♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

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i might be sick to my stomach. a guy(who apparently just sucked up the courage to ask me out) has been texting me and just now told me what he'd like to "do to me". i told him i felt like that wasn't something i should be doing, especially with someone i don't really know, and i feel like he's going to take it personally. maybe he should. that's messed up.

why are there so many guys in my life?? :l

(to read click quote, if even that.)

Aw time your take, it's okay ^^"
I know it's scary but if you need anything I'm here

[Karia]

Can I have some advice?

So, I have this crush on a guy named A. I've posted about him before. I feel like my happiness depends on him. If he talks to me, I'm happy. If he doesn't, I'm not. I was also like that with my last (and first) crush, but that one was way more dependent. I keep saying to myself that I don't need him to be happy, and to remember I have friends and stuff.

How can I stop being like that?

[Dill]

Can I have some advice?

So, I have this crush on a guy named A. I've posted about him before. I feel like my happiness depends on him. If he talks to me, I'm happy. If he doesn't, I'm not. I was also like that with my last (and first) crush, but that one was way more dependent. I keep saying to myself that I don't need him to be happy, and to remember I have friends and stuff.

How can I stop being like that?

Ohmigod I know exactly what you are going through. There's a guy that I sorta kinda like (idk) and when he texts me I am this super happy person, but if he doesn't I'm irritable and miserable, and I hate that I'm not able to control my emotions over a stupid guy.
You have two major options that I can think of. First, actually try to date him. Tell him you like him, and see how he responds; who knows he may like you back too and away happy endings! If you don't want to be with him or even like him anymore, I would recommend try spending less time with him. Think of him just as a friend don't tempt yourself by talking to him as much.
I don't know how much help this is, but feel free to pm me and rant if you like I'll always listen





EDIT:
So this issue just came up today, well peaked today and it's more about my friends. Two of my friends are a thing, the girl I have known for quite a while, but we aren't the the best of friends anymore, and the guy and I have known each other for a while but haven't really been friends until last school year, but we are really good friends now. I say they are a thing because it's just kinda a mess; everyone has acknowledged essentially that they are dating, but the guy refuses to make it official because in the fall they are going to different schools and he doesn't want to wreck their friendship, and privately told me he wants to talk to her about it. However, the girl has told me privately that she wants to officially ask him out in this big elaborate way, and that's where I don't know what to do. I don't really want to do anything because it's not really my business or problem, but I can't help but imagine how awfully it would go down because she is a bit of a dramatic person, and I would love to prevent that, but idk. The whole situation is a wreck.

[Blueberry]

Guys... I'm trying to break up with my boyfriend and it is going down hill. Fast. I'm trying to be calm and explain why I don't want to be with him anymore but it's not working... Any advise?

[Karia]

Okay, I'm back from school and this happened (btw I read the replies to my previous post, thank you!).

A and I were at the teacher's table during art class, because we had to put our (rather bad) artwork there. I was standing there for a while, not wanting to put mine there because it looked really bad. Like, really really bad. He noticed me and asked,"Can I see your artwork? It's nice what." Then, I flashed it towards him and he answered,"It sucks, like your face."

He was kinda smiling at the time, but I have no idea if he's doing it just to make me a little mad or that it's his true personal opinion. I'm the type of person that looks good only when their hair's let down (even other people think so), but he's seen me with it let down. I asked my friend about it and she was like,"Don't take him seriously, just treat it like he said some stupid thing." He's kind of a joker, one of the troublemaking boys in the class.

Another thing:
I've caught him maybe looking at me, and he even walked towards me to show me something today.

[mossmuttz]

its hard to tell a girl you like her, and I'm really struggling right now.
she's older and i don't know what to do, how do i say? i need help.

[Keletheryl]

its hard to tell a girl you like her, and I'm really struggling right now.
she's older and i don't know what to do, how do i say? i need help.

someone please give me advice on how to tell her ;-;

Honestly, all you can do is tell her. I know rejection seems like a huge scary thing but it really isn't. Plus, what if she says she likes you back? You've been sitting there worrying about trying to tell her that you wouldn't have even knows. And if by some chance she does reject you, so what? There's billions of humans on the earth, and it's not impossible or even that hard to find somebody else in your future who will like you back.

[.headrush.]

That feeling when your single and you lay in bed with a stuffed toy and hug the loneliness out of it, hoping it will turn into a person that you love.

[Elix]

Hey

I think i got myself in a complicated situation. So i would like some advice. Thank you . So one of my close friends ( iam gonna call her A) has this brother. And she hates him, not just the occasional hate that most siblings have but really can't stand her brother. And i have a huge crush on him. He is so sweet and really smart and he is the only one i can really have a discussion with withou actually getting mad at eachother. I love it. Whenever i hang out with A i see him but she always comes up with an excuse for leaving so we don't have to be in the same room as him. I am so afraid that she will hate me when i tell her i like her brother. And iam afraid that she will do everything to make sure i don't get to talk to him anymore.

Thank you so much for anyone who responds.

[Keletheryl]

Perks of having a boyfriend with good money:
I lost my job and have been having a lot of troubles finding a new one. I'm on Employement Insurance (so I get paid every two weeks by them) but $500 every two weeks isn't really enough.. I just got about $400 from my boyfriend to use for my car insurance and gas <3
(Don't worry, he's getting paid back after I get paid again on Tuesday lol).

But I just find it so wonderful that he's even willing to do that for me... there's a lot of people out there who wouldn't give somebody $400 and wait 4 days to get it back. I'm so thankful.