- and i'm happy by the way
that i made that jump, that leap of faith
this did not turn out the way i planned but for once i don't really mind, haha. i might be taking a break from oekaki for a bit; midterms are coming up and i can't seem to draw for myself to save my life. i love my characters but i don't feel like i can draw art that does them justice. i keep feeling like they deserve better.
(that being said, i don't feel that way when drawing for others, so check out my free art thread maybe? lmao)
anyways, sun goes down is a good song and it's helping me come to terms with the internalized homophobia and transphobia that still hasn't stopped bothering me. gonna talk about it a little below (in transparent text, because i don't want to make anyone uncomfortable), thanks to everyone who's been helping me get through it <3
i know that "the internet corrupted my mind and turned me gay" sounds like a haha funny joke because it's so ridiculous, but sometimes i genuinely feel like that's what happened. it's like i've always had this little sapling in my chest, a faint suggestion that i was queer. when i got on this site and discovered lgbtq+ resources and discussions, it watered that little sapling, and now it's a sprawling plant that's twisting around my lungs and suffocating me. i constantly feel like i should have stepped on that sapling and ground it into the dirt and let it die. i feel like i should've suppressed all those thoughts i had when i was ten, of switching bodies and becoming a boy. i know i would've been miserable if i hid that part of me forever, but admitting that i'm trans also hurts when i know i can't bind my chest or lower my voice or change my name or take hrt. my chest always hurts, breathing always hurts. i just want to be okay.