boodles wrote:@ Transkitty; that's really good advice and some of it I've already been working at, like associating them with good things (the shower of treats) and swapping things like blankets and litter boxes. The main problem, however, is that my apartment is quite small to separate them completely for a long period of time, to do that, one would have to be permanently locked in the bathroom, which I don't really think is a fair experience, especially for the new kitten. Also, it's just me, so trying to move them about the house by myself without allowing them to see each other would be a problem. Also, Slate is good aggressive like a dog, my feline canine lol. I think those would be great steps if I had more space/help, but I just don't.
Well it also wouldn't be fair for the new kitten to get hurt because the introduction was forced to go faster than the pace the cats need.
I also live in a tiny apartment, but my bedroom has a door. Would you not be able to keep Lucifer in your room during the transition? Also, I think I phrased it wrong! You can let them see each other when you're site swapping, just don't let them come into physical contact with each other. Having one in a cat carrier is good for this, especially since you'd be doing it alone.