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[northy.]

hello everyone!

i was at school earlier on, and was not able to reply. since getting home,
i've been feeling extremely ill and i don't think i'll be able to help anybody today.
i absolutely love trying to make you all feel better, but when feeling ill
myself i don't feel like i have the motivation and/or energy to help any of you,
and my advice would be poor with no support in my eyes.

however, if you are feeling extremely down, feel free to message me,
and i will reply as quickly as i can.
i honestly hope you're all doing okay, i've been worried all day about
how people are feeling on this forum.
my inbox is always open,
and hopefully i'll be feeling better to help you all tomorrow.
good luck with whatever is going on with your life right now <3

I hope you're feeling better soon, Ehhh school and all its germs! Also, don't worry too much, you're amazing with all you do and how you comfort people and you deserve a hug

whoops I mean

NOPE WRONG AGAIN!

THATS THE ONE! I on behalf of the comfort coner want to thank you for being awesome. :)

[mr.robot]

Rest easy, Blink. <3



well i messed up today at school, my first bloody day, and i didn't understand anything in computing and my teacher doesn't explain it properly.
i now have to, on top of everything else, research the topic to make sure I understand it better.
i was blanked out by my partner in biology, and same again in chemistry. wonderful feeling.
i am literally on the edge of talking to my friends and telling them everything but i know that they won't understand what being nonbinary means, and i know they won't respect my pronouns. they'll just think it's some phase that ill grow out of.
plus
and my good old anxiety is kicking in, i messed up my speech in front of several friends today and it keeps relaying in my head, what I should have done and how i shouldn't have acted so stupid. they probably think im not worth their time now aha????
I can't even speak to any of my online friends or my girlfriend because im afraid of messing up despite, for the majority, not having to speak.
im done, im just done, i don't know why im doing this anymore. you know that feeling when you just want to disappear...?

I know this isn't as bad as other people's problems but i just needed to get that off my chest,,

@blink i needed that, thank you ;u; <3



Everybody's problems are as valid as the next person. Your problem may seem insignificant in the eyes of others but to you it could mean the world.

I think you should try to tell your friends! If they don't accept you for who you are or try to change their ways to better suit you then they aren't the type of friends you need anyway.

Your girlfriend and friends will understand if you don't want to speak. I sometimes refuse to call my partner due to anxiety over phone calls and speaking and he gives me time to calm myself before we try again. If you mess up really bad, just remember that it'll be forgotten about soon enough!

you're loved and valued and everyone cares about you more than you think. take care of yourself, be yourself and live life as best you can. <3

*gonna reply to other people when I get on my laptop uvu

[groenii]

T_T
So I had to re-sit an essay assignment that I failed the first time.
I actually worked hard on that essay and it was one of those smaller ones which I was not supposed to fail because I had passed much much bigger and more difficult essays before. I also failed because of something super dumb, like something that even a first-year wouldn't mess up ;.;
I submitted the re-sit it yesterday and I worked hard on it but I just discovered I made a stupid mistake again. The bad part about this is that I'll have to redo the course if I fail which means I'll be delayed by a year.
Whyyyyy.

[~IronRose~]

As soon as I get home I'm going to start replying to a lot of posts, I've been going through a ton as well so I know what it's like to need help, and I want to help in everyway I can, so I will be back on soon

[mr.robot]

T_T
So I had to re-sit an essay assignment that I failed the first time.
I actually worked hard on that essay and it was one of those smaller ones which I was not supposed to fail because I had passed much much bigger and more difficult essays before. I also failed because of something super dumb, like something that even a first-year wouldn't mess up ;.;
I submitted the re-sit it yesterday and I worked hard on it but I just discovered I made a stupid mistake again. The bad part about this is that I'll have to redo the course if I fail which means I'll be delayed by a year.
Whyyyyy.

don't worry about it!! my partner failed part of his course at uni and made the same mistake the second time around but he passed!! you'll do fantastic, just remember to breathe and take time for yourself otherwise you'll stress yourself out and nobody wants that for you!!

[Checkinder]

I don't even know what's happening anymore.

My best friend, or I guess she's my ex-bestfriend now, started talking crap about me behind my back recently.
Well, today she went too freaking far.

She started telling people that I'm lying about people bullying me and that when complain about my teachers that I'm just begging for attention when I literally have FIVE OTHER PEOPLE BACKING ME.

Not to mention today in the lunch line she literally stood by and WATCHED as people made fun of me and did NOTHING about it. She was RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME! There is no way she couldn't have heard them!

I nearly called my mom to bring me home early because I am just so tired of everyone in this school being mean to me!

[northy.]

I don't even know what's happening anymore.

My best friend, or I guess she's my ex-bestfriend now, started talking crap about me behind my back recently.
Well, today she went too freaking far.

She started telling people that I'm lying about people bullying me and that when complain about my teachers that I'm just begging for attention when I literally have FIVE OTHER PEOPLE BACKING ME.

Not to mention today in the lunch line she literally stood by and WATCHED as people made fun of me and did NOTHING about it. She was RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME! There is no way she couldn't have heard them!

I nearly called my mom to bring me home early because I am just so tired of everyone in this school being mean to me!

I remember things like this would happen to me all the time in middle school, its really difficult and I was bullied ALOT in middle school (Stuff thrown at me and the ENTRIE school calling me a name that sticks with me to this day, but I'm a stronger person because of it) I know that you're going to thing the is so unhelpful but in a few years they REALLY will change, when I went into high school everyone grew up and forgot about it pretty much. As for the friend, if you feel like you are angry but still feel a a bit like you miss/need her then I can nearly assure you that she'll feel the same way, but if you're just angry or just sad and really TRULY don't want her in your life then move on and try find a new group. PM me if you want anymore help, please keep up updated, I don't want you getting bullied without someone to turn to, and I also want to make sure you end up okay with each other.

[Bingpuppy]

I don't even know what's happening anymore.

My best friend, or I guess she's my ex-bestfriend now, started talking crap about me behind my back recently.
Well, today she went too freaking far.

She started telling people that I'm lying about people bullying me and that when complain about my teachers that I'm just begging for attention when I literally have FIVE OTHER PEOPLE BACKING ME.

Not to mention today in the lunch line she literally stood by and WATCHED as people made fun of me and did NOTHING about it. She was RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME! There is no way she couldn't have heard them!

I nearly called my mom to bring me home early because I am just so tired of everyone in this school being mean to me!

Aww
Bullies are awful aren't they? Personally, I have never been bullied, but people have been a bit rude and have gotten on my nerves before...
But why are they making fun of you? Is it how you look, what you wear, about your own personality? They should be the ones with "undesirable" personalities if they are being mean! I barely know you, in fact, I don't think I have ever seen you on chicken smoothie. But, you seem like a really cool person! :3
As of solving your problem, I suggest ignoring her/not being her friend. I am guessing you already did. Bullies usually bully for attention, from you or the crowd. If you ignore her, she will not get any attention from you, and if you ignore "the crowd" they will get bored too. If they continue messing with you, I suggest talking to a school counselor, or your parents. But beyond that, that is your decision! When you get out of middle/high school, it will be a fresh start! :3
Just remember, that it will be okay! I would love to be an online friend for you, feel free to PM!
Hope this helped :3

[inactive matin]

so i'm scrolling down my clan profile on flight rising and decided to check back onto chicken smoothie like i usually do, clicking the link i put on my page of my account to switch back and forth easily. except when i press the link, it says "this user does not exist", which of course led me to believe that the link was broken, except it's not. this is probably a pathetic excuse to be upset but i am, and i just needed to get that out. a hug would be nice, as i'm sitting at my computer close to tears because of this.

[Bingpuppy]

so i'm scrolling down my clan profile on flight rising and decided to check back onto chicken smoothie like i usually do, clicking the link i put on my page of my account to switch back and forth easily. except when i press the link, it says "this user does not exist", which of course led me to believe that the link was broken, except it's not. this is probably a pathetic excuse to be upset but i am, and i just needed to get that out. a hug would be nice, as i'm sitting at my computer close to tears because of this.

Hugs <3 :3