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[Thalassic]

I hate my brother.
He is just 6 years old and I hate him.
For some reason my parents thought it would be a good idea to put his computer in my room, on the exact same table that I'm using. But the thing is, he can't. sit. still. Even as I'm typing this, he's kicking the table and the table is shaking and I can't. It pisses me off so much. And then he starts randomly screaming and jumping around.
I had my friend over a few weeks ago. She (is a nurse) saw my brother and said he's hyperactive. I've told my parents this but they don't care.
And see the thing is, I hate children. I want nothing to do with them. I told my parents to put his stuff somewhere else but they just laughed and didn't listen. I don't want him here. He is pissing me off. I want him gone and I'm so close to just yelling at him. Why do they insist on making my life hell?

[storme]

man it sucks being so self conscious about my body

I can barely walk out of my house wearing a dress or tank top without feeling awkward

[kaeria]

I hate my brother.
He is just 6 years old and I hate him.
For some reason my parents thought it would be a good idea to put his computer in my room, on the exact same table that I'm using. But the thing is, he can't. sit. still. Even as I'm typing this, he's kicking the table and the table is shaking and I can't. It pisses me off so much. And then he starts randomly screaming and jumping around.
I had my friend over a few weeks ago. She (is a nurse) saw my brother and said he's hyperactive. I've told my parents this but they don't care.
And see the thing is, I hate children. I want nothing to do with them. I told my parents to put his stuff somewhere else but they just laughed and didn't listen. I don't want him here. He is pissing me off. I want him gone and I'm so close to just yelling at him. Why do they insist on making my life hell?

I understand how you can be angry at your family. I think that you should tell them how you feel about your brother politely and explain why you can be angry with him. Hopefully they can do something about it. If he is hyperactive, he can't help it. Best thing to do is try to stay calm. I don't like children that much either, they can be a pain. Just remember you were one though when you were little.
PM me if you need more help, I have a lot of little children in my family and I have a lot of experience so I can help you! C:

man it sucks being so self conscious about my body

I can barely walk out of my house wearing a dress or tank top without feeling awkward

It does suck but darling, express yourself! Wear what you want. We all have different body types and you should embrace it. If anybody says anything, just ignore them. I feel that way sometimes but I just try and forget about it.
PM me if you need more help! ♥

[QuietestPrincess.]

can someone please DM me?

[.headrush.]

My friend is so angry at me.

I kinda had a go at her because of some crappy things she did...

I was trying to nail into her mind that if she does it, only bad things will happen but i guess that's the last thing she needed.

I think it's just her being a teenager but... She says it's not.

Maaaayn, I'm so confused.

[fika.]

can someone please DM me?

yep!

My friend is so angry at me.

I kinda had a go at her because of some crappy things she did...

I was trying to nail into her mind that if she does it, only bad things will happen but i guess that's the last thing she needed.

I think it's just her being a teenager but... She says it's not.

Maaaayn, I'm so confused.

maybe talk it out with her,
without nagging or lashing out (either of you),
and talk about how you both feel.
if she did something you don't like tell her that
but in a nice tone, no one likes arguing with their
friends c:
good luck <3

[Snowseph]

Ahh, this is probably stupid and venty; I apologize if it is. :<

First of all, I'm sick of people invalidating my feelings. They don't know how I feel, so how can they say that I shouldn't feel that way? My parents do it all the time to me and I don't think they realize. And yes, I've told them I'm serious and they do continue.

Which brings me to my other dilemma... I am soooo behind on schoolwork. I have 6 Latin passages I have to translate by Monday and about 90% of a Social Studies project to hand in tomorrow. For both, I like to take my time on my work for the best possible outcome. For Latin, most people were working groups on the translations, but I chose not to. I suppose that's my fault, but I'm not overly friendly with the kids in my Latin class... ;v; Mostly everyone else got 3 brains to work on it, while I just had mine. I'm not the only one who didn't finish, but I only did half of the required work. I was even absent one day they were doing translations. As for the Social Studies thing, here's what you need to know: my teacher thought it would be great to pair up with the Spanish teacher to do a Medieval Spanish project. I take Latin, so I obviously don't have to do the Spanish crap. However, the people who have Social Studies and Spanish got TWO PERIODS A DAY to work on this. It is 100000% bull. I only got unus (1) period to do it (and I'm not the only one). This is a BIG project, too. There's 2 packets, 8 stations (only have to do 6 for 2 periods/day and 5 if 1 period/day) and a final project to wrap it up (which is gonna be some essay). Like I said before, I spend a lot of time on my work so it's the best it could be. I only have 1/2 packets done, 1/5 stations done and I haven't touched the final part. I am working on the other packet now and some of the other station work are half done, but I am REALLY behind. I think what upsets me the most is that I had half the amount of time that mostly everyone had. ;___; I worked diligently each day and I hardly talked at all (if I did, it was about this project). I was focused and on task each day. So, you're probably like, "Why didn't you start it sooner over the weekend???" Lucky for me, I have been sick, rundown, sleeping until 11 and going to the doctor. I still feel like crap now and I don't want to stay up until 12 on a school night doing all this crap. I work horribly under pressure and stress. I /need/ to get good grades. I feel so crappy and I just want to sulk because I'm realistically not going to complete all of this up to my standards by tomorrow. I can't accepting failing...

I guess I'm off to work on my schoolwork. ;D;

[Dylan Klebold]

mfw i get into the musical as part of the ensemble but then dad basically guilt-trips me by saying 'we don't have a lot of money' though it clearly says 'we won't let money stop anyone from being in the musical'

[nyalatea]

Sorry this is a lot longer than I intended it to be, but I just really need to get this out.

At the beginning of the new school year, I met this girl who I never would have thought would change my life. She was so sweet and she was always calling me cute, beautiful, the most wonderful person she had ever met, and so many more great things. I have problems trusting people, but she was able to break down that barrier and become really close to me. Over the past few months, I have been struggling with bullying and I've been in a really weak state of mind and she helped me through all of it. For once I actually felt worth it. Inevitably, I developed a crush on her and was overjoyed when she told me she felt the same way. We ended up dating for a while and I finally thought things were getting better for me. As it turns out, I was so wrong. One day, I began to notice that she was acting a little different. She started to talk less to me when we met in the mornings before class started and over time it got to the point where she completely ignored me for some other guy. I was starting to get worried and I talked to her about it, but she just smiled and told me she was fine and that she loved me more than anything. A week later, I was out of school and in the middle of the day I was getting texts from people asking me if my girlfriend and I were alright and that’s when I really began to worry. They told me that they saw the guy that she was ignoring me for had his arm around her and kissed her and that’s when everything hit me. I had a suspicion that something was going on between them, but I told myself I was wrong. That’s when it became clear to me that my suspicion was right. She texted me later that day asking me if I was alright and I responded by saying no and what everyone was telling me. She didn’t deny it. She broke up with me by flat out telling me I wasn’t good enough for her. I found out from someone else that her and her new boyfriend started dating over a week before we broke up. She was the one I trusted most and not only was my trust with her shattered, but with multiple other people it was completely broken. I feel I can’t trust anyone anymore because if I can’t trust the one who I trusted most, the only one to ever call me beautiful, the only one that actually took the time to guide me through my problems, then who can I trust? Why can’t I be good enough for anyone? Why is it I feel this is all my fault? Why is it that every time life gives me something good it takes it away soon after telling me I don’t deserve it? Why? I don't understand.

[fika.]

Ahh, this is probably stupid and venty; I apologize if it is. :<

First of all, I'm sick of people invalidating my feelings. They don't know how I feel, so how can they say that I shouldn't feel that way? My parents do it all the time to me and I don't think they realize. And yes, I've told them I'm serious and they do continue.

Which brings me to my other dilemma... I am soooo behind on schoolwork. I have 6 Latin passages I have to translate by Monday and about 90% of a Social Studies project to hand in tomorrow. For both, I like to take my time on my work for the best possible outcome. For Latin, most people were working groups on the translations, but I chose not to. I suppose that's my fault, but I'm not overly friendly with the kids in my Latin class... ;v; Mostly everyone else got 3 brains to work on it, while I just had mine. I'm not the only one who didn't finish, but I only did half of the required work. I was even absent one day they were doing translations. As for the Social Studies thing, here's what you need to know: my teacher thought it would be great to pair up with the Spanish teacher to do a Medieval Spanish project. I take Latin, so I obviously don't have to do the Spanish crap. However, the people who have Social Studies and Spanish got TWO PERIODS A DAY to work on this. It is 100000% bull. I only got unus (1) period to do it (and I'm not the only one). This is a BIG project, too. There's 2 packets, 8 stations (only have to do 6 for 2 periods/day and 5 if 1 period/day) and a final project to wrap it up (which is gonna be some essay). Like I said before, I spend a lot of time on my work so it's the best it could be. I only have 1/2 packets done, 1/5 stations done and I haven't touched the final part. I am working on the other packet now and some of the other station work are half done, but I am REALLY behind. I think what upsets me the most is that I had half the amount of time that mostly everyone had. ;___; I worked diligently each day and I hardly talked at all (if I did, it was about this project). I was focused and on task each day. So, you're probably like, "Why didn't you start it sooner over the weekend???" Lucky for me, I have been sick, rundown, sleeping until 11 and going to the doctor. I still feel like crap now and I don't want to stay up until 12 on a school night doing all this crap. I work horribly under pressure and stress. I /need/ to get good grades. I feel so crappy and I just want to sulk because I'm realistically not going to complete all of this up to my standards by tomorrow. I can't accepting failing...

I guess I'm off to work on my schoolwork. ;D;

hi!
i get it, you're stressed.
who likes being stressed.
but take a break! just 20 minutes.
studies prove it helps your brain work harder c:
maybe you can go talk to your teachers?
explain to them you have been loaded with school work,
you've been off ill and you've been working by yourself.
surely they'll understand. they might give you an extra day to
work on it.
good luck <3

mfw i get into the musical as part of the ensemble but then dad basically guilt-trips me by saying 'we don't have a lot of money' though it clearly says 'we won't let money stop anyone from being in the musical'

i'm confused
so you don't need to pay?
maybe explain to your dad it's what you really want to do,
or possibly pay for it yourself by going around and
earning money.
good luck <3

Sorry this is a lot longer than I intended it to be, but I just really need to get this out.

At the beginning of the new school year, I met this girl who I never would have thought would change my life. She was so sweet and she was always calling me cute, beautiful, the most wonderful person she had ever met, and so many more great things. I have problems trusting people, but she was able to break down that barrier and become really close to me. Over the past few months, I have been struggling with bullying and I've been in a really weak state of mind and she helped me through all of it. For once I actually felt worth it. Inevitably, I developed a crush on her and was overjoyed when she told me she felt the same way. We ended up dating for a while and I finally thought things were getting better for me. As it turns out, I was so wrong. One day, I began to notice that she was acting a little different. She started to talk less to me when we met in the mornings before class started and over time it got to the point where she completely ignored me for some other guy. I was starting to get worried and I talked to her about it, but she just smiled and told me she was fine and that she loved me more than anything. A week later, I was out of school and in the middle of the day I was getting texts from people asking me if my girlfriend and I were alright and that’s when I really began to worry. They told me that they saw the guy that she was ignoring me for had his arm around her and kissed her and that’s when everything hit me. I had a suspicion that something was going on between them, but I told myself I was wrong. That’s when it became clear to me that my suspicion was right. She texted me later that day asking me if I was alright and I responded by saying no and what everyone was telling me. She didn’t deny it. She broke up with me by flat out telling me I wasn’t good enough for her. I found out from someone else that her and her new boyfriend started dating over a week before we broke up. She was the one I trusted most and not only was my trust with her shattered, but with multiple other people it was completely broken. I feel I can’t trust anyone anymore because if I can’t trust the one who I trusted most, the only one to ever call me beautiful, the only one that actually took the time to guide me through my problems, then who can I trust? Why can’t I be good enough for anyone? Why is it I feel this is all my fault? Why is it that every time life gives me something good it takes it away soon after telling me I don’t deserve it? Why? I don't understand.

want to know something?
you deserve the whole world and more.
you've been through so much, and i know you trust
her with all your heart but she isn't healthy for you
the only way to truly move on is by letting go.
i know it seems hard, but you can do it.
delete all pictures.
delete conversations; they'll just remind you
delete everything you have that reminds you of her
you'll be okay
i know it's hard, and having barriers up are helpful
i know. but hey, it's okay to let someone in.
to let people come thorugh to you.
they may need you in their life like you need them.
you will be just fine, i pinkie promise.
good luck <3

ps. you're extremely beautiful (: