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[WastedSpace]

I've always been the one who's contacted them. I can say that for one... and I'm just done trying to make plans and being nice. So I guess I'm distancing myself from them.

And alright thanks. I kind of already knew he needed space and so did I. Which is probably why he blocked me. But I'm just impatient and sad and lonely. but I'm trying to control myself.

I probably sound s****d and I really don't care lol.

Summer's not over yet. Does the local library or community center have any events planned this summer? Are there any camps in the area you can still sign up for? What about trying to join some class or club in the area (girl(/boy?) scouts, soccer, martial arts, pilates, pottery, jewelry making, painting, swimming)?

Even if there's not a club, studios often have classes on various things that you could go to. I think it's Hobby Lobby that does painting, jewelry making, etc - a good variety of things (although you might have to go with your parents). Even if you don't make any friends, you'll be getting out and doing something fun/relaxing.

[Guest]

I've always been the one who's contacted them. I can say that for one... and I'm just done trying to make plans and being nice. So I guess I'm distancing myself from them.

And alright thanks. I kind of already knew he needed space and so did I. Which is probably why he blocked me. But I'm just impatient and sad and lonely. but I'm trying to control myself.

I probably sound s****d and I really don't care lol.

Summer's not over yet. Does the local library or community center have any events planned this summer? Are there any camps in the area you can still sign up for? What about trying to join some class or club in the area (girl(/boy?) scouts, soccer, martial arts, pilates, pottery, jewelry making, painting, swimming)?

Even if there's not a club, studios often have classes on various things that you could go to. I think it's Hobby Lobby that does painting, jewelry making, etc - a good variety of things (although you might have to go with your parents). Even if you don't make any friends, you'll be getting out and doing something fun/relaxing.

I've never really thought about that stuff. Cause I don't have anything close by. But yeah I'll look into it. ;_; thanks. I'm gonna have to start an intership anyway. But that won't be until school starts again.

I'm also trying to find a job. And hopefully that'll get my mind off him and everything else going on.

I think that original post was just a vent I guess... as I kind of already knew what I had to do. But really thanks. I think I just need someone to tell me.

[Alpen]

I just want a bf

[The Cure]

is it wrong that on the last day of school, this happened-
me - talking about guy I like
bestie - what if he only liked you as a friend
me - id probably block myself out and not talk to anyone. Why?
bestie - no reason
me - tell me >:v
bestie - He only likes you as a friend. Are you okay?
me - yea. not a problem heart literally stopped for a couple seconds
bestie - you sure?
me - yea quiet for the rest of sixth period
moving on to seventh period, in which we spend it outside that day without much adult vision[b/]
me - [b]sitting, not talking, staring at ground
friends - are worried
me - silence
bestie - Is everything okay?
me - immedeatly starts bawling and mascara starts running down face
friends - realize it must be something about guy I like
bestie - goes over to guy I like and tries to get him to come over to me for some reason
guy - I don't know what you're doing, but I don't care. It probably isn't even important
bestie - offended
guy's friend - steals shoe and brings it over by me
me - still bawling
guy - comes to get shoe but instead starts staring at me
me - is uncomfortable and runs to bathroom and friends follow and we're in there until school ends
ex - worried


today - still likes him

I'm about to cry again. He doesn't understand but thats fine, because everything is always fine. Even if i like him and he wants nothing to do with me

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[ｐｒｉｘｉｅ]

-gonna edit this out real quick, yup-

[skunkiii]

I've been having some boy problems, could someone pm me?

Things have been pretty tough between us, and I'm just getting worried.. I need to let it all out. Someone to listen and someone to give advice maybe? I'm kinda new with all my relationships. I've never been into it until he and I started dating sometime last year. But recently, as in a few months ago, we broke up. Near our 1 year anniversary. We had literally less than a week break from each other before we started talking again. (Keep in mind this is a long distance relationship.) and on the day that our one year would've been on, he sent me a long paragraph about how much he loves me. To this day, were still not dating, but I mean, you could technically say we are, because he technically says that we are, although it's not official. But I've been confused. He's been hanging out with his other ex way more often. (Prom, work, school..) and a bunch of girls who like him, and that upsets me cause he usually won't text me or bother to include me. I mean, yes I know I don't do some of the stuff he likes to do, it's just not my thing, but I would still like to be around. What's even worse is my best friend told me she was done with me. So, now I've literally got no friends other than my boy.. And his friends- who I really don't think like me.

[goranski.]

my kinda boyfriend cut things off with me a few weeks ago. i'm still not over it, and he's dating my best friend now. he liked her the whole time we were kinda dating, it makes me wanna puke. he and i are still best friends, but it's awkward. my mum won't even let me hang out with him where his dad works bc it's "too much like a date." idk he kinda ruined our friendship.

[Fox,]

going to talk about a couple of different things on my mind, so feel free to skip over this [the only things I want/need answering are bolded; the rest is just rant/story]

so recently, one of my good guy friends admitted to liking me. the thing is, he said he's stopped because "our friendship matters too much". I don't really believe him, because I feel like he's been trying to talk to me more and its kindof bugging me. I feel betrayed, and now all the things we've done seem so awkward, gross, and uncomfortable. [tbh, I never really considered keeping this friendship next year, as we wont see eachother as much.] before he confessed, I was just going to let the friendship fade slowly. but now that he's brought that up, I feel like cutting the tie right away. I feel so utterly betrayed as of now, as what I thought was a good friend was just a stupid crush. ugh. is there anyway I could break the frendship slowly without hurting him too much? [also, if you think I sound heartless, I'm sorry, I'm just really frustrated rn]

secondly, I hate hate hatteeee how people assume you have to like someone at all times. I just feel like some people go by this 'rule', and go boy crazy and then aplear heartbroken. for me, this means that whenever i talk to my guy friends, people instantly think I'm in love or something. I don't care about rumors, its just the constant rumors about me and guy 1, or me and guy 2 are just getting annoying.

thirdly, some of the girls in my class are complaining about having 20+ more girls than guys. any tips for staying out of drama and such for the future?

moving on to the final thing, I've been having communication problems [??] recently with one of my close guy friends. idk if its just me, but he seems to be drifting away from me a bit. now, I may have a small crush on him, and we've talked about dating eachother; we just like the feel of our relationship atm. I'm perfectly fine with this, but I've texted him each day, and he hasn't responded for like 3 days in a row sometimes. idk, we just used to talk a whole bunch, like 2 hours a day, so I'm just kindof worried that somethings up?? he said he just hasn't felt like talking to anyone, but that's not normally like him to do. my question is, is there a way I could ask him what's wrong/tell him to talk to me mote without seeming clingy or rude?


thank you all for any answers you might have if replying to this, you can just post the bolded part and cut everything else. thanks again for reading (3

[britneyrox]

is anyone else here in a long distance relationship?

there's a small chance i'll be able to go see my boyfriend at the end of the summer. everything will have to work out perfectly - and it's not guaranteed that they will - so i'm trying not to get my hopes up but i'm excited nonetheless! if someone else deals with this and can share any insight as to how they avoid getting excited and then feeling awful disappointment if the visit doesn't work out, please let me know.

[WastedSpace]

going to talk about a couple of different things on my mind, so feel free to skip over this [the only things I want/need answering are bolded; the rest is just rant/story]

so recently, one of my good guy friends admitted to liking me. the thing is, he said he's stopped because "our friendship matters too much". I don't really believe him, because I feel like he's been trying to talk to me more and its kindof bugging me. I feel betrayed, and now all the things we've done seem so awkward, gross, and uncomfortable. [tbh, I never really considered keeping this friendship next year, as we wont see eachother as much.] before he confessed, I was just going to let the friendship fade slowly. but now that he's brought that up, I feel like cutting the tie right away. I feel so utterly betrayed as of now, as what I thought was a good friend was just a stupid crush. ugh. is there anyway I could break the frendship slowly without hurting him too much? [also, if you think I sound heartless, I'm sorry, I'm just really frustrated rn]

secondly, I hate hate hatteeee how people assume you have to like someone at all times. I just feel like some people go by this 'rule', and go boy crazy and then aplear heartbroken. for me, this means that whenever i talk to my guy friends, people instantly think I'm in love or something. I don't care about rumors, its just the constant rumors about me and guy 1, or me and guy 2 are just getting annoying.

thirdly, some of the girls in my class are complaining about having 20+ more girls than guys. any tips for staying out of drama and such for the future?

moving on to the final thing, I've been having communication problems [??] recently with one of my close guy friends. idk if its just me, but he seems to be drifting away from me a bit. now, I may have a small crush on him, and we've talked about dating eachother; we just like the feel of our relationship atm. I'm perfectly fine with this, but I've texted him each day, and he hasn't responded for like 3 days in a row sometimes. idk, we just used to talk a whole bunch, like 2 hours a day, so I'm just kindof worried that somethings up?? he said he just hasn't felt like talking to anyone, but that's not normally like him to do. my question is, is there a way I could ask him what's wrong/tell him to talk to me mote without seeming clingy or rude?


thank you all for any answers you might have if replying to this, you can just post the bolded part and cut everything else. thanks again for reading (3

I think I may see a slight trend of you overthinking things here.

It's hard to tell from your post, but just because someone likes you doesn't mean your friendship is a lie or that it was all a sham. I don't want to dismiss your feelings, though, because I do know there are plenty of men who pretend to be someone's friend just to start a different type of relationship.
As for his feelings, you can't control how he feels or how he reacts. All you can do is be open but gentle about how you feel.

If you don't want to be involved in drama, then don't be? If they're just complaining, then don't complain with them. If asked about it, just say you don't care to weigh in on the subject. If they push, then change the subject.

If someone is your friend, you should be able to ask if they're feeling/doing okay.