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He's out of jail... Yay... Right... But he doesn't want me anymore

I'm sorry about the situation that might have accured however try not to let it get to you as despite how things might be bad times won't last forever and things will calm down eventually also if someone doesn't want you then quite frankly that's their loss not yours because they lost the opportunity to get to know a truly lovely individual so don't let them get to you and try to keep going and keep being strong and show them what they are missing from not spending time with you as your so much more wonderful then you realise so make them regret not spending time with you as you really do deserve better and you always have I hope this helps a bit and if you might like you could always pm me if you might want to talk about it a little but I hope things improve for you soon and I wish you a very merry Christmas

ugh i feel so sick
im tired i cant focus my nose is so stuffy i have a sore throat and im coughing i havent ate or drank alot in 2 days i feel like im gonna die hnng

I understand how you feel as I'm not feeling so good myself however perhaps it might be worth trying to get some medicine go help the illness calm a little also if you can't focus and your feeling tired it might be worth trying to have a little rest as it could help you feel more refreshed and perhaps put you in a better frame of mind also try to drink something and have a little something to eat if you feel ready for it as even though you might be feeling sick having no food or drink could make you feel worse also as for the drink you could get some coughing medicine in the form of a hot drink as this way you stay hydrated but your also helping yourself get better as it could help your sore throat I hope this helps a little feel free to pm me if you might like to talk about it a little I hope you get well soon and I wish you a merry Christmas c:

lol woops lost 8 pounds again

Try not to worry about it too much as worrying about it could make you feel worse and perhaps even make you loose more weight if you don't want to loose the weight however don't worry about your size sometimes it can be difficult however everyone is comfortable at different sizes and its perfectly understandable however try not to bring yourself down about it as it might make you feel worse and just try to take things in little paces that your ready for if your looking to put on more weight I hope this helps a little and if you might like you could always pm me if you might want to talk about it a little and I wish you a merry Christmas c: b]

Could someone maybe PM me (preferably a trans person or someone who supports the trans community)?

[b]I'm not trans but I do support so I'm pming c:

My grandma just died.

I'm sorry for you loss as I understand how it feels to loose someone who you love however try to remember that you never really lost her as she is in your heart and that's what matters most and nothing can ever change that fact also she wouldn't want you to feel sad because of her if anything she would want you to carry on being that lovely and wonderful individual that you always have been and to keep making her proud as she still loves you and nothing can ever change this however try to keep going and keep staying strong for her sake as she would never want you to feel sad because of her and she knows how strong you can be I know its difficult but remember you will never have to go through this pain alone and if you might like you could always pm me if you might like to talk about it a little however I hope this helps and I really do hope things get better for you as it really is the least you deserve however keep staying strong and shining bright because she is proud of you and far you have come and she will always love you

I really don't want to do gym next semester.


I really don't want to do gym next semester



I really don't want to do gym next semester


I really don't want to do gym next semester

I understand how you feel however try to stay strong as despite how difficult it can be it won't always be like this and gym will be over sooner than you think as long as you stay strong and keep trying your best and you might find that you enjoy it along the way as its always worth it to put your best efforts into anything as I promise you it will be worth it in the end I hope this helps a little and feel free to pm me if you might like to talk about it a little however I hope things get better and I wish you a very merry Christmas c:

just some sad gibber gabber

All I am is used.
No one actually wants to be my friend, they just want something from me.

My past haunts me terribly.

I cannot do anything right. I can't even live right.

I'm sorry that people use you as your a wonderful and lovely person and I know its hurtful when others do this to you as you really do deserve far better and you always have and I'm afraid kindness is something many take for granted however try not to let them bring you down as your so much better than that and you always have been and even though these people might have used you it should never make you change who you truly are as you are a fantastic individual and there will be others in future that appreciate you in every way you deserve sometimes it's just the case of finding these people however believe me when you do it will always be worth it and this pain can be forgotten about and believe me you can do things right sometimes it's just a matter of realising this however try not to be so harsh on yourself as you really are better than what you think I hope this helps a little and if you might like you could always pm me if you might want to talk about it a little however I hope things improve for you soon and I wish you a very merry Christmas and no matter what happens try to remember you won't have to go through this alone c:

look, i'm a teen, alright? i may be the youngest in the family, but i'm grown-up. i may be in high school, but hell that doesn't mean i can't take care of myself. look at the other kids who are first grade and know how to commute back home! why won't you trust me?!

i love you, mom, but sometimes your judgements are so nonsensical. i'm wearing these pants because they're comfortable, not because i'm anything else. i'm wearing this shirt because it's comfortable, not because i'm ashamed of my body. i like my things to comfortable.

and i'm stuck on the computer because what else do i do? play with the neighbors whom you don't trust?! my friends are having their vacations and i'm in the house having a staycation. i read using my phone, we're not that rich, you know. you guys are always busy, same with my bro and sis. you tell me to do things yet you provide no way for me to do those things!

ugh. and now my crush's batchmates know i have a crush on him. and he's probably going to ignore me for the rest of my high school life. i hate life.

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I understand how you feel however try not to let her get to you as I'm sure she doesn't mean to hurt you and simply cares about you I know it can be a little too much however try to talk to her about her you feel as its always worth giving your side of the story as maybe then once you have told her she can see the errors of her ways and perhaps the effects of what she is doing as it might be due to the fact she is unknowingly making you feel this way and might need a little bit of a push to relax a little more and give you more freedom however don't let it get to you I know its hard but believe me in future she will give you more freedom and allow you to do the things that you want as despite how bad things might be now it won't always be this way I hope this helps a little and if you might like you could always pm me if you might want to talk about it a little and I hope that things get better and I wish you a very merry Christmas c:

im stuck rn

no matter what i do in this situation someone is going to be emotionally crushed. if i dont speak up i will end up being hurt so so badly but if i tell them whats bothering me they will probably never talk to me again or even speak nastily to me.

theyre my friend and i love them but this thing [which i will not say] has been troubling me so much , my heart is so heavy and i feel sick.

before you tell me to do whats best for me, i know. i just physically cannot bring myself to tell them. my mind and body holds me back because it knows i would panic and cry. aaaaaa i need a hug so badly

*Huggles* I'm sorry about the situation that you're currently in however try not to worry about it too much and perhaps just take things in little steps that your ready for as I'm sure someone will understand what is happening and perhaps might like to sort it out with you however don't think about it too much I know its difficult however this could make you feel worse in the end and possibly over think things as you might find that someone else's reaction to the situation is alot more milder than you thought and they could be more understanding however I hope this helps and if you might like you could pm me if you might want to talk about it a little as you won't have to go through this alone and despite how bad things might be right now it won't always be like this forever as long as you keel trying to stay strong and keep going I hope things get better for you soon and I wish you a very merry Christmas c:

no, don't worry! I understand why you ignore me.
i wouldn't want to talk to me either
it's alright!! really!

I'm sorry if others are ignoring you however if they are it really is their loss not yours because they lost the opportunity to get to know a lovely and fantastic individual and nothing or no one can ever change that fact however try not to let them bring you down as your so much better than that it every way and you always have been so try not to be so harsh on yourself as believe me you will meet people in future who respect and appreciate you for who you are and those people are the people who matter most as for the people who ignore you they don't matter nor ever will so try to keep going and keep being that wonderful person that you have always been as it will be worth it in the end and I hope this helps a little if you might like you could pm me if you might want to talk about it a little however I hope things improve for you soon and I wish you a very merry Christmas c:

[underdog,]

my friend called me depressing 3 or 4 times yesterday.
she's making me even more depressed
she wants me to change my personality
i told her i cant.
i hate how she's plucking out my flaws like this

[tastes like ink.]

christmas is almost here and i'm dreading it for the most part. the gifts are somewhat exciting and i'm very grateful for them and my family, but the holiday itself holds no religious value for me since i'm not really christian anymore. that's not really the issue at hand, though. my brother, his girlfriend, and friend are coming over and that's what's kinda ruining it for me. i have nothing against his girlfriend or friends but my brother and i don't get along to put it lightly. we can't be in the same room without me wanting to rip out his throat. usually i'll seal myself in my room until he leaves but my mother makes me eat dinner with the family on holidays despite our issues together. i'm not looking to forgive him or even talk to him, but does anyone have any advice on how to cope with someone you cannot bear being in the same room with you without ruining the mood? i don't want to be 'that' person who's a jerk and just turns the atmosphere sour by saying something rude, which i have a tendency of doing. we will only be in the same room for maybe half an hour to an hour, but that's such a long time for me. i don't know if i can make it without wanting to fight him. aGGHH. if anyone has any solid advice/family problems as well please reply soon!

edit: i'm not looking to make up to him. i just want to know how to cope with him being in the same room as me without wanting to kill him

[epsil]

rant - don't reply;

i trY to get my stories out of my head in words but I just lose the muse to write HRnNRnGHH

[thegirlwhodrewcats]

my friend called me depressing 3 or 4 times yesterday.
she's making me even more depressed
she wants me to change my personality
i told her i cant.
i hate how she's plucking out my flaws like this

Society is always telling you to be happy so your friend is likely just repeating those "inspirational" quotes. In reality it's okay to be depressed because it is the time that you take to mourn whatever losses you've experienced. You don't have to suddenly change your personality just because your friend is feeling sad from your depression. In your own time you'll feel okay eventually.

Side note: if your experiencing a more serious form of depression, you should seek physiological help from a therapist because people don't always simply grow out of serious depression

[underdog,]

my friend called me depressing 3 or 4 times yesterday.
she's making me even more depressed
she wants me to change my personality
i told her i cant.
i hate how she's plucking out my flaws like this

Society is always telling you to be happy so your friend is likely just repeating those "inspirational" quotes. In reality it's okay to be depressed because it is the time that you take to mourn whatever losses you've experienced. You don't have to suddenly change your personality just because your friend is feeling sad from your depression. In your own time you'll feel okay eventually.

Side note: if your experiencing a more serious form of depression, you should seek physiological help from a therapist because people don't always simply grow out of serious depression

don't worry, my depression isn't serious.

anyway, she's like,

"Oh, here comes the depression again!"

it just ticks me off.

and im also negative, which makes it worse. :x

[thegirlwhodrewcats]

christmas is almost here and i'm dreading it for the most part. the gifts are somewhat exciting and i'm very grateful for them and my family, but the holiday itself holds no religious value for me since i'm not really christian anymore. that's not really the issue at hand, though. my brother, his girlfriend, and friend are coming over and that's what's kinda ruining it for me. i have nothing against his girlfriend or friends but my brother and i don't get along to put it lightly. we can't be in the same room without me wanting to rip out his throat. usually i'll seal myself in my room until he leaves but my mother makes me eat dinner with the family on holidays despite our issues together. i'm not looking to forgive him or even talk to him, but does anyone have any advice on how to cope with someone you cannot bear being in the same room with you without ruining the mood? i don't want to be 'that' person who's a jerk and just turns the atmosphere sour by saying something rude, which i have a tendency of doing. we will only be in the same room for maybe half an hour to an hour, but that's such a long time for me. i don't know if i can make it without wanting to fight him. aGGHH. if anyone has any solid advice/family problems as well please reply soon!

edit: i'm not looking to make up to him. i just want to know how to cope with him being in the same room as me without wanting to kill him

Think about important things that are not him. Think about school, pets, crushes, stuff you've forgotten to do or goals for 2016. Even if you get yourself worked up about other things it will be a distraction from your brother. While your at the table try to keep conversation with others minimal because it will either be sour you or antisocial you. Hope I helped.

[Lincoln]

I just need to scream... so...


I CAN NEVER DO IT! I CAN'T GET 700 HAMSTERS BEFORE CHRISTMAS! *CRI* ARGRGRGRGRGARGARAGARGARAGARHHHH!!!!!!!
And I am seriously missing my uncle... I couldn't stop crying last night.

[thegirlwhodrewcats]

my friend called me depressing 3 or 4 times yesterday.
she's making me even more depressed
she wants me to change my personality
i told her i cant.
i hate how she's plucking out my flaws like this

Society is always telling you to be happy so your friend is likely just repeating those "inspirational" quotes. In reality it's okay to be depressed because it is the time that you take to mourn whatever losses you've experienced. You don't have to suddenly change your personality just because your friend is feeling sad from your depression. In your own time you'll feel okay eventually.

Side note: if your experiencing a more serious form of depression, you should seek physiological help from a therapist because people don't always simply grow out of serious depression

don't worry, my depression isn't serious.

anyway, she's like,

"Oh, here comes the depression again!"

it just ticks me off.

and im also negative, which makes it worse.

It seems you two are both kinda ticked off at each other. Maybe there are some minor friendship disputes for you two to settle before they get any worse

[thegirlwhodrewcats]

@thegirlwhodrewcats

He's 100% legit, I've skyped him many times before and he is who he said he is (unlike some other people that I've met before *shudders*)

Ok well than assuming he's not pretending to love you, you should arrange a meeting. If you can drive a car (I have no idea how old you are) you could go to him or if he can drive a car he can come to you. If you are both kids and your parents don't known about this it makes things more complicated. If your parents are going anywhere near him for errands or something go to a certain cafe at a certain time and contact him to be there too. Tell him to do the same thing if he's around your hometown. Another, more risky, way to do this is tell your parents about him and ask them to drive you there. However, if your parents don't agree, tgeyigbt be more cautious about letting you chat with him. The common problem with long distance relationships is, well, the distance. Expect that this entire thing might not work.