by PuddlebyOnTheMarsh » Fri Oct 16, 2015 1:22 pm
Helen had such a hard time in her young life that I wanted to just let her relax and get comfortable with her new surroundings and the rest of the herd before I even approached her. The day she was brought to my farm, I had the agency just release her in the pasture. As soon as they slipped off the lead rope she disappeared over the ridge. I wasn't worried about her getting out because I had spent the previous week riding the perimeter fence and everything checked out fine. They said she had calmed down at the foster farm but I guess the abrupt change of location had upset her. I didn't even see her for the first few days. Then she started coming in with the herd at feeding time but hung way back till I had left. After a few weeks, she finally came all the way up to the barn but managed to be elsewhere if I moved even slightly in her direction. With a great deal of persistence and patience though, I finally won her over.
To begin with, I didn't even look at her. I pretended she didn't exist. I'd pet, feed and play with everyone else. Day by day she ran away less and started to get curious as to why the others seemed to like me. Finally the day came when she was only about 6 feet away and I was passing out treats. I threw a baby carrot so it landed about halfway between us and she started away for a moment so Skhiz snapped it up and looked at the young mare as if to say, "you're afraid of a carrot?" then turned her back on the newcomer to see what else I had to give. I handed out a few more assorted treats then carefully tossed a cheese cube toward Helen. This time she stretched out her neck, sniffed briefly and snapped up the snack before anyone else had a chance. I gave her an equal share of the remaining goodies but she never quite came close enough to hand feed her. The days passed and I finally could look straight at her without any reaction then I moved to the next step. I made a point to be near her as much as possible, still mostly ignoring her up close. I'd reach past her to pet another Nera, or to pick a wayward stick out of ear fluff. From time to time I lightly brushed against her in the process. Once she was totally accustom to this, I increased the contact time. It took over a month but I finally reached the day I got to rub the ears of this cutie and she enjoyed it as much as I did.