anxiety or are just a very negative or shy person this may be good for you!
random acts of kindness (video) - may make you feel all warm and gooey at how kind people are
list of things for those having a bad day!
more bad day remedies - is similar to the one above
how to love yourself - if you struggle with self esteem, pleasep lease read <3
quiet room - one of my favourite places <3
comfort box - i highly recommend looking at this because it's the most amazing idea i've ever seen
ground box - similar to the one above

to help you with panic attacks:
i have loads of things that can help with your anxiety and panic attacks.

facts !!!!:
what not to say !!! - to someone who is having a panic attack, do not say these things
facts- if you're confused about a few things

i've also made a tumblr! you can message me anonomysouly on there for advice if you don't want to post here. i also will start reblogging things (nothing triggering or sad !) so if you ever need someone, you can go to me on there! http://happinesscomeswithnoregrets.tumblr.com/

[illusion.]

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[Shoe.]

i’m so tired and annoyed my head feels like it’s going to explode.
my friend comes over, wants to sit so close to me he might as well be on top of me, rummage through my stuff, snores LOUDLY as i’m trying to sleep at 3 am and he KNOWS i have to be up early to babysit on weekdays (i wake up and he’s sleeping quiet as a lamb, he did that on purpose i know he did), and gets mad at me when i call him a jerk for disrespecting my stuff?!
my personal space is feeling extremely invaded, he can’t be alone for 2 seconds. i tried to distract him with drawing- which he doesn’t even take my advice on (i said it would be better to use the real pencil than the mechanical pencil and he’s like “i can only draw in mechanical pencil”- are you stupid???)
like i get it, i don’t want to be alone ALL the time but PLEASE give me 3 hours to just draw something and relax a little!! and don’t ask me what i want to do if you’re not going to let me do it!!!
like yeah we can talk about your art but i don’t want to see it every 20 minutes because you added a tentacle to your jellyfish and you don’t know what color and oh blah blah blah! i like to see progress pics but i don’t want to have a 10 minute conversation about it every single time you decide to show me your progress. personally, i dont like to show my progress to anybody, but that didn’t stop him from being a huge distraction.
and OMG he’s just like a fly!!! he started to walk over to me so he could see what i was drawing so i quickly changed it to a blank canvas and scribbled something on it, he makes it over to me and HOVERS OVER MY SHOULDER, shoo fly don’t bother me!!, and i start adding detail to my scribble like a zentangle, and he’s like “turn it into a bear” i’m like NO IT IS A CLOWN. i will NOT change my ideas for anybody.
i appreciate you love me, i’m a good friend, but PLEASE acknowledge i am another human being and i you push me i WILL snap at/on you.
not to mention i went to the city last night to see my friend Ari and he makes her buy him 3 drinks out of all her money. he tries to offer me a drink after he takes a sip out of all of them, I DON’T WANT TO DRINK AFTER ANYBODY YOU DENSE POLYGON
OH, and he convinced me to leave via guilt trip, which i absolutely HATE, and i don’t have a key to the house so we ended up leaving at 10:30 pm leaving the door UNLOCKED and me KNOWING a homeless person has been sleeping behind the garages- the only thing that calmed me down was thinking “nobody is keeping the house safe” WHICH DOESN’T EVEN MAKE SENSE, but i had to believe in it.
AND ANOTHER THING WHILE I’M AT IT, we went out to get cigarettes and he gets disgusting Marlboro blacks and i get Camel No. 9 Menthols. he asks me for a HECKING MENTHOL after making fun of me for MONTHS for smoking menthols because “it tastes like a damn candy cane” so of course i’m like “no smoke your own cigarettes that you JUST got!” he’s like “but i want a menthol” i’m like “NO i am not sharing with you” and he gets mad!!!! like i don’t share everything else with him!!!!!!
he NEVER says thank you, and when someone gives him something he treats them like a tool.
maybe real life friends just aren’t for me, i like the online ones cause you can turn them off and on at any time, and they don’t constantly need your attention.

and i just remembered, i had an ash can in the shed and i told my friend Not to pour it into the bucket because that can has liquid in it, and he starts pouring it in and i said STOP and he continues to pour it out. why doesn’t anybody know what no means??????

oh, and he starts playing with my stuffed animals without even asking for permission, he asked me what one of their names are and i told him and he’s like “no that’s a dumb name” i just, UGH

[cornspurrd.]

i wish i had friends oop

[drift.]

please dont quote or reply to this unless you are willing to do so through pm's/ it just irritates me c:

one of old best friends just wrecked his bike and now i'm in the hospital watching his condition slowly fall downhill..
he's in a coma and they think he injured his neck. His face is a mess to the extent where i can't even recognize him.
i don't know what to do.. even though he's put me through some crappy things i still care for his wellbeing,
and i can't help but think it's my fault somehow...

[vampz]

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[tenor]

i could just use a lil hug