Crushes & Good Books

[Earth]

ok well i dont have a boyfriend but this past few days i have been on cloud nine and i really wanna tell u guys but it might become an essay so im gonna write it later tonight when ive got more time:) just wanted to give ya'll a heads up

[bioSHOCK]

Hmm.. good books I've read lately... Well, I mostly read relatively unknown horror novels. Right now, I'm reading a book called The Town. It's creepy and kinda... weird... in a sense. I've also read The Exorcist. It actually wasn't that scary, and neither was the movie. xD

Let's see.. as for my crush... well, I'm kinda in a dilemma you could say. You see, I still like my ex, even though HE'S moved on. I also like another guy though, who's one of the best guy friends I've ever had. I really really wanna get over my ex, and maybe go out with my guy friend. After all, we talk a lot, and we flirt constantly... though I'm not entirely sure he DOES like me back. My friends all think so, but I'm the overly-cautious type, so.. you know. xD Helppp?

[Earth]

Ok my essay.

So before Winter Break my friend had this guy that liked her and me and the guy became pretty close. It's kinda wierd because before that I was trying to get them together. But then during Winter Break I don't know what happened but I started to fantisize about him. Then after Winter Break when school started again on Monday and Tuesday he would kinda stare at me in our humanitites class but I couldn't be sure because my friend (the one he liked then) sat right in front of me so I wasn't totally sure. On wednesday we were talking in out Advisory class (pretty much homeroom) and he was looking down at me and then I looked back at him and aparently gave him a 'look' and then he avoided me for the rest of the day and Thursday. Then on Friday he starts to flirt with me a ton. He's asked me who I liked a bizilion times just on Friday! He sat in my chair with me in Advisory and we were really close. He would show off and stuff like that. On Monday it was the same thing. On Tuesday he flirted in the hallway with me all through the week. But then today he wasn't really talking to me in Advisory so I was kinda in a bad mood and I was really tired to. So in humanities we had a sub and we had to work with partners and I was gonna go ask him to be my partner but then this girl that I kinda know asked me and I didn't want to be rude so I said yes. We were like the first ones done cuz I'm a nerd like that and no a ton of stuff about the Revolutionary War and so I went over to my two friends that were sitting by him and he was like are you sad? And I said I was kinda depressed and he was like ha! I told you! to my friend (see how well he can read me! and that means he was paying attention to me ). And then he asked me why and I said I was tired and stuff. Then I noticed that he really didn't have a partner and didn't have some things filled in so I got my paper and let him copy. He asked me who I liked (again) and I said I wouldn't tell. So he asked if the guy had a girlfriend and I said I'm pretty sure he doesn't and he asked me another question but I don't really remember what he asked. And I gave him a hint saying that the guy I like probably doesn't like me. He asked why and I said because most guys see me as a friend and don't really think of me as more. And he was like oh well that might not be true. Then he said that he had an idea on who I liked and he said that he thought i liked him and he said becasue we are really good friends and stuff like that. But then I had to go back to my seat and as I was standing he said ya and i don't like insert name of best friend here anymore. I raised my eyesbrows and said really? he said yes and I was smiling all the way back to my chair. Then after that class he was walking with me and kept asking me. I was like you are hellbent on figuring it out aren't you? An then he started saing how he was at hell's gate and going to burn in the firey pits if I didn't tell him and I'm told him to stop ususing guilt on me. He talked about how he's been trying to figure it out for 2 weeks now and then about how he was walking me to my locker to figure it out even though his class was the other way and then told my friend that I was very stubborn. (i am ) Ya so now my bestist friend tells me I should tell him tomorrow because he soooo likes me. But I'm scared.... so ya what do u all think?

[Mirandamay]

Oh goodness me! He is TOTALLY into you missy. In my cases whenever a guy asked me if i liked anyone it was because they liked me. If he actually cares about who you like or who your into that means he is intrested. I think you should tell him as soon as you can honestly And by the sounds of it im pretty sure he already knows but in most cases guys wont do anything unless they know straight out that you like them depending on the guy. You just need to bluntly say it sometimes ^^
I say go for it <3

[Earth]

Haha you sound like my friend... Ya I think I'm gonna tell him tomorrow and ask him who he likes now that he doesn't like my friend. I wonder if I should tell him in Advisory which is 4th period for me and I see him in our next class after lunch or if I should tell him in humanities but then I won't see him after that class untill monday.... which might be good cuz then it would give him time to think...
Thanks Meg
Ps love your siggy the pics are soooo pretty!

[Mirandamay]

Haha well then i think i like your friend XD
I would wait until the class after lunch so you dont feel akward and he and you have time to think it over
D'awe thanks <3

[Nostalgia]

I haven't really posted in this kind of topic before, but don't blame me, I only just found out that something like this even exists on CS. ^^'

Anyway, books?

I would definitely recommend everything by Meg Cabot.
The Harry Potter series (yep, just another HP fan XD)
Lots more, but I don't remember half of them right now.

Anyway, I need help. For the past...half a year, or so, I've developed a slight crush on one of the boys in my class at school. He's the popular, sporty-but-not-fantastic-at-other-lessons type. He gets good grades, he's just not the best. He has a good sense of humour, he's fun to talk to, very cute (hazel eyes that range from dark brown to gold and green, straight blond hair). I used to talk to him trough texting, talking over the phone, writing to each other on communication programmes, etc. We could talk for hours, just writing what the other was doing, and I think we had a lot of fun. He and his friends kept taking some of my school stuff out of my bags, then making me chase them through the building to get them back...We could always laugh and it was just fun, simple to talk to each other. Once, when we did surveys on who the other person likes when talking (He started it! Not me!), he said that he liked me. Of course, I replied that I didn't believe him (Which I don't. According to me and half of the class, he likes the class 'star girl'.) and then he started asking me. When he asked about himself, I answered maybe, then gave him the full answer in French, which he doesn't know. Then he got me to join into a conversation with two of my other classmates and when we finally stopped talking, it was very late, so in the end he never found out. We talked for a couple of weeks after that, but then I decided to see the new Harry Potter movie and invited him and one of my other male friends. They both like HP, so that was normal. The other friend backed out, and he (my crush) started having doubts about going. I managed to talk him into it, pointing out that there won't really be much time for small talk when we're watching the movie. I didn't actually treat the meeting as a date, but I was still so terrified that my head was basically exploding when thinking about every little thing that could go wrong. It was really awkward, but we both survived. Then, I was sick and I couldn't go to school for a week, and when I came back, he was no longer speaking to me, joking around or teasing me as usual. He didn't contact me, he didn't do anything. I tried talking to him a few times, but the conversation always ended really quickly, fading out. I stopped, half got over him and continued to go on like nothing had happened. I lived like this for a few weeks, and up to a couple of days before today, he started teasing me again. Only a little, but still smiling and acting more normal around me. Of course, now he's put this sliver of hope and bomb of fright in my head, and I have no idea what to do. We're both going to different schools after the summer, but I remember that he said he would still like to keep in contact with me after we stop seeing each other every day (back when he was speaking to me). Could anybody help me with this situation? If you tell me not to do anything, that's fine. But, I just miss talking to him in the evenings, even if it was just as friends.

Wow, that was a lot. I didn't think this was so complicated. o_O

[Earth]

I would just act like it's a natural for him to start talking to you. Talk back to him and joke around. Just be yourself and he will hopefully become more of your friend again. Don't tell him any of the emotional junk cuz it scares boys. Just be his friend again and hopefully it will get father

So today I told him after my humanities class and he just went like ok thats good and kinda smiled. Then we had to go to our classes. I told him before we went that he had to tell me who he liked and he gave me a thumbs up. No txt from him yet.... Ya so then in Year book this guy whos my friend, hes like my gay stright guy friend, were talking and I told him about it and he said be careful because he might not even like me and is trying to let me down easy. But then this other guy had asked last week if we were going out so I have no Freaking clue and my gut feels just depressed becasue I still want to be his friend and im afraid that it's gonna be werid and not the same anymore. thats why i didn't tell him before but i was getting tired of hiding it and all my friends were telling me to tell him......

[Nostalgia]

I would just act like it's a natural for him to start talking to you. Talk back to him and joke around. Just be yourself and he will hopefully become more of your friend again. Don't tell him any of the emotional junk cuz it scares boys. Just be his friend again and hopefully it will get father

Except, I actually miss talking to him as a friend more than anything. I don't even want to date him anymore. And I'm doing all that, but it still seems like he hates me or something. The emotional junk is basically gone, but he still stays away from me, even though I always acted (and still act) completely normal around him. I don't even know what could have happened. What else could I do to make him be my friend again?

[Mirandamay]

Amiselle-I think you should just straight up ask him if you did anything wrong or if for any reason you did something to make him not talk as much. I think it would put your worring to rest. Maybe it is all just a misunderstanding and he believes he may of done something wrong as well. Best way to look at it is you will never know for sure if you dont ask And if he is truly your friend he will tell you. I dont see any reason as to why he would not. <3

Earth-Hmm its kind of hard to say with a thumbs up haha it could go so many ways. Have you talked to him at all since?