| TheComfortCorner | v.5

[autumnsoundtrack]

It took so much courage for me to even open the snapchat app.
And then it just glitches on me, and his snap just opens and closes and I don't get to see his answer.
That answer was literally a make it or break it situation for us.
And I screwed it up.
Now I just sent a snap saying I was a total idiot that accidentally opened and closed it and didn't get to see his reply, and have to wait lord knows how long for him to reply back.
I've waited 18 hours for that reply.
And now I'm experiencing the waiting anxiety all over again.

[amaoretto]

Pleaseeeeeeeeeee don't fall for this. Even if the kid does anything, it isn't your fault and you don't deserve this at all. If you do going along with it he'll only manipulate you and emotionally abuse you further by threatening to do things like that AGAIN if you try to leave him. Tell your parents or some figure of authority.

no one is ever allowed to pressure you into doing something
like that. its called sexual harassment if he is forcing you to
date him/ do things with him that youre not comfortable with
and him saying hes going to hurt himself is also a form of
sexual assault. the best thing you can do here is tell an adult
that you are being forced to date this kid because if you dont
he will hurt himself. is unfair for you and inhumane of him to
treat you like that.

thank you so much, i will definitely tell an adult. everything is making me a lot calmer, again, thank you.

[mr.robot]

05:41am
couldn't sleep
have a compression top on
might as well throw on my leggings and shorts and go for a run
cant even go with my running buddy
poor pup has either torn or stretched his ligament
so either the pain meds heal him or its a £3000 surgery
which i cant afford lol
slay me
):

[fika.]

so I told my best friend who I liked and today she told me she had a confession to make and I said "yes?" and she told me she liked him and she always told me she hated him and I started crying my eyes out and I told her and I said it's ok you can ask him and now I feel lonely and I am really sad and I can't stop listening to this one song and feeling upset. It feels like my heart is sinking in my stomach. I don't know what to do. I feel so upset.

hey boo, it's okay
you're so young to explore love <3
if you both like him, none of you should ask him out

you'll get over him
it may be hard, but you'll get there.
just try to distract yourself
good luck <3

It took so much courage for me to even open the snapchat app.
And then it just glitches on me, and his snap just opens and closes and I don't get to see his answer.
That answer was literally a make it or break it situation for us.
And I screwed it up.
Now I just sent a snap saying I was a total idiot that accidentally opened and closed it and didn't get to see his reply, and have to wait lord knows how long for him to reply back.
I've waited 18 hours for that reply.
And now I'm experiencing the waiting anxiety all over again.

hey dude it's okay,
just wait it out.
while waiting, try and distract yourself by
finding new things,
such as try and draw, or try and write a book!
time will go by quite quickly and hopefully it'll
be a good reply!
good luck <3

05:41am
couldn't sleep
have a compression top on
might as well throw on my leggings and shorts and go for a run
cant even go with my running buddy
poor pup has either torn or stretched his ligament
so either the pain meds heal him or its a £3000 surgery
which i cant afford lol
slay me
):

lie down and have a warm drink
it won't get you to sleep but it can relax you
i hope your pup is okay,
if you can't afford the surgery, fingers crossed that the
pain meds do help him out.
i hope only good things come your way
good luck <3

[wandzie.]

Im so nervous for tomorrow I just want to cry
Public speaking thing, and he has asked me to come watch him at a huge competition
I don't know what to do I'm sorry

[fika.]

Im so nervous for tomorrow I just want to cry
Public speaking thing, and he has asked me to come watch him at a huge competition
I don't know what to do I'm sorry

go watch!
go do it c:
he'd really like it if you did
(unless you don't want to or you feel
uncomfortable around him),
as for public speaking; try holding a pen
and spin it around in your hands while speaking
to help distract yourself.
you'll do great
good luck boo<3

[trans]

why does my dad feel the need to humiliate me in front of the rest of the family??? he says he doesnt wanna talk about it but then he talks about me to everyone behind my back or doesnt even give me that luxury to not know and does it while im in the same room or the next one over. like i can hear you??? i have feelings??? i know im not a perfect child but why do you have to tear me down so much??? i try so hard and im trying so hard and i just want him to be proud of me but all he can find the time to do is act like im a terrible child and a disgrace.

[MEAT!]

i really need some advice, and i need to let this out because i cant talk to anyone irl about it, so here we go.

i started dating this kid about two years ago. we were best friends before we started to date, which made dating him 100x easier. we were so comfortable with each other and i told him everything, visa versa. after about four months, after our 'honeymoon' phase, things started to change. he started getting controlling of me, getting angry for me snapchatting my other guy friends, and if i didnt answer his text right away, he'd spam my phone with 'heys' and 'answer me' and hed occasionally throw in the sl.t word because i wouldnt answer him. i ignored it because i cared for him so much. it scared me how much i liked him. i put up with his banter, and at our seven months, we officially hooked up for the first time. things went good after that, we exchanged our first i love you's and people always came up to me saying how cute we were and how we were their ''goals'' and whatnot. around our one year, things took a turn for the worse. we were always fighting and yelling at each other. we were off and on, saying i hate you one day and i love you the next. he would call me names and make me feel bad about myself.

our last fight was the worst. he said things i cannot repeat, as theyre not appropriate for this site, and i was officialy done with it. i broke up with him for the final time, i blocked his number and everything so he wouldnt text me back, and i was a mess. i was constantly sad and crying. ( i was struggling with depression before and during my time with him) my depression sparked new self loathing, and i was constatly blaming myself for the breakup. i would always look at old pictures and read old text messages thinking about all the good times. i still worse his clothes that i still had, as i never had the heart to give them back

around five months after the breakup, i was finally starting to forgive myself. i unblocked his number and started to go out again with my friends.i surrounded myself with people that love me and i was happy again.

a year after our breakup, i recieved that damn text message that shattered my heart all over again

can i have my clothes back.

thats when i knew that i lost my best friend forever, and i was never getting him back. of course, i gave his clothes back, and we started talking again. it was innocent small talk, and then he started texting me abouther.

the girl he was now seeing. he wanted advice because he was going through a rough patch with her. of course, i helped him out. i gave him advice, and he still saw her.

then they broke up, and he came back to me, for advice. i told myself that i would't be so pathetic, but my phone buzzed, and i saw his name on my screen, and my heart lurched. i had to answer him. we talked for a few weeks after his breakup, and we were starting to catch feelings again.

he came over my house and we hooked up again, and then a week later he had a new girlfriend.

now, to this day, my heart still is in pieces from him. he broke me, over and over, and yet, if i got a text from him right now, i wouldnt hesitate to answer. hes got me wrapped around his finger, and i hate it. i just want to get over him, i need to get over him, so thats why i am here right now with this stupid story and my typos.

i just need some advice on what i should do and how to move on and not let him control my life like he's already doing right now.

thank you for your time.

[ThunderCedar]

-snip-

I'm probably not the best with relationships but I understand feelings, and it's likely the more he'll hurt you the more you'll be hooked and have more and more trouble letting go
There is only one way I know to move on, and it's to fall in love with someone else. Not really easy, I guess , especially because you can't just decide to fall in love.
But you can try to meet as many people as possible and go out really often , who knows... you might find someone interesting(:
If not, then you're going to have to take baby steps away from him and your feelings for him
Instead of cutting it off straight away with him try to slowly drift away
Start waiting 5 minutes before answering his texts , then make that 10... 15
Cutting things off all at once is just going to make you hooked to the point it's unhealthy
You know?
I really hope things get better for you
In the end everyone is different and you may have to find your own ways to get rid of those feelings
But I wish you the best of luck xx
♡

[Thalassic]

ah yes I love feeling anxious for no reason