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[trip ♡]

My aroflux tendencies also seem to make relationships almost.. intolerable for me and tends to ruin them. Not only that, but my family is primarily conservative in their views and they are not as keen on the idea of me dating a girl. So, right now, I am dating a girl, and my sister figure does not know. But I don't want to disappoint her so I'm debating on breaking up with my gf (for more than just this). She's the closest thing I have ever had to an older sibling and her older sister herself is gay and I don't want to upset her and make her feel like there's no way out. And I'm sorry if that phrasing offends some people, but you have to understand this is the way my family thinks and therefore I feel obligated to please them. Because they are the most important people in my life. What do I do...?

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My aroflux tendencies also seem to make relationships almost.. intolerable for me and tends to ruin them. Not only that, but my family is primarily conservative in their views and they are not as keen on the idea of me dating a girl. So, right now, I am dating a girl, and my sister figure does not know. But I don't want to disappoint her so I'm debating on breaking up with my gf (for more than just this). She's the closest thing I have ever had to an older sibling and her older sister herself is gay and I don't want to upset her and make her feel like there's no way out. And I'm sorry if that phrasing offends some people, but you have to understand this is the way my family thinks and therefore I feel obligated to please them. Because they are the most important people in my life. What do I do...?

Aww I'm sorry to hear, I know how it happens with my family , I'm also dating a girl and I'm gay too but my mom don't support and stuff. I really hope things will come for the better.
Well what about thinking more of when to tell your family and help with the relationship with your gf.

[witchypuppy]

last night my girlfriend broke up with me. In five days would've been our five month anniversary. she was my first relationship and i'm absolutely heartbroken. could i have a hug? i love her so much and she broke up with me because she said she didnt love me as a girlfriend anymore.... just as a friend.

[.rin okumura.]

last night my girlfriend broke up with me. In five days would've been our five month anniversary. she was my first relationship and i'm absolutely heartbroken. could i have a hug? i love her so much and she broke up with me because she said she didnt love me as a girlfriend anymore.... just as a friend.

Aww sweetie :c It's alright *Huggles* I understand how you feel, and it sucks to be dumped. The best thing you can do is let your feelings out and then go do something fun like swimming, drawing, hanging out with friends, underwater basket weaving (idk where that came from..) or just whatever you like to do that you find fun! I know it seems tough and the first break-up is always the hardest but just keep your head up and you'll feel better.

Best of luck! ~ ♡ Musicals ♡

[Guest]

last night my girlfriend broke up with me. In five days would've been our five month anniversary. she was my first relationship and i'm absolutely heartbroken. could i have a hug? i love her so much and she broke up with me because she said she didnt love me as a girlfriend anymore.... just as a friend.

I know your pain deary. We can have hugs together. ♡ I'm sure you'll get through this and if you ever need to rant everyone here and myself will welcome you with open arms.

Just like Musicals said. The best way to get through it all is to do something else. Someone else mentioned breaking contact for a while. Also don't blame yourself sweetie. Try not to think about it. I know its very hard and it is quite alright to be sad or angry. Just don't let it get the best of you. Don't be alone for too long either seek your family and friends.

My boyfriend broke up three weeks ago and our one year anniversary was on August 1st...

In my boat he has blocked me so I'll wait until he contacts me and I'm ready to say Hi.

[witchypuppy]

@ ethan. and Musicals

thank you guys so much! Last night I made a closed species to give to some closed friends and had lots of fun designing them and getting nothing but positive reactions from everyone! I also found some good music, and that cheered me right up.

[galaxygenet]

I think I already know what the answer to this will be but I'll go ahead and ask anyway:
so when should you tell your family that you're dating someone?

[WastedSpace]

I think I already know what the answer to this will be but I'll go ahead and ask anyway:
so when should you tell your family that you're dating someone?

Depends on your family, your relationship with your family, your age, etc. There's no solid answer that we can give here. This is something that you (and your partner) need to judge for yourself. ^^

[miyadera]

Hmmm.. I have a mental war going on right now about something really dumb haha.

Well, I found my old school friends on Instagram, and I used to be really good friends with a certain girl, but she left the school. She's pretty materialistic, and I don't think it'd be a good influence on myself to be around her, but I just wanted to say hi as a sort of 'Hello I'm alive!'

Should I just say hello or leave her alone? Thanks for any advice given. I have dilemmas over the smallest things x.x

[WastedSpace]

Hmmm.. I have a mental war going on right now about something really dumb haha.

Well, I found my old school friends on Instagram, and I used to be really good friends with a certain girl, but she left the school. She's pretty materialistic, and I don't think it'd be a good influence on myself to be around her, but I just wanted to say hi as a sort of 'Hello I'm alive!'

Should I just say hello or leave her alone? Thanks for any advice given. I have dilemmas over the smallest things x.x

So you don't think she'd be good for you but want to contact her? Why do you want to contact her if she's not good for you?