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[Thalassic]

I just feel like crying
I accidentally came across something.. Id rather not hear about, on youtube
I mean I know I cant avoid it but
idk it hurts
and I thought Id watch some buzzfeed or something but another video just made me really hate myself
and I just
idk I want to curl up and cry

[frankie (dup)]

I haven't had a very good month, or year.


My brother called me a liar, my dad yelled at me, my music player is missing, my Gatorade that I won was likely dumped out. My brother expected me to just follow his whims, screamed at me, tried to force me when I didn't bend over backwards to make everything perfect for him.

I don't have many friends, I'm a tiny nerd, I'm really worried about this 'rise against popularity' that me and my friends are doing*, and everything's just sort of blowing up in my face.

I just kinda felt like letting it all out, I don't really mind if anyone reads this, much less responds, but it'd be nice.

* nothing drastic, just not bending over backwards to make everything easy for them, treat everyone like equals, shrug off the 'nerd' comics, disregard trends and just wear what we like, and I'm just super worried that we're gonna get 'attacked' for it.

Thank you for reading.

[ausgdghsag]

i s2g if my laptop bluescreens one more time i'm gonna be sick
don't need this rn
i have enough on my plate

oh you know, with the PMDD and creepo at school who won't leave me alone

[lαмe ѕнeep ѕιlvα]

I haven't had a very good month, or year.


My brother called me a liar, my dad yelled at me, my music player is missing, my Gatorade that I won was likely dumped out. My brother expected me to just follow his whims, screamed at me, tried to force me when I didn't bend over backwards to make everything perfect for him.

I don't have many friends, I'm a tiny nerd, I'm really worried about this 'rise against popularity' that me and my friends are doing*, and everything's just sort of blowing up in my face.

I just kinda felt like letting it all out, I don't really mind if anyone reads this, much less responds, but it'd be nice.

* nothing drastic, just not bending over backwards to make everything easy for them, treat everyone like equals, shrug off the 'nerd' comics, disregard trends and just wear what we like, and I'm just super worried that we're gonna get 'attacked' for it.

Thank you for reading.

It's okay hun.
I'm a fellow dork. I'm a clutz who constantly is teased for being too short. It doesn't stop me, though, (even if I feel like hell at the end of the day) from chasing my dreams. I also have a brother, but he stanks too. He always tries to fit in and stuff, whilst calling me names(which I can't say because I am against cursing, but fine with mild ones.) And breaks my heart, but hey, we can always fix it with a friend. I'll be your friend if you need one <3

[OceanBlast]

Im sorry I'm here again but something happened and I've been crying so hard I can't breathe and I don't want to tell anyone I know in real life but I just need to vent idk

So...there's this guy, and he's quite a bit older than me but not too much older. He's my mum's best friend's son so I've known him ever since I was born, but we haven't seen each other much for about 5 years.

He came over for christmas and new years and I just...idk I really really really liked him. He's so sweet and gorgeous and likeable and not a player in ANY way and just so so nice. I have the worst social anxiety though so I found it hard to talk to him and since I liked him so much I found it even harder than usual and was really awkward with him. But I wanted to show him I liked him so I made a looooot of eye contact and idk other things, and I guess he got the idea

One night he came to my door at midnight and we went on the roof and kissed lol I know #romantic

And I was SOOO happy. He held my hand and we talked and I felt much more relaxed and I cried I was just so happy I thought we could've had something.

On Monday him, his brother, his friends, my mum's best friend and I went to this weird rainforest place for a week and came back yesterday.

Last night I walked with him to this place away from the house to get reception and when we came back we sat down and kissed etc. and like it wasn't in view of the house because nobody knows we were together.

I was so happy..we stayed there for an hour laughing and kissing and having fun and then he said he had to tell me something...I was so happy I thought for sure it'd be really positive.

"I like another girl."

I kind of thought what??? So I was like "you're kidding right?!"

And he said he liked a girl from his university and that he didn't like me in the way I liked him and he was sorry.

I kind of just let go of our hug and I stood there frozen shaking

And then I just started crying so hard and he must've felt like crap but I was dying inside I wanted to throw up. I honestly thought he liked me too and wanted to be with me in the future. I almost screamed at him asking why he did that to me and he just kept saying he was such an idiot and he was so sorry

He said he wanted to keep talking to me and he wanted my number and when I was older and if he was still single he'd want to go to the cinema with me but I just wanted to hit him but I love him so much and I hate myself for it

I'm just so depressed my heart is physically hurting so much I don't have an appetite and I have an issue where when I like someone I ONLY like them and I can't like anyone else and I'm going to feel like this for a very very VERY long time and I just hate it so much

But he's not a player he's the sweetest guy and so affectionate and I just don't know why he did that.

I'm just SO heartbroken I've never felt this depressed in my life and every song I listen to seems to speak about us and I burst into tears and my mum is so concerned and angry at me because of how I'm acting and the fact I can't eat or study right

Does anyone think I could still have any chance with him in the future?? We hardly even know each other...maybe he just doesn't know enough about me to like me but then again I fell in love with him at first sight and I know this is so pathetic and embarrassing and I'm probably going to regret this later but I'd really like a hug or just anything to cheer me up because right now I just want to disappear

[lαмe ѕнeep ѕιlvα]

Im sorry I'm here again but something happened and I've been crying so hard I can't breathe and I don't want to tell anyone I know in real life but I just need to vent idk

So...there's this guy, and he's quite a bit older than me but not too much older. He's my mum's best friend's son so I've known him ever since I was born, but we haven't seen each other much for about 5 years.

He came over for christmas and new years and I just...idk I really really really liked him. He's so sweet and gorgeous and likeable and not a player in ANY way and just so so nice. I have the worst social anxiety though so I found it hard to talk to him and since I liked him so much I found it even harder than usual and was really awkward with him. But I wanted to show him I liked him so I made a looooot of eye contact and idk other things, and I guess he got the idea

One night he came to my door at midnight and we went on the roof and kissed lol I know #romantic

And I was SOOO happy. He held my hand and we talked and I felt much more relaxed and I cried I was just so happy I thought we could've had something.

On Monday him, his brother, his friends, my mum's best friend and I went to this weird rainforest place for a week and came back yesterday.

Last night I walked with him to this place away from the house to get reception and when we came back we sat down and kissed etc. and like it wasn't in view of the house because nobody knows we were together.

I was so happy..we stayed there for an hour laughing and kissing and having fun and then he said he had to tell me something...I was so happy I thought for sure it'd be really positive.

"I like another girl."

I kind of thought what??? So I was like "you're kidding right?!"

And he said he liked a girl from his university and that he didn't like me in the way I liked him and he was sorry.

I kind of just let go of our hug and I stood there frozen shaking

And then I just started crying so hard and he must've felt like crap but I was dying inside I wanted to throw up. I honestly thought he liked me too and wanted to be with me in the future. I almost screamed at him asking why he did that to me and he just kept saying he was such an idiot and he was so sorry

He said he wanted to keep talking to me and he wanted my number and when I was older and if he was still single he'd want to go to the cinema with me but I just wanted to hit him but I love him so much and I hate myself for it

I'm just so depressed my heart is physically hurting so much I don't have an appetite and I have an issue where when I like someone I ONLY like them and I can't like anyone else and I'm going to feel like this for a very very VERY long time and I just hate it so much

But he's not a player he's the sweetest guy and so affectionate and I just don't know why he did that.

I'm just SO heartbroken I've never felt this depressed in my life and every song I listen to seems to speak about us and I burst into tears and my mum is so concerned and angry at me because of how I'm acting and the fact I can't eat or study right

Does anyone think I could still have any chance with him in the future?? We hardly even know each other...maybe he just doesn't know enough about me to like me but then again I fell in love with him at first sight and I know this is so pathetic and embarrassing and I'm probably going to regret this later but I'd really like a hug or just anything to cheer me up because right now I just want to disappear

Social anxiety is a pain in the butt. I had it.
I'm really sorry about this, but if he loves someone else, well, there are plenty of fish in the sea. As for me I am kind of a wild card when it comes to crushes and people hate me for this, but I change crushes a lot XD. Anyways I'm really sorry hun, but what I do is get chips, watch Netflix or YouTube, and just cry it out. It helps to just relax and distract your mind. He probably just doesn't love you in the same way, but hey, us girls have to be the tougher ones sometimes and make these choices. Sorry if my advicece sounds like crap but who cares, I'm just a dork XD

[r.ddler]

Im sorry I'm here again but something happened and I've been crying so hard I can't breathe and I don't want to tell anyone I know in real life but I just need to vent idk

So...there's this guy, and he's quite a bit older than me but not too much older. He's my mum's best friend's son so I've known him ever since I was born, but we haven't seen each other much for about 5 years.

He came over for christmas and new years and I just...idk I really really really liked him. He's so sweet and gorgeous and likeable and not a player in ANY way and just so so nice. I have the worst social anxiety though so I found it hard to talk to him and since I liked him so much I found it even harder than usual and was really awkward with him. But I wanted to show him I liked him so I made a looooot of eye contact and idk other things, and I guess he got the idea

One night he came to my door at midnight and we went on the roof and kissed lol I know #romantic

And I was SOOO happy. He held my hand and we talked and I felt much more relaxed and I cried I was just so happy I thought we could've had something.

On Monday him, his brother, his friends, my mum's best friend and I went to this weird rainforest place for a week and came back yesterday.

Last night I walked with him to this place away from the house to get reception and when we came back we sat down and kissed etc. and like it wasn't in view of the house because nobody knows we were together.

I was so happy..we stayed there for an hour laughing and kissing and having fun and then he said he had to tell me something...I was so happy I thought for sure it'd be really positive.

"I like another girl."

I kind of thought what??? So I was like "you're kidding right?!"

And he said he liked a girl from his university and that he didn't like me in the way I liked him and he was sorry.

I kind of just let go of our hug and I stood there frozen shaking

And then I just started crying so hard and he must've felt like crap but I was dying inside I wanted to throw up. I honestly thought he liked me too and wanted to be with me in the future. I almost screamed at him asking why he did that to me and he just kept saying he was such an idiot and he was so sorry

He said he wanted to keep talking to me and he wanted my number and when I was older and if he was still single he'd want to go to the cinema with me but I just wanted to hit him but I love him so much and I hate myself for it

I'm just so depressed my heart is physically hurting so much I don't have an appetite and I have an issue where when I like someone I ONLY like them and I can't like anyone else and I'm going to feel like this for a very very VERY long time and I just hate it so much

But he's not a player he's the sweetest guy and so affectionate and I just don't know why he did that.

I'm just SO heartbroken I've never felt this depressed in my life and every song I listen to seems to speak about us and I burst into tears and my mum is so concerned and angry at me because of how I'm acting and the fact I can't eat or study right

Does anyone think I could still have any chance with him in the future?? We hardly even know each other...maybe he just doesn't know enough about me to like me but then again I fell in love with him at first sight and I know this is so pathetic and embarrassing and I'm probably going to regret this later but I'd really like a hug or just anything to cheer me up because right now I just want to disappear :(

Let yourself heal first, he may not have meant to hurt you so bad,
but it was really stupid of him to play you like that. For someone so sensitive and socially awkward, something physical like a kiss is a lot more than just hang out and it really forms connections. Not always are they returned. But I think you have a chance with him, just heal first, if he tries to mention it or anything, make sure he knows you hurt. You can't just let that go, but if he's willing to try and make things right and apologize for that, let him do so.

Know that these are just suggestions. If you feel stronger about doing something else, do it, by all means.

[White Tigress]

God I'm so awkward.
I know she was joking we she said I'm not your friend but
That hurt.
I'm so tired and stressed
I missed three lessons
My book report is due on Monday
I gotta figure out what to do about my health assignments
And of course I'll have no damn time because of this birthday party.
My math average has only gone up about 1 point in a week
The quarter ends on Thursday
It's at 86
I need it up to a 90 at least
I have bags under my eyes
I'm so tired

[arabella !!]

My cousin lost his cat, and she was a sweetheart. :'(

[Shinryu]

[snipped a bit to cut down post length, sorry]

And then I just started crying so hard and he must've felt like crap but I was dying inside I wanted to throw up. I honestly thought he liked me too and wanted to be with me in the future. I almost screamed at him asking why he did that to me and he just kept saying he was such an idiot and he was so sorry

He said he wanted to keep talking to me and he wanted my number and when I was older and if he was still single he'd want to go to the cinema with me but I just wanted to hit him but I love him so much and I hate myself for it

I'm just so depressed my heart is physically hurting so much I don't have an appetite and I have an issue where when I like someone I ONLY like them and I can't like anyone else and I'm going to feel like this for a very very VERY long time and I just hate it so much

But he's not a player he's the sweetest guy and so affectionate and I just don't know why he did that.

I'm just SO heartbroken I've never felt this depressed in my life and every song I listen to seems to speak about us and I burst into tears and my mum is so concerned and angry at me because of how I'm acting and the fact I can't eat or study right

Does anyone think I could still have any chance with him in the future?? We hardly even know each other...maybe he just doesn't know enough about me to like me but then again I fell in love with him at first sight and I know this is so pathetic and embarrassing and I'm probably going to regret this later but I'd really like a hug or just anything to cheer me up because right now I just want to disappear :(

Oh dear, first of all, I'm so sorry that this happened to you! Heartbreak really feels awful.
Crushes are often intense, because that's the stage where your mind is trying to make you get with the other person.
But I'm sure you are strong enough to move on and look forward.
Right now this probably sounds horrible to you. Fresh wounds and what not. But hold on, mkay?~ You can do it <3
You said you haven't seen him much in the past couple of years, so keep that in mind, too. You don't know him all that much now, and maybe he just isn't the one.

If your judgment of his character is correct and he's indeed such a sweet and caring person, then chances are that he made a mistake. This can happen. Sometimes people think they have feelings for someone, or think their feelings are stronger than they actually are, and then they might get ahead of themselves.
He very possibly does find you attractive or likes you as a person, but eventually realized that it doesn't feel right, or that he likes the other girl more.
I've had this experience not too long ago, actually. I thought I had romantic feelings for a close friend of mine -and for all I know, maybe I did-, but I came to realize that these feelings didn't match up with how I remembered feeling when, for example, I met my first boyfriend.
Something similar might have been the case with him. And if that is so, then he likely does feel genuinely sorry that he got you into this situation, and I assume he really feels like an idiot.

As for your last question, this is probably not going to be an answer you like, but in my opinion, it would not be a good idea to pursue a relationship with him any further.
For now, he has told you that he is interested in someone else, and no matter what the future holds in store, that means that currently, it would be a really bad idea for you to keep investing emotions into this. Especially since you said you already feel like it is difficult for you to move on.
You would only hurt yourself more, and that's not what we want, hm?

Heartbreak sucks, but it's not the end of the world, and it'll be over eventually. Concentrate on things that are important to you, and if you feel your thoughts wandering back to him, push them away.
Do things that distract you. I don't know which type of person you are, but some people would probably go and spend extra much time doing stuff with their friends, others turn into real workaholics, others find physical activity to be relieving... Try things that force your concentration, things where you have not much room to let your mind wander to other places.
It can be good to cry it out sometimes, but please don't forget to take care of yourself, and don't let it take over your day.

So c'mere, have a hug ♥
And remember, when it comes to love, then no chance was your last one. You will find your match one day, I'm sure.
Stay strong~