TheComfortCorner | v.6

[8Ball]

I'm tired of people with no manners
They just literally snatch something out of my hands without a "thank you" or anything

Yea, I understand ya ☆αℓρнαƒιяєωⓞℓƒ☆. Some people will accept/send trades without saying anything. It can be annoying at times, but that person may be in a tight spot. They could have lots of trades that they need to accept. Or they might only have enough time to send/accept a trade without being able to write a message. It can be aggravating at times, but I've learned to just keep a positive attitude and try to always be friendly!

Hope that helps!


If your going through a rough time and need someone to talk to, feel free to PM me! I would love to help you in every way I can!

[SilentMelody]

i need help. i'm so underweight and everything i try to do to gain weight isn't working. and the worst thing is that my brother and my mother eat all of the food in the house, so nothing is really left for my father and i. i mean, my dad is healthy, and he's a doctor, so he can take care of himself, but what about me? i don't really have enough money to buy food for myself or even lunch at school, and i know my mother won't buy any food for me unless it's for the family too. sometimes my friends will give me food for lunch, but i know i shouldn't take it because it's their's and they're hungry too. i currently weigh about 89 pounds (i'm not even kidding, i just weighed myself), and i'm always hungry, no matter how much i eat. i'm so skinny that i look like a skeleton, and i hate it. everyone at school calls me flat and nobody likes me because everyone wants a girl who has some flesh on them. i'm only skin and bones, and i'm sick of it.

[My Immortal]

My mother keeps mentioning sending me to a group home when I turn 18. Which in some ways sounds great... But I don't want to leave behind me dog and cat. Idk what to do. I am so stressed.

[Arya22]

My mother keeps mentioning sending me to a group home when I turn 18. Which in some ways sounds great... But I don't want to leave behind me dog and cat. Idk what to do. I am so stressed.

Maybe you can ask your mum to find one where they accept pets? I know there's a few of those.

[OKULTRA]

I hate 2017 already. I miss my dog so much. I want her back.

[agent 48]

Stop controlling my every move, parents. It's annoying and unnecessary. What did I ever do to make you distrust me so much? Geez.

You don't even have a good reason for it, do you? It isn't for 'safety.'

I know more than you think. I'm not five anymore, So why don't you trust me to do things on my own? I can't even leave the house to hang out with my friends. I can't access my phone to contact so you have no other reason to scream at me other than the fact that you're upset because of some outside reason. Stop it, I'll read my books instead. What are you gonna do now? Ground me off of reading? You tried to before, guess what? There's this thing called a library where I will start to go to. And you cannot stop me. I'm tired of having my life planned out just because. I'm not going to be able to do things on my own if you continue, so there is no reason other than being controlling.

[LokiToons]

Well... mental breakdown again tonight. I'm just gonna rattle some things off to get them out of my unspoken mind.

First of all.. my parents are concerned about me, my face I mean. Everytime I have a breakout they threaten to drag me to the dermatologist to put me on pills, medication creams, and more to stop it, however in the car my mom told me they were considering putting me on acutane. One of the strongest acne medications around. It would be fine but... I don't do pills. I can't do pills, not even as big as a pencil eraser. These are pills that are big, fat and hefty. If I had to take them I can't chew or crush and mix them in something. Another thing is, this medication comes with all sorts of problems so Id have to go in every few weeks for a blood test, and not a fan of needles either. It's just so much for something. Sure it might help but really? I'm scared to death. I have to find a way to clear up my face or they are gonna kill me with pill shoving and blood tests...

Second thing. I have a history of depression. It was doing fine last year, thanks to a lover that was my everything.. they made me feel good for once in my life. Well they are gone. Cut ties with me and going on five months I'm just as hurt and disappointed as when it happened. I'll break down when I hear songs, when I'm alone in a room that I recall a certain word or phrase was exchanged to them, when I wake up and remember that Im missing them. I've tried so very hard. Led myself on that they would come back... but each day I go to bed with a tear rolling down my cheek knowing I have to wake up and hope again to just do this.. I'm in a world of silence from them. No point in trying. I feel terrible for still caring. Guilty for still wanting to talk to them because I feel like I should be just as ignorant. My depression has come in again. Strong, proud, and persistent. I'll be fine and then recall something and absolutely lose it. I don't know.

Thirdly, I think I screwed up with this new friend of mine. I was liking them and then... they don't greet me, talk to me, really see me like a person anymore and I'm really bummed. Also, my other friend I like, I believe has come out to another friend of mine and they are dating. Hurts to see them together. But I'm happy for em. Must be fun. Why do I ruin things?

Fourth, my current friends are no longer fun to hang around. I'm bored. Being alone sounds better than having to sit with my 'best friend' and listening to the same dang playlist everyday off their phone while they sit there and degrade me until I can just tune them out and stare at the ground. Thank you. You're such a great person. No idea how much you've made me hate myself.

Dull, pointless rant. Think I'll try to sleep now... if I can.
-Brønes

[Light Bringer]

Stop controlling my every move, parents. It's annoying and unnecessary. What did I ever do to make you distrust me so much? Geez.

You don't even have a good reason for it, do you? It isn't for 'safety.'

I know more than you think. I'm not five anymore, So why don't you trust me to do things on my own? I can't even leave the house to hang out with my friends. I can't access my phone to contact so you have no other reason to scream at me other than the fact that you're upset because of some outside reason. Stop it, I'll read my books instead. What are you gonna do now? Ground me off of reading? You tried to before, guess what? There's this thing called a library where I will start to go to. And you cannot stop me. I'm tired of having my life planned out just because. I'm not going to be able to do things on my own if you continue, so there is no reason other than being controlling.

Oh this sounds like what i just wrote in my diary. My mum does stuff like that. If you ever want to talk to (or rant to) another person feel free to shoot me a pm.



It feels like the only person that doesnt have a say in my future boyfriend/husband, or when i get married, or if i have kids, or when i have kids is me. My dad says i need to have kids, he wants my boyfriend to be like he wants him, my parents dont want me to date anyone till im in my 20s, they dont want me to have kids till im in my 30s. Whats wrong with me not wanting kids?! Ive been put off having kids because im more of a mother for my 4 year old brother (the age difference is between 8-12 years) than our actual mother. He listens to me more than her. He takes after me. And im not allowed to go to my friends place for a couple of hours because im busy 'playing' with my brother. I feel like a mother, ive been told i act like a mother. He drives me nuts when he doesnt listen, sometimes i just break down i lock myself in my room and i just break down. I have been put off children. I have my own life. I associate kids with stress and i associate marriage with fighting. Why cant i see the positives in those things?

[grapebats]

Lately, my dad and I have really not been getting along

Usually he's my favorite parent and we don't ever fight or anything, but awhile ago (like maybe a month or so ago) our apartments started hounding us because we were behind on the rent and started threatening to kick us out and ever since then my dad has been stressed and we're having insurance problems so he's off of his anxiety/depression medicine and that isn't helping at all

Now it feels like every single time we talk to each other he gets mad at me, or he just approaches me BECAUSE he's mad at me

It's making my life genuinely miserable. I've cried more times in the past month than I have in so long. Usually, I'm on medicine too, but I haven't been in awhile either, so I'm already generally depressed and stressed out too but my dad suddenly snapping at me all the time when we usually get along fine is making it 10x worse

So to sum it up, there's a possibility I'll get kicked out of my home, I'm depressed for every reason under the sun, and my dad loves to treat me like every bad thing in the world is 100% my fault every single day

[друг]

My art teacher hates me and wants to give me a six (which is basically the american c or d.) This is fine. :>

+ if I tell any other staff how unfairly I'm being treated, she'd definitely give me a 4 (an f) if she found out.

that really sucks. i know you said you may get abad grade if you told staff but i think you should at least speak to a counselor. just because they have bad feelings about you doesnt mean you deserve a bad grade and im sure that can be changed. im guessing you live with your parents or something, so id give them a headsup? i apologize if im wrong, im not sure. im sorry if this isnt very helpful but im hoping things work out for you!

Ye, I chatted with my mom about this and she looked pretty angry and confused about why this is happening. I haven't been able to tell her everything though, I didn't tell her about that time when the art teacher started yelling at me in the school hallway until I was on the verge of tears. It really sucked. I'm on my last year of Finnish primary (or middle school I have no idea what it is called?) and even though I haven't planned on continuing in art, it still feels bad if some option gets ruled out just because a teacher dislikes me.. I just really don't want to end up in some conversations and meetings about this because when something like this happens, it's a big deal and my mental health isn't okay with ending up in the middle of some mess.