TheComfortCorner | v.6

[mabel.]

I want to scream.
I met this guy I met on an online dating app about a week ago and we've been talking every day since. I figured he'd ask me out eventually, and at this point in the conversation it just feels right for someone to ask someone out for coffee or something, but nothing of the sort is happening.
Curse my anxiety that prevents me from asking it myself. .-.

First off, congratulations. It seems like you've met someone who you can easily talk to, which is good, considering you met over a dating app. There are quite a few possibilities why he hasn't asked yet, perhaps you should give him a hint? Or you could just ask him yourself and face your fears. He could be having the same thoughts and anxiety, so you need to see it from his side. I say face your fear and just ask him. If he says no, don't take it personally, he's just not the right guy. There are plenty others out there who would be more than happy to have coffee with you. If he isn't one of them, don't waste your time on him. Anyways, I wish you well on whatever happens.

a little less a day and she packs a lunchbag with perfectly healthy food and she pushes it away
and says 'ew this is so unhealthy and fattening'

girl how are blueberries unhealthy
makes me feel really good knowing that i'm sitting next to you eating blueberries lol.

i just
i try really hard to loose weight and for you to kinda make fun of fat people by saying you need to loose weight hurts

sorry if this makes no sense but yeah;;

It makes sense, I can see why you might get frustrated, even jealous. But there's no reason to put yourself down because of your weight. Life isn't about weight or being "fat" or "skinny". If anything, life is not anything related to that. Also, the numbers on the scale? You are worth more than those numbers. Don't let people that are healthy get to you. Instead, try to be more like them. I'm not saying you should go on a risky diet just to loose a few pounds. You could try to eat healthier and less, but not to the point that it makes you dangerous underweight or underweight in general. You should be happy with your body just the way it is because it's perfect, unique, beautiful, just like you. If anyone else says otherwise they're completely wrong and not worth worrying over. Also, instead of just trying to focus on the eating, be sure that you drink plenty of water and exercise. Perhaps try out for some sports. I'm involved in many sports and I'm very healthy, so I would suggest running or anything of that type. If your school has sports, that's even better. Try exercising with a friend for competition.

Well look at that. It's flooding. Great.
And what else? Trees are falling.
I'm scared.

Stay safe. Stay indoors. Things will turn out alright in the end.

[Planet Karma]

I've had a day.
I'm torn between my family a state away and my home here I built with my boyfriend.
My family needs me but so does he.
This stress...ughhhhhh...

And i'm starving and tired. Not helping.

...and I totally forgot to feed the cat. He's eating cold food I feel so bad.

[mabel.]

I've had a day.
I'm torn between my family a state away and my home here I built with my boyfriend.
My family needs me but so does he.
This stress...ughhhhhh...

And i'm starving and tired. Not helping.

...and I totally forgot to feed the cat. He's eating cold food I feel so bad.

Don't think about who needs you, think about what you need. Think about what you want. Think about how your choice will affect them and what's best for all of you together. Oh, and go feed your poor cat if you can. Then yourself. Decisions are hard to make sometimes, but in the end it's the choices that define who we are. Who are you? What's your decision? Choose wisely, take all of the time you need, and I'm sure that your friends and family will understand. If they don't, that's nothing you can really change, and I know you will have the judgement to not let it get to you.

[Thalassic]

I just wish someone loved me
is that too much to ask?

I guess it is huh

[storm coming.]

if you need to vent, go ahead and shoot me over a pm please! i hope you guys have a nice day!

I just wish someone loved me
is that too much to ask?

to the above post, are you saying that because no one replied? if that's the case, please do keep in mind that your post was most likely overlooked. it was at the bottom of a page a few pages back. but that doesn't mean it's too much to ask for. i understand, so so so much. i'm sure your friends and family love you, and you'll find love someday. someone out there is thinking the same thing as you, possible the one that's meant to be with you, and you'll find each other someday. don't loose hope. as for friendship and family love, your friends love you very much. i know this because if they are your true friends then that friendship is based on your guy's love. so please don't think otherwise, people do love you, even if it doesn't seem like it at times.

[snubbulls]

I'm really upset. My parents are making me go to a bible study even though they know I'm not religious. I don't have anything against religious people, I just would prefer not to go. I've only ever had some pretty bad experiences with religion, though. I dunno, I just really don't want to go, and I'm also just nervous about having to present myself differently. My mom would be disappointed if I acted the same there as I do everywhere else. (I apparently act very gay.)
I don't mean to offend anyone with this, if I do, I'm super sorry!

[storm coming.]

I'm really upset. My parents are making me go to a bible study even though they know I'm not religious. I don't have anything against religious people, I just would prefer not to go. I've only ever had some pretty bad experiences with religion, though. I dunno, I just really don't want to go, and I'm also just nervous about having to present myself differently. My mom would be disappointed if I acted the same there as I do everywhere else. (I apparently act very gay.)
I don't mean to offend anyone with this, if I do, I'm super sorry!

here, think of it this way; someday you won't have to live under your parents house and you can make whatever decisions you please. i know it's unfair for them to tell you what to do, especially when it comes to your personal beliefs, but you sort of have to listen to them. i mean, you can try and talk your way out of it by explaining how you feel about it. if all else fails, pretend to be sick. ONLY if things fail, though, should you attempt to do that. "gay" is not an action, and i don't think it's cool for anyone to tell you it is. gay people's actions are no different than the next person's. anyways, your actions make you who you are and if people are disappointed by who you are then they aren't worth the wait or worrying about.

[Unleashed Squiid]

I'm in the waiting room as my best friend has potentially life saving surgery. She has a heart problem and it was triggered as I was at her house. It went over 220 beats per minute.

I am terrified.

[storm coming.]

I'm in the waiting room as my best friend has potentially life saving surgery. She has a heart problem and it was triggered as I was at her house. It went over 220 beats per minute.

I am terrified.

oh no, i hope your best friend is doing okay. she's in safe hands, let's just hope that everything turns out alright. if you need someone to talk to feel free to pm me. it's okay to be terrified, i am terrified too, and i don't even know her. please don't focus your mind on it too much, i don't want you to end up in the same situation or anything of that such. stay calm, maybe try focusing your mind on something else by doing something you enjoy. i'm really sorry that your friend and yourself are in this situation, i hope things do turn out okay <3 if you ever need to talk to someone, i'm here.

[d o e]

Just venting guys, no need to reply, but I always appreciate the thought <3

Kind of upset, I guess. I've been very excited this week and things aren't happening like I expected them to. Feeling...sort of ignored by a multitude of people, which I guess makes it even worse. Ahhh.