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[watermelon.]

can i get a pm from someone who won't mind a long rant about something stupid ?

[trip ♡]

Posted on the Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends thread as well.

"I've been dating my girlfriend since Christmas Eve, so it's really a baby relationship. Between then and now, I've started meeting resolutions, making goals, and finding myself. So much so to the point that I have found that this isn't really something I want or need right now. However, I'm attached to them and don't want to break their heart. They have nightmares about me leaving and are head over heels, I know. I warned them I was worried I wouldn't get too invested, and I really, really enjoy their company but I cannot envision myself with them in the future, which I know is a huge red flag on my end. What do I do? How do I let them down easy? PM me please?"

[ausgdghsag]

i had a dream last night that i came out to my family
they kicked me out
sad bc it's not that impossible

not to mention everyone looks down at me
i'm sorry
i'm sorry i'm a freak

[sapiosexual]

i dont understand why im bending over backwards for people who wont even spare me a glance, fighting for my friends affection and putting myself out there trying to make friends and pushing myself to my limit- and sometimes it works but then eventually they abandon me
the only reason i do anything is to impress others. my self image is based off of what others say. im always there for everyone always putting them before myself but theres never someone there for me when im having a hard time
because damn how hard is it to get some friends who actually enjoy having you around and dont make you feel unwanted??? i know im annoying and ugly and a showoff but all i want is someone who doesnt think im a nusiance
im just ready to give up and become that empty shell again.im tired of tying so hard

sorry i just had to get that out, feel free to ignore

[My Immortal]

So I just lost both of my best friends... In fact, sometimes it felt like they were my only friends. My fault.

So basically one of the posts a picture of a woman's rear end on his wall. And when I tell him it's inappropriate and sexist. He blocks me. And then Nick tells me that I am to much stress for him and he doesn't want to be my friend anymore.

*sigh*

[0000007]

I'm good at making decisions for myself, but I need some guidance. how do make the best choice for us both? all answers will cause harm between me and a friend. I cannot explain the situation. do I do a list of pros and cons? how do I choose? I only have two(? maybe one) days to decide.

[trip ♡]

Broke up with my gf. I decided I'd much rather be the heartbroken than the heartbreaker.

[Eden,.]

First of all, in our school system (and I bet we both happen to be in the same; according to your profile I assume your mother tongue is German), 10 points are pretty good and you haven't failed at all.

On the other hand, I know better than most how the pressure you put yourself under feels if you want to be the best. Neither 10 nor 14 points are enough if there are 15.

Experience has shown me: it is always a good way to let teachers know if you help other students. Does your teacher know about that? If not, try to let him/her know. Don't brag about it but don't do it secretly either.

I see you want those shining fifteen points, what about a 20 minute long presentation? About something you are interested in? Please, please talk to your teacher rather today than tomorrow. They need to know about your passion!

And one last word, my elem. teacher once said I would never be able to properly say anything in English and some years later I got my translator, foreign language secretary and foreign language correspondence certificate. Oh and btw, I got back to highschool as well. And I want to be an English teacher. No matter what any teacher says and no matter if I get 10 or 15 points. I do a lot of mistakes and that's fine! That's part of learning and part of everyone's lives.

Those marks don't say a thing about your passion. Marks don't say a lot after all. And someday you'll forget about those ten points. They won't matter in a year, that's a promise! Many teachers have lost their passion years ago.

thank you for the answer <3
yeah, we both are in the same system. neither 10 nor 11 are anywhere near failed, I know. there's people in this class who'd be desperate to get at least 8. that is why i am sorry to rant about this, because it is a pathetic reason to bully myself.
the thing is that I am usually good at this subject and the teacher knows, almost all english teacher at my school know. they know I can and do help the students and they ask them to come to me. i even get asked by my teacher sometimes if she can't recall something fast enough (not to brag, please don't think that!) my friend once apologized for her having higher points on an exam because she doesn't like the subject at all and she thought I would be sad.
it isn't even that bad but it just makes me incredibly angry at myself that I try so hard but don't succeed at all with the only thing I am so passionate about.
also this certificate you got sounds extremely interesting, I am going to look that up. thanks for sharing your story and advice <3 I really appreciate that. <33

[fika.]

dear everyone,
I really hope you're doing okay.
I'm going to the hospital soon but after that i'm going to school,
So I won't be able to reply until another six hours and thirty minutes
I'm really sorry about this, but I will reply to everybody
- blink 182

[fika.]

okay my mum went to talk the dog so i can quickly post! sorry if i miss you, i've rushed this.

I'm an over-confident, stand-out individual who's not afraid to speak my mind. I've always been that way and likely always will, but I'm starting to get serious self-esteem issues no one can see because of my stupid confident personality.

Take today. Choosing our partners to peer-edit essays? Before you know it, everyone's partnered up and working together, except me. No one notices me crying, not even the teacher notices. I still don't have a partner. This kind of thing happens almost once a week.

But the worst part is yet to come. Passing between fifth and sixth periods, I slip and fall on a slick wooden walkway (it's been rainy here this week). I fall pretty hard, and a bunch of people see. But no one helps me up. No one even asks if I'm okay. And I'm not okay. I fell hard on my right hand, my dominant hand, and sprained it. I can't write, or worse, draw, my go-to stress relieving activity. And who knows how long it'll take to heal -- last time I had a hand/wrist sprain it took two and a half weeks. And no one even cares.

I'm crying as I type this.

Hey it's okay
keep your hand up in a bandage
are you ok?
listen, those people aren't worth your time
try and find someone that is, though
find someone like who, one that is also
in a way; like you. too cool to be around people
i hope you're going okay.
good luck <3

im sorry I make you cringe Im sorry im not what you want i hate this place but feels as if your locked onto the wall getting kicked and rocks thrown at you. It feels like when I try to stand up for me theirs a mirror in front of me that yells strait back at me for standing up for myself. I can't go on much longer

it's okay to cry, so cry
you are strong and i am proud of you for sticking
up for yourself, something i'm not able to do
tell them how you feel
tell them they're treating you like dirt and it's making
you upset
good luck <3

I said sorry,
I said it was a mistake
Besides, it was good for the computer.
You know everything auto-saves with google drive,
so why, why did you tell almost everyone who would listen?!

whatever happened,
i'm sure you didn't mean for it to.
i hope you're doing okay <3

im really, really tired. i havent slept properly for three years. this week ive slept about 3 hours? its only wednesday but im exhausted. im so sick of this.

go sleep.
i know it sounds difficult, but do it
block out all light, throw on some ASMR (best thing ever tbh)
and have a warm drink.
it'll help relax and soothe your mind,
and you'll be able to sleep.
good luck <3

Also, I'm really mad at myself. You know when you have a crush, it's like you'll say yes to everything... Or at least for me...
I let him use my computer charger and today he is sick and I feel like he's gonna lose it. And guess whose fault it is... Mine... And I have to pay for it :l I take full responsibility for it. I hope they just give me another D:

if he loses it, tell him
he'll have to pay you back for it
don't be mad at yourself for having a crush!
we're only human and can't control who we do and don't like
good luck with them btw

Posted on the Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends thread as well.

"I've been dating my girlfriend since Christmas Eve, so it's really a baby relationship. Between then and now, I've started meeting resolutions, making goals, and finding myself. So much so to the point that I have found that this isn't really something I want or need right now. However, I'm attached to them and don't want to break their heart. They have nightmares about me leaving and are head over heels, I know. I warned them I was worried I wouldn't get too invested, and I really, really enjoy their company but I cannot envision myself with them in the future, which I know is a huge red flag on my end. What do I do? How do I let them down easy? PM me please?"

i'm sure you already have advice on this, and noticed you
broke up with her. i was gong to say don't put her through that relationship.
i'm proud of you for doing it, though c:
good luck in the future <3

i had a dream last night that i came out to my family
they kicked me out
sad bc it's not that impossible

not to mention everyone looks down at me
i'm sorry
i'm sorry i'm a freak

you aRE NOT A FREAK DON'T SAY THAT D :
i don't look down on you, none of us do
you're special and important c:
i'm proud of you for finding out your sexuality and who you are,
and maybe coming out to them won't be as bad as you think
good luck <3

i dont understand why im bending over backwards for people who wont even spare me a glance, fighting for my friends affection and putting myself out there trying to make friends and pushing myself to my limit- and sometimes it works but then eventually they abandon me
the only reason i do anything is to impress others. my self image is based off of what others say. im always there for everyone always putting them before myself but theres never someone there for me when im having a hard time
because damn how hard is it to get some friends who actually enjoy having you around and dont make you feel unwanted??? i know im annoying and ugly and a showoff but all i want is someone who doesnt think im a nusiance
im just ready to give up and become that empty shell again.im tired of tying so hard

sorry i just had to get that out, feel free to ignore

wanna know something?
you're not ugly
you're not annoying
you're not a show off
you're important to this world
don't try too hard
be yourself, that's the most important thing for your self esteem
i won't ignore this c:
just keep being you! don't be someone you're not!

So I just lost both of my best friends... In fact, sometimes it felt like they were my only friends. My fault.

So basically one of the posts a picture of a woman's rear end on his wall. And when I tell him it's inappropriate and sexist. He blocks me. And then Nick tells me that I am to much stress for him and he doesn't want to be my friend anymore.

*sigh*

if he's upset over that, he's not a "true" friend
you'll find other ones
you'll be okay
good luck <3

I'm good at making decisions for myself, but I need some guidance. how do make the best choice for us both? all answers will cause harm between me and a friend. I cannot explain the situation. do I do a list of pros and cons? how do I choose? I only have two(? maybe one) days to decide.

talk to them about it
talk to the other person about what you both think is best
good luck!
(pros and cons list will help) <3

gUYS I AM SO SORRY FOR SUCH SHORT REPLIES
i hope you all know my inbox is always open
and i hope you all know i am here for you and i'm proud of you
again, i would write longer but i'm ill and going to the hospital
soon so my anxiety level is a bit high, so my replies aren't
the best BUT i know you just want some comfort
so helpfully this is enough c:
good luck guys <3