TheComfortCorner | v.6

[Xaeli]

pm please, if you're brave enough

[rainbowwrowell]

My next door neighbor is mean! She hates me and makes sure I'll have nobody! I'm a scout ad I love it but I miss out on so much not many people play with me! My ex boyfriend got together with her and made things miles worse. Everyone knows how the two treat me but can't get involved on the bases they don't live around me and we aren't in the one school! So she got away with it. My mam and dad won't help, I need to deal with it myself. I always fight my corner and always will! I'm a fighter and happy to be. Im confident enough to go out there and say my mind. But it won't help right now. I feel like I should hide inside and never leave

[.-Tired-.]

Okay.
I'm nervous!
It's today!
And in less than three hours!
This interview is literally going to change my life!
Halp!
I'm so scareddd!
Okay...
I need to calm down
And take a deep breath...
Not really helping....
can someone give me some tips on how to calm down?
And fast-ish? (sorry if I sound rude! I don't mean to be!)
Ahh,
I'm so scared!
This is literally deciding my future practically!
I want to get into that secondary school so bad!
Ah! I don't want to mess up!

[Arya22]

Okay.
I'm nervous!
It's today!
And in less than three hours!
This interview is literally going to change my life!
Halp!
I'm so scareddd!
Okay...
I need to calm down
And take a deep breath...
Not really helping....
can someone give me some tips on how to calm down?
And fast-ish? (sorry if I sound rude! I don't mean to be!)
Ahh,
I'm so scared!
This is literally deciding my future practically!
I want to get into that secondary school so bad!
Ah! I don't want to mess up!

I think everyone went through at least one nerve-racking interview in their life! One thing I do to calm down, is (and if you knew me, you'd say: of course) read a book, something you like, and get lost in it. You might not have the time, so if not you can remember funny stories that happened not long ago to try and relax. The worst thing at an interview is to be too scared to do much. But how I remember it is that usually people are really nice and make you as comfortable as you can get when you're deciding your future!
Yes, I think the best thing I could say is to try and smile or laugh about something, then think back to the funny thing during the interview too. To relax!
Good luck!

[*Infinity*]

My next door neighbor is mean! She hates me and makes sure I'll have nobody! I'm a scout ad I love it but I miss out on so much not many people play with me! My ex boyfriend got together with her and made things miles worse. Everyone knows how the two treat me but can't get involved on the bases they don't live around me and we aren't in the one school! So she got away with it. My mam and dad won't help, I need to deal with it myself. I always fight my corner and always will! I'm a fighter and happy to be. Im confident enough to go out there and say my mind. But it won't help right now. I feel like I should hide inside and never leave

Okay, first off, ignore her.

This has been reposted *alot*, so I can tell it's really bugging you, but ignore her. Just because she lives next door to you, doesn't mean you have to interact with her. Where I live, I recognize my neighbors by sight, but that's about it. I don't talk to them except to wave and say hi on occasion.

Second, if your boyfriends are hooking up with her, then obviously they are not the guys for you. Period. You should be thankful that she helped show their true colors before you got really serious with these guys. A good boyfriend/girlfriend/bestfriend will stick by you no matter what. It won't even cross their mind to betray you.

Third, talk about your fears with your current boyfriend. Tell him what's going on. If you can't be honest with him, who can you be honest with? Besides, it's only fair for him to know this is happening, instead of being kept in the dark.

Fourth, you say "everyone knows" how you are being treated, but do they really? Do they know how it's affecting you, or do they just see the "mean girl" vs. the "scrapper"? I know you say you fight your own fights, but have you tried letting someone else fight for you? Or with you? Everyone deserves a champion. Who is yours?

Fifth, this has been going on for some time, now. What have you been doing about it? It you let the situation continue, and to fester, you are only hurting yourself. Please don't hurt yourself! Take action! Try some new strategies! You deserve it for you, after all...

Okay so I think it's been clearly established that they care for me in some way, even if it's only the faintest recognition of fondness. Maybe thy don't even notice it themselves yet. Maybe in their mind they still consider me as a friend. Eh, maybe it's better that way. I mean, we have a laugh and tease one another but when it gets down to it, we really don't have much in common. We both play and sing. I want to know more about them, I just find them fascinating and so lovely. I'd love to know what makes them tick. But I guess that's what infatuation does to you, eh?

And yeah, maybe they feel the same. Maybe they admire some of my qualities too. But, in the end, stuff like being kind and having a sense of humour you can find in many people. I'm nothing special. I really don't get what they see in me at all. I have this terrible feeling that if it ever got to the point we started dating it wouldn't get very far. It would quite obviously crash and burn. I have nothing that could be considered any more than friend material and I'm not even a good friend half of the time. I could never be anyone's 'the one'. I'm no good, okay? You could do so much better. Stop wasting your time with me.

Let me tell you something about love - it is usually one-sided. When you do get someone who can return even a small amount to you, you have found something special. If you both have this feeling, then obviously you are special!!

My first real relationship lasted just over 5 years - honestly, that was pretty good. We never officially dated, we just were. And it was beautiful (until it wasn't, but that's for another story).

You can just be, and be in love with them, and if they love you in return, that's amazing! Accept it for what it is! If you believe that you are not good enough, and not worthy, but they really like you, what are you saying about this amazing person? That they are flawed? No! They see through you, and see the diamond within! Let them help you shine!

But first, you gotta stop putting yourself down and trying to convince yourself that you are not worthy of love! You are! Just let them show you this!

[silky.moth.is.gone]

Literally I can't go anywhere in school without someone insulting me or calling me a tranny. It's getting to me badly, and I just don't understand why everyone hates me, I get it I'm the new kid but seriously...

[Imabox]

I usually post on here to help people, but for the first time I feel the need to post for myself.
I'm shaking..
I'm scared. Oh I'm so very scared. I don't want to be here. I'm so disappointed with our Country and so scared of how the world is going to view us now. I mean we had strong views against us before, but now...

It's only been a week...and already some of the worst case scenarios are happening. I'm so sorry...I'm so scared...

[makima]

i'm really mad right now. i have been planning on making the new version of a thread for weeks because it was close to the 900 page mark. since it was so close today, i was just about to post it when someone made it before me. it sounds like a silly thing to get mad at, but i'm really emotional, and get really mad at these things. i tried to stay positive about it, but now it's crushing me even more

[Swishy & Broken]

I know this is dumb, so very dumb

But my boyfriend was going to come over. And his mom asked if my mom was home (she never asks that) so I had to answer the door to a hard-working lady who hardly gets English and lie to her. And she didn't get it, so I had to "go get my mom" even though she's not home until 6 pm, which is 2 hours from now. And I had to go back and explain that "she's asleep" and "her friend is borrowing the car". But she only understood the asleep part and .. I feel so bad... She probably thinks I'm a really bad liar and I'm just trying to hang out with her son alone. I feel so bad for lying, and I can't tell her I lied or else she might never let me see him again. And now I can hardly ever see my boyfriend because shell ask every time now, and she doesn't allow him to leave the house to hang out past 5. So I just... I was really hoping he could explain my math work too, so now I have the stress of having to figure it out,dealing with being a liar,and hardly ever seeing him outside of school [we don't even have a class together, he's in other courses than my own].

And I still feel bad, I still feel like I hurt her feelings somehow. I refuse to hang out with him at all when my mom isn't home anymore bc he'll just be in trouble. My mother is literally two houses over but I feel so terrible, I don't want to ruin her fun just so I can have him over. I don't think I can ever really hang out with him again honestly, and my heart hurts. I can't let him get in trouble, I can't bother my mom (she's yelled at me every single time I go to get her for something in the past), and I can't do anything to make the situation any better. I've made a mess of everything.

Also, some mic. info : We've been dating over a year, and he's been able to come over to my house before while my mom wasn't home. His mother doesn't speak English, so talking to her won't help. His father is always at work, so I can't talk to him. And my father lives about 300 miles away, so he can't be of any help either.

[.zombie]

i feel so dead inside.. id appreciate a pm