username;
waffle02
name;
Gwendolyn
gender;
Female
what keeps them calm?;
"Let's get this straight. No matter how much of a calm, cool, and collected composure I exude I truly am never calm.
I repeat, I am never calm.
Now matter how relaxed and chill I may appear to be I am a continuously ticking chiming alarming fuse that could ignite and blow at any second. Now that that's out of the way I will tell you why everyone seems to think that I am this prolific example of grace and serenity. That's because I'm good at acting. Society requires most people to contain themselves within these tight and constricting bubbles known 'standards'. While many people tend to believe it is their sole duty to vanquish these encapsulating rules, I happen to actually appreciate them. Because yes it may be frustrating to feel compacted and constricted into tight spaces that feel soul crushing, I tend to enjoy the relative amount of relief I obtain from them.
What relief is that?
The fact that I don't have to listen to others always whine about their problems and anxieties as I struggle through them as well. Basically society has set it up so that only those who are truly in need of the most help are released from this bubble of silence and able to express their stress. This allows them to then be assisted back into their nice little cozy capsule and assist when the next person final breaks down. If people in society were able to whine about their minor problems all the time I would literally go berserk and start using language that is not proper for someone of my status.
Now there are many ways to politely deal with these emotional issues that are within societies standards, and those can help people to and I really wish more people used them.
Like journaling!
Being able to completely rant out your problems into a harmless and emotionless piece of paper can really be helpful and I recommend doing so because that will help me stay calm by not having to listen to your problems and carry that needless emotional baggage around the airport that I am already currently 2 hours late for because my layover was cut short due to someone else's problems that prevented my flight from coming in on time.
Basically if you want me to stay calm I require that you conform to society's standards until you absolutely require my assistance because one day that ticking clock will eventually stop counting down and everything will go kablooey and you don't even want to know how the damage I can do with an eyelash curler and a pair of heels."