| TheComfortCorner | v.5

[caesou]

i don't have a word to describe how i'm feeling right now
my macbook is so crappy
it won't let me on oekaki and now for the fourth time, won't let me save an image and just freeze on me
i have to let it die and it takes forever
i just want hugs and support
i'm so upset and i just want to bash at apple

[ever changing]

Need a few PMs, please.

[Young and Beautiful]

You were supposed to get better for me, not worse /.\

[MoonStone00]

Honestly dont know what to do anymore. my scumbag brain makes me think im a bother to everyone or burden or even im just annoying. I cant help but think that im not able to do anything without screwing up. I REALLY hate myself and although im slowly trying to get better and take care of myself im not getting the support i need.

I get terrible thoughts daily or dont want to get out of bed and do anything and im so tired of it. I get no joy anymore except for gifting some users here on cs and even then i just havent felt like doing thag lately just because i feel i go unnoticed to everyone. I mean i dont need ro be told im doing a good job or anything its just i dont know. i feel like im in the dark. I dont wanna bother any of my friends and i feel they wouldnt notice if i just disapeared for a while.

Why am i always like this when i should be so happy? why cant i be happy anymore? I cant even make my boyfrkend of 3 and a half years feel better.

[Captain Chomp]

Happy birthday to me, no really have a friend over doesn't want to anything I want to do, my dad.is cranky, a new year without my mom I just it sucks

[starry palms]

tiny rant //
im supposed to be the strong one but i still need support why cant people see that
sigh

[fika.]

guys i am so sorry. i couldn't get my laptop last night as my brother was very drunk and i have a huge phobia of sick (which he was being) and i didn't want to get my laptop from the bedroom he was staying in.

also i'm ill so i woke up at 13:30 which was like 24 minutes ago. sorry for the extremely late replies! i'm doing it from page 811!

what is wrong with me

I always get my hopes up and then they come crashing down?? Ugh

I'm hopeless... too kind to stand up for myself

Oh well, I guess ill have to wait. Its too late now.

nothing is wrong with you!
my friend was like you, she's such a kind person but never stuck up for herself.
now she has, she is much happier.
maybe start low. if someone disagrees with you tell them it's your own opinion
and you'll stick to it.
you are not hopeless.
stay strong! <3

I need 2015 to be better..
All this year I've lost friends.
I've got one person now.
Every time I try to talk to people about my problems they either ignore me or run away.
Or they blame my problems on ME.
I just want all the bullying to end. I want to be happy again.
That's all I've ever wanted.

you also have me! (;
I won't ignore you.
Don't let them blame your own problems on yourself.
Dump those friends, they don't seem nice.
Maybe ask to move schools?
Tell your guardian or a teacher, or anyone.
Bullying is a serious topic and the only way I got the bullying at me to end,
was by telling someone. That's the first step!
Roll on 2016, it'll hopefully be good for everyone.

i know i have to write her a letter
she has to know how i feel
but i'm scared
even with how badly she messed me up
i don't want to hurt her
i still want her to be happy

write how you feel. your feelings
come before hers. just write what you want to write,
and then reread it. if you feel a sentence is a bit too cruel,
get a black marker and cross it off.
your feelings are way more important, and if she messed you up
she needs to know how you feel.
good luck <3

im shaking and crying and it's 4 hours and 48 minutes till new years
i'm surrounded by people but never felt so alone

hiii.
it's 2016 now.
i felt the same!
but guess what c:
2016 will be better for everyone.
i can't really say much now as i'm 18 hours too late,
but y'know. good luck! <3

im really close to giving up and i don't know what to do.

don't give up!
we all love you!
you'll be missed dearly!
you're so sweet and caring, dump
the negatives in your life and find the positives!
you got this!

I wish I wasn't so upset, really especially not the day right before my birthday, but what else am I supposed to do? Honestly it's the day after the new years eve, so it's like it's nothing anyways and this year it feels like just another day because it's the first year I won't have mom with me and I miss her so much and my dad's going to go out with friends, he never did this on new year's eve and I'm just worried, he stays out longer than he says and I'm just this entire year other than 2 months have just been crap.

it's okay to cry. you can have an off day or month or year or anything. A song that helps me feel happy (you might know it) is all time low - weightless. it's so great and lifts my spirits up; and it falls into your favourite bands genre c:.
new years is gross, i've never liked it. every year without fail i cry. i hate it so much.
it's okay to miss your mum, and maybe tell your dad how you felt.
if you ever need a friend i am here <3
happy birthday <3

Health related problems I've been having this week..
This is really just a rant btw, you don't have to reply, but can if you wanna~

For a long while now my wrists have been bugging me. My father thinks I might have carpal tunnel syndrome, but when I look it up online and read about it, it just doesn't sound like the pain I've been experiencing. For the most part my wrists are fine, but on occasion they will start hurting for seemingly no reason. My right one flared up two days ago, and its became so painful that I had to break out my wrist brace. I can't lift anything with my right hand, even lifting a fork to my mouth to eat hurts! This has happened before and the pain usually subsides after a couple of days, however in the meantime i'm literally almost in tears due to how bad this hurts.

Yesterday I started feeling a pain in my lower right stomach area. I was simply standing at the sink cleaning out a cup and all of a sudden it was like someone stabbed me. It was similar to a pain I experienced a while back, but where as that pain lasted a full day, yesterday it only lasted maybe a minute before settling down. I've felt it a couple of different times since yesterday, but for the most part its more of an annoyance than something bothering me, if that makes sense?

My left ankles been bugging me since yesterday too. It doesn't hurt to walk or anything, but if I move it a certain way while i'm sitting down a stabbing pain shoots up my leg. Dunno why its started hurting, I can't think of anything I've done to cause it to hurt.

My jaw hurts on the lower left side, its basically impossible for me chew food on that side. Its all because I busted a tooth two days ago, something I've never done before and something I didn't know would hurt as bad as it did ;-;

maybe you should go to a doctor ;v;
if it keeps up and still all hurts by monday you should seriously go, that sounds so painful.
for now i just say take a break from whatever you do, and get an ice pack and just
lay there with it on the hurting areas. maybe a heating pad for your stomach.
good luck <3

There is a terror warning pretty close to our city and a friend of mine is there to celebrate New Years Day... I hope everything will be fine.

is your friend ok?
i don't believe anything happend.
was it in germany?
i hope you're all ok! <3

My sister won't just accept the fact that I made a mistake, and do in fact feel bad. She won't stop harassing me for it. I'm so upset I don't want to deal with this today I need a hug

everyone makes mistakes.
make your sister sit down and explain to her how you feel,
and how she is making you feel.
she won't know until you tell her.
good luck!

Twist and Shout is very upsetting...for those of you who know what that is, I'm sorry..

my heart. the beatles are amazing. if that's what you even meant xD
don't apologise.
you'll feel better soon <3

this is nothing, you can ignore it if you want c:

gahhhahhgh, so sick right now ;-;
in summer, too! i was almost throwing up last night, new years eve.
i felt like i needed to but i didnt. reflux agh ;u;
dizziness + confusion, headaches, shaking, claminess, sore throat, blocked nose, achy legs, sore stomach, yeah, feelin great :^)
my mum thought id have a fever but nooo, its impossible for me to get a fever lol
my temp was cold

sorry bout that small rant. had to get that out there.

heyyyy i almost threw up too!
mainly because my brother was being sick and my darn phobia go in the way,
but i'm all good now.
are you okay now?
i'm always sick on new years.
you can get through this, it'll all be over
in a couple of days <3

I'm honestly sick of waiting on people who can't give you the courtesy to let you know that they're not going to be online or can't reply at the moment. It just takes a moment of your time to write something quick out, but apparently that's not possible. Thanks a lot for considering me, I do it for you. Why can't you do the same thing in return? It's really nice of you. Not.

some people may be busy.
i know i am and sometimes i'm forced to come off my laptop mid-reply.
just give them a few hours, they may be going through something tough right now.
<3

i don't have a word to describe how i'm feeling right now
my macbook is so crappy
it won't let me on oekaki and now for the fourth time, won't let me save an image and just freeze on me
i have to let it die and it takes forever
i just want hugs and support
i'm so upset and i just want to bash at apple

maybe restart your laptop!

You were supposed to get better for me, not worse /.\

you'll be okay, whatever you're dealing with right now.
<3

Honestly dont know what to do anymore. my scumbag brain makes me think im a bother to everyone or burden or even im just annoying. I cant help but think that im not able to do anything without screwing up. I REALLY hate myself and although im slowly trying to get better and take care of myself im not getting the support i need.

I get terrible thoughts daily or dont want to get out of bed and do anything and im so tired of it. I get no joy anymore except for gifting some users here on cs and even then i just havent felt like doing thag lately just because i feel i go unnoticed to everyone. I mean i dont need ro be told im doing a good job or anything its just i dont know. i feel like im in the dark. I dont wanna bother any of my friends and i feel they wouldnt notice if i just disapeared for a while.

Why am i always like this when i should be so happy? why cant i be happy anymore? I cant even make my boyfrkend of 3 and a half years feel better.

you are not a screw up!

you are definitely not unnoticed. look at all these appreciative members.
your brain is cruel, try not to listen to it.
you're just not feeling up to it, and that's okay!
maybe rearrrange your room, or decorate it. change the bed quilts.
go for a long walk with music. walk with your boyfriend.
i know you can't be bothered to but i assure you, you'll feel better once you do it.
good luck <3

Happy birthday to me, no really have a friend over doesn't want to anything I want to do, my dad.is cranky, a new year without my mom I just it sucks

maybe get your friend to do something.
try and distract yourself.
you'll be ok.

I would appreciate someone who could PM me that is familiar with transgender related topics
thank you very kindly

i sadly am not, but good luck with whatever you're going through!

tiny rant //
im supposed to be the strong one but i still need support why cant people see that
sigh

i'm here to support you!
you don't ALWAYS have to be the strong one.
it's okay to take a days break and cry.
just take a days break and do what you like, eat what
you like, and drink what you like. watch what you like,
and listen to what you like.
an off day.
no one is judging you.





good luck to anyone out there needing it, and may 2016 be better than 2015!

[StudioC]

-Story-

My friend, we'll call him K.
K and I were good friends for the most part of last school year, until December came along. He then wanted to be more than just friends.

So we kinda dated, this lasted til August of 2015. He was getting to tired of it and just cut us off right then and there. We had loved each other but he simply was done with it.

So we went our seperate ways still trying to be friends. It was awkward as heck. He found another girl; S. S is a known heart breaker, and she doesnt care who she breaks.

K is a sweet, caring, boy. Going out with someone like S had disaster written all over it. When S had chewed him up during multiple points in their relationship, I would comfort him. I offered multiple chances for him to come back with me. He'd then start to come back but then blew me off.
I still remained his friend.

Recently S, has been flirting with other guys, kissing on them and such. K whenever I try to help him, always tries to convince me that his relationship is perfect and he's happy. But I can see straight through that boy.

I know shes not treating him right, I know shes just breaking his heart, and I want to help him. I want him to let me in like he used too.

We continue being friends. His relationship worsens. Finally last night, after watching the New Years party... While I wishing all my friends happy new year. I got a text from K.

Mind you, I had been trying to talk to him for about a week with no answer. I sent him Happy New Year and he replied with: "Happy New year, I'm sorry."

"Why?"
"Because I broke your heart and after tonight I know how it feels."

I went on to tell him its okay and I tried to help him. It was no use. I feel bad for him and I want to help but I dont know how.

[fika.]

-Story-

My friend, we'll call him K.
K and I were good friends for the most part of last school year, until December came along. He then wanted to be more than just friends.

So we kinda dated, this lasted til August of 2015. He was getting to tired of it and just cut us off right then and there. We had loved each other but he simply was done with it.

So we went our seperate ways still trying to be friends. It was awkward as heck. He found another girl; S. S is a known heart breaker, and she doesnt care who she breaks.

K is a sweet, caring, boy. Going out with someone like S had disaster written all over it. When S had chewed him up during multiple points in their relationship, I would comfort him. I offered multiple chances for him to come back with me. He'd then start to come back but then blew me off.
I still remained his friend.

Recently S, has been flirting with other guys, kissing on them and such. K whenever I try to help him, always tries to convince me that his relationship is perfect and he's happy. But I can see straight through that boy.

I know shes not treating him right, I know shes just breaking his heart, and I want to help him. I want him to let me in like he used too.

We continue being friends. His relationship worsens. Finally last night, after watching the New Years party... While I wishing all my friends happy new year. I got a text from K.

Mind you, I had been trying to talk to him for about a week with no answer. I sent him Happy New Year and he replied with: "Happy New year, I'm sorry."

"Why?"
"Because I broke your heart and after tonight I know how it feels."

I went on to tell him its okay and I tried to help him. It was no use. I feel bad for him and I want to help but I dont know how.

be there for him.
was anyone there for you when he broke yours?
after a break up all you want is a shoulder to cry on.
go distract him. take him to watch a movie.
there's nothing worse than going through a break up alone.
good luck to the both of you <3

[hellebore]

I know this sounds stupid, but someone please pray for my leopard gecko, Caspar. He might die and I can't take him to a vet